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29 Jul Rules of attraction – Why white men marry Asian women and Asian men don’t marry white women

I studied abroad at the National University of Singapore for a semester my sophomore year. I couldn’t help but notice a peculiar trend: My white male friends were fascinated with the idea to hit on Asian girls. My female friends didn’t share the ‘yellow fever.’

Why the different attitudes?

The skew is not just anecdotal. In the United States, there are 529,000 white male – Asian female married couples and just 219,000 Asian male – white female married couples, according to the 2010 U.S. census. Similarly, the number of black male – white female marriages is 2.3 times bigger than the number of white male – black female pairs. With African Americans and Asian Americans, the ratios are even further imbalanced, with roughly five times more Asian female – African male marriages than Asian male – African female marriages.

The phenomenon is not even confined to the U.S. In 2013, cognitive psychologist Michael Lewis at the University of Cardiff in Wales in the U.K. asked 20 females and 20 males to rate 600 Facebook pictures of British, sub-Saharan Africans, and East Asians. The participants consistently voted black men and Asian women as the most attractive representatives of each gender; Asian men and black women were seen as the least desirable partners.

“Darker skin is always associated with more masculine faces,” Lewis told me in a phone conversation. Difference in height can also partially explain the observed results, he said. Society imposes a “male-superior norm” that a man should be taller than his partner; and blacks are on average taller than whites, who are taller than Asians, he says.

I thought there must be more to the picture. I set off to answer the question, What informs our perception of beauty?  Is there really something profound about face shape, height and body features that defines attraction? Or, is beauty merely a social construct amplified by popular culture?

After more than a dozen interviews, I found some fascinating answers that go back two centuries of history. This post is long overdue (two years after I returned from Singapore) but I want to share my findings with you.

Three overarching stereotypes

Three major stereotypes – that have come into being in history and have since been reinforced by popular culture – inform the perceptions of beauty in Western culture today, says Nitasha Sharma, an anthropology professor at Northwestern University who researches difference, inequality and racism in Asian-black relations. 

The first stereotype is that black men are aggressive and hyper-masculine – “walking penises” – and Asian women are the perfect wives – docile, submissive, obedient, shy and waiting to be saved, Sharma says. Second, Asian men have been de-sexualized as small and weak brainiacs excelling at math but unable to get the girl, while black women have been seen as too aggressive, independent and outspoken to be proper wives. The third stereotype portrays whites in a position of power and “globally desired,” a key to gaining a higher social status.

Love is not colorblind, Sharma admits. However, to claim that height and shape or symmetries of the face make some races more desirable than others is a “complete baloney,” she says.

If you think of Asian men or black women as less attractive than other races, it is because of you, not because of them, Sharma says. Since the day you were born, different influences on your mind – the bedtime stories your Mom read, the cartoons you saw as kid, the school you went to and the wallpaper on your computer – have come together to create a cohesive image of the world.

How the entertainment industry primes us

Popular culture – movies, TV, cartoons, books – aim to reflect reality and end up reinforcing it as well. “This is not a matter of brainwashing,” Sharma says. “It’s how people make sense of their position in society.” Stereotyping puts people in categories and helps us explain a complex world with oversimplification.

Percent of time actors use profanity on screen

89 %

Black

17% %

White

Look at those figures: On screen, black characters use profanity 89 percent of the time, versus white characters who use profanity 17 percent of the time. Blacks are depicted in physical violence 56 percent of the time, while whites play violent roles just 11 percent of the time, according to Robert Entman and Andrew Rojecki’s 2000 book “The Black Image in the White Mind.”

Blacks are further shown as either lazy or hypersexual, while Asian men, to the extent that they are portrayed at all, are either momma’s boys or effeminate computer dorks with no social skills, Entman says.

If you can come up with an example [in movies] where an Asian man is shown in a sexual role with a white woman, I’d be shocked. Shocked!” Sharma says.

Asian men normally do not take the romantic lead. During its 15-year run, the NBC show “ER” did not star a single Asian in a leading male role. “Grey’s Anatomy” showed the romances of six white characters – exclusively with other white people – and between a black male, Dr. Preston Burke, and an Asian female, Dr. Cristina Yang. An iPhone 4 FaceTime commercial features three couples – all of them white men video calling either white or Asian female mates. There are countless more examples.

Some notable big-screen exceptions include Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan and Jet Li. Even so, if Asians are portrayed as heroes, they are mostly martial arts masters and not necessarily a magnet for women, says James Berardinelli, a film critic at Reelviews Movie Reviews.

The 2000 blockbuster “Romeo Must Die” features Jet Li’s character who falls for Trish O’Day, the daughter of a money-dealer. In the final scene of the original cut, Jet Li’s character kisses O’Day, played by the late hip-hop star Aaliyah. However, test screenings showed that viewers did not approve of the kiss; the final cut saw the kiss changed to a hug and a fourth-grade-style holding of hands. This interaction between an Asian male and black female may have been unappealing, or too daring, to viewers.

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Long Duck Dong, a foreign exchange students, plays the role of a total dork who with sophomoric innuendo keeps proposing to suburban teenager Samantha, while she craves romantic attention from the high-school’s hunk Jake. This 1984 Universal Pictures film has 86 percent approval rating by critics on Rotten Tomatoes.

The 1984 American coming-of-age comedy film “Sixteen Candles,” which drew box office sales three times its budget and received mostly positive critical acclaim, portrays the quirky Asian Long Duk Dong who has a fascination with white girls who find him unattractive. He is horny yet emasculated by his obvious foreignness (he doesn’t know what quiche is and uses a knife and fork like chopsticks).

Only recently has Hollywood deviated a bit from the cliché with characters like Detective Lieutenant Chin Ho Kelly of “Hawaii Five-O.” Walter Hill’s 2013 action film “Bullet to the Head” stars Sylvester Stallone whose character’s daughter initiates a romantic relationship with Asian actor Sung Kang. The “Fast and Furious” franchise also breaks the stereotype in movies three to six, in which Taiwanese-born American director Justin Lin hired Sung Kang to play the role of the macho Han Seoul-Oh.

Origins of the feminization of Asians

The stigma of Asians’ femininity began with the first wave of Chinese immigrants to America in the late 19th century, says Ji-Yeon Yuh, an Asian-American history professor at Northwestern University. Few of the immigrants were women. As Asian men went  in great numbers to seek white wives, white American men saw the invasion as a peril and started branding the Asian bachelors as asexual and homosexual.

In 1850, the Chinese community of San Francisco consisted of 4018 men and only seven women. In 1855, women made up only 2 percent of the Chinese population in the U.S., and even in 1890 they increased to just 4.8 percent.

The political cartoons of that time in Harper’s Magazine ridiculed Chinese bachelors for taking on “girly” work – cooking in restaurants and doing the laundry – when in fact those were the only jobs available.

The face of Dr. Fu Manchu, an Asian villain keen on committing murders with arcane methods. First introduced in book series, Fu Manchu, has since been depicted in film, TV and comic strips. Albeit wicked, his depiction is hardly masculine.

One of the most popular fictional characters of the early 20th century is an Asian called Fu Manchu, the archetype of an evil criminal genius. He appeared in film, television, music, radio and comic strips as powerful, yet “exotic and somewhat erotic,” feminine with long fingernails and a long flowing robe, Yuh says. “He is everything but masculine.”

Another problem is that East and West cultures think of manliness differently. In Confucian societies – China, Korea and Japan – the masculine man is intelligent, wise, respectful, abiding by the rules of society and caring for his parents and extended family; he is a filial son, good husband and a good brother, Yuh says.

America’s epitome of masculinity is the cowboy riding a horse with a gun, a father protecting his family with a gun or a soldier doing his nation’s duty with a gun, Yuh says. American masculine men need not be charming, talkative or emotional, as long as they are tall, dark and handsome. That’s not necessarily true in Asia.

The closest translation of the word “masculine” to Korean would be namja-daeun, which literally means “characteristics of a man” and connotes someone who “has integrity and loyalty, keeps his promises; he does what he says he does, and achieves it,” Yuh says.

America encourages extrovert personality traits like speaking up and selling yourself out. “But in China people usually value the strength within oneself,” says Xun Wang, 26, a native of Nanjing city in Jiangsu province in China, who came to America to complete a PhD degree in civil engineering at Cornell University. I contacted him after reading some of his comments on Quora. American girls are attracted to confident machos, he says, while most Asians esteem knowledgeable and insightful men and don’t mind soft-spoken and timid boys.

Origins of the masculinization of blacks

The masculinization of blacks bears a strikingly similar origin to that of the feminization of Asians. In the days of slavery when white men started having black mistresses, white women saw black female slaves as a threat to their families and branded them as masculine and “out of control sexuality,” says Northwestern Professor Yuh. Because African-American women did the same kind of hard physical labor as men, the reputation was easy to establish. As a result, “in the marriage market, the value of black women is highly devalued.”

If you ask a man why he is not attracted to a black female, the chances are he will think of the same stereotypes like someone who likes black females. But the first person will see the stereotypes with negative connotation, while the second person will see them in a positive light, says Jovan Campbell, an African-American from Chicago. I chatted with her on Skype.

“We are [stereotypically] loud, obnoxious and severely in debt,” Campbell says. Most men interpret a black woman’s independence as a be-in-your-face type of arrogance, deprived of femininity and “improper” for ladies, she says.

I was quite stricken when I found on the web a thriving community called Asian Men and Black Women Persuasion (AMBWP). The club is a venue for black females to meet Asian males. It has a Meetup page, chapters in major American cities and 2,000 members in a closed group on Facebook.

What remains an uncharted territory for most is the “secret gold piece of jewelry” for Rabia Abdul, 35, an African-American Sunni Muslim from Newton, Massachusetts. I found her on Asian Men and Black Women Persuasion. Abdul grew up watching Bruce Lee’s martial art movies, had her first crush on him as a teenager and at the age of 25 “came out” to her friends (she uses “come out” to mean admitting that she is attracted to Asian men). Previously married for a Vietnamese man, she is now dating a Korean-American.

Mixing races at schools has most recently also helped remove the stigma on black females and Asian males. I also spoke with David Lee Chu Sarchet, 24, another member of Asian Men and Black Women Persuasion. Sarchet went to Colorado’s Harrison High School, which enrolls 69 percent minority students – 19 percent black, 43 percent Hispanic and 6 percent Asian. He sees black women  just as attractive as whites – and even a bit more. Sarchet says this is because he went to a diverse school where interracial dating was the norm.

“I like their bottle figure,” he says. “I like how smooth their skin is.” He then told me in detail about the appeal of a black female’s “body curves, lips, fuller figure and skin color.” No matter how old they get, they always look young.”

How whites fit into the picture

The final perception that informs our perception of beauty is the desirability of white skin globally, Northwestern anthropologist Sharma says.

“I don’t think you can find a society where dark skin is praised over white skin,” she says. America as a global force politically, culturally and economically defines what’s desirable. The U.S. was founded and is still ruled predominantly by white men, she says.

Some women of color approach white men to get better social status. “If a Filipina marries a westerner, her family sees dollars,” says Sheryl Berardinelli, the wife of film critic Berardinelli, who is ethnically Chinese and grew up in the Philippines. “It’s a very desirable match, and the family would pursue it even if the woman isn’t excited by the idea,” she says.

“The social order with white males on top in this country is alive and well. A white male can marry anybody he wants and he will never be subject to the same kind of social and societal disapproval a woman would,” says Cheryl Judice, a Northwestern University sociology professor and an author of the book “Interracial Marriages Between Black Women and White Men.”

John Lennon and Yoko Ono’s 1969 marriage was daring and it sent waves across the globe. One can only speculate how much Ono’s exotic spirit helped enthrall Lennon.

White man’s desire to marry a “mystic” creature from a land far away dates back to the age of colonization when along with war, sex and marriage flourished, Sharma says. It was common for British colonizers to have relationships – even whole families – with Indian concubines. French, Portuguese, Spanish and Dutch did the same in Indochina, Africa and South America. Americans have also brought home war brides from World War II, the Korean War and the Vietnam War, Sharma says. The trend became especially popular in the 1970s, during the feminist movement in the U.S., when American women became “uncontrollable” and pamphlets that Asians were submissive and completely oriented to serve as wives captured American men’s imagination, Yuh says.

Since then men have continued to fetishize Asian women. In fact, filmmaker Debbie Lum’s award-winning documentary “Seeking Asian Female,” which aired on PBS in 2013, follows for five years the life of Steven, an American who exotifies Asians as man-pleasing sex kittens. Aging and twice-divorced, he digs into the deep web in search of a young bride from China; he connects with the much younger Sandy from a rural village in the Anhui province in China, visits her a few times in China and takes her to the U.S. on a K-1 engagement visa.

It’s a problem to put people in categories

I grew up ashamed that being Asian I was ugly. I didn’t have my first girlfriend until I was 19 because of that,” Sarchet says.

Sarchet is half-white but identifies as Asian. He is an offspring of a white father from the Air Force and a first-generation Taiwanese immigrant. Sarchet cooks burgers for Sonic Drive-In in Colorado, studies social services at Pikes Peak Community College and wants to get a graduate degree, get married and have children.

“But if I have daughters, I’m gonna only buy them black Barbie dolls or Asian Barbie dolls. I don’t want them growing up thinking that they are not beautiful just because they are not white,” he says.

Sarchet made the decision after seeing a YouTube video that shows how 15 out of 21 black children prefer a white doll when asked to choose between identical white and black toys. When the interviewer asks why the other toy looks bad, kids overwhelmingly respond, “Because it’s black.”

The video was produced by a New York-based African-American filmmaker Kiri Davis. Her 2005 documentary “A Girl Like Me,” which aired on HBO, examines why the physical appearance of blacks does not conform to society’s standards of beauty.

Davis’ experiment is a remake of the famous 1939 test of psychologist Kenneth Clark who helped persuade the U.S. Supreme Court in Brown v. Board of Education that separate public schools for whites and blacks were damaging to society. Clark showed that children who went to segregated schools were more likely to pick the white doll as the nicer toy rather than the black doll.

Shaking the norm

Forty-five years after the U.S. Supreme Court found anti-miscegenation laws unconstitutional, just 8 percent of all U.S. marriages are interracial and only 0.3 percent of all interracial marriages are between an Asian man and a black woman, according to the 2010 U.S. census. But as new generations do not buy old conventions, the normal is quickly changing.

Sarchet, who is Asian and likes black girls, remembers the strange looks waiters gave him five years ago when he went out on a date with a black woman in a Chinese restaurant in Canon City, Colorado. “Kinda the look as if they saw an UFO on a corn field,” he says. His friends also laughed at him. Now, interracial dating is gaining popularity, especially on the east and west coasts, he says.

I don’t care about anybody’s approval. People will get accustomed. All my friends are into interracial relationships now,” he says. “White women tend to be too clean and overly emotional,” Sarchet says. “They [white girls] don’t have the curves. Most of them are really skinny. I’m not really into anorexic girls.”

Pew Research Center’s 2010 report on racial attitudes found that nine out of ten Millennials (the demographic cohort aged 18-28) will approve if a family member marries someone of a different racial or ethnic group. In contrast, just 55 percent of 50-to-64-year-old and 38 percent of those 65 and older will support such an union.

“I didn’t actually start dating Asian guys until Obama was president,” says Campbell from Chicago. Her great grandfather, who fought in World War II in Germany, had issues with white people, and Campbell stuck to the unspoken family rule she could date a guy of another race only “over his [her granddad’s] dead body or if a black man becomes a president” (which would signal the country was less racist).

Today, Campbell cherishes seeing people’s “eyes bust out of their heads” when they spot her with an Asian. “I have an adventurous type of spirit and like the idea of being with something rare,” she says. “I’m attracted to the fact that it’s something not very easy to get. It’s rare, and if you work hard to keep it, then it’s really special.” As far as her preferences go: “I don’t have very many expectations other than he being taller than me so I can wear my high heels,” she says.

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  • vince

    Great read!! Your research was done well. Also really like how you hint at fetishization of races too because that is just as wrong as race-hating. Both serve to dehumanize people. I will say that Sarchet’s overgeneralizations of white and black women’s bodies left a REALLY bad taste in my mouth.

    Spell check next time though, so many typos!

    • Miju

      amen to spell checks and missing an entire word as well. Otherwise, agree that it was a good read!

      • lauren

        Yes, I noticed a word missing (or obviously the wrong word) several times throughout the article. :/ Otherwise very interesting!

    • greg

      The reseach was well done? By what standards?

      They seems to have cherry picked a few statements from a small number of interviews to back up a pre – existing notion she had about there being an underlying racism in attraction. Rather than just the more explainable genetic imperative.

      The idea bone structure and skin colour and other physical attributes (about ka how people look) isn’t a factor and it’s “on you” is ludicrous as appearance clearly a significant factor.

      The fact there might be about a genetic imperative that tends to make certain matches more or less likely is not even considered as a factor.

      • The fact there might be

        pre-existing notion

        Where are your citations?

      • Chou Kung

        Agreed. It is filled with racist attitudes. Why did he call Yoko Ono’s spirit “exotic.” It was in keeping with a lot of avant garde art at the time. Fact is, Ono’s spirit is more like “rich princess,” as she comes from an extremely wealthy family and could (and did) do whatever she wanted.

        • TokyoMommy

          Agreed! Most Japanese people find her extremely bizarre.

      • haploid

        Because the genetic imperative is to diversify. Diversification is the basis on how our genetics work, it is why we propagate sexually in.the first place. Genetic robustness is measured by the ability a population can adapt to stress, i.e. variation is key. This is why mixed raced individuals are less targetable for gene tailored deseases, while on the other end of the spectrum, inbred children often have difficulty just surviving. The preservation of ‘race’ is purely a socio~cultural phenomenon.

        • Ryan

          The intectual imperative is interbreeding but it is not the instinctive, genetic imperative. Humans are not very far removed from tribalism. Tribalism rewarded those who mated and protected their own tribe with survival. Shunning and destroying foreign tribes made sense: they were competition for resources.

          A global world is only a few hundred years old. It makes sense that our genetically coded instincts are still catching up. It’s not to say one can’t overcome an instinctive reaction but to propose it is completely absent is rubbage.

      • Mynka Mirnoff

        You don’t know the first thing about genetics, do you?

        • Scruggs

          Oh my god, with the evolutionary biology. Give it a rest already, people. Despite LOTS of interest in studying this, we have completely failed to produce any convincing Empirical evidence for some sort of significant genetic imperative in attraction or human reproduction.

      • Freedom Mushaw

        I actually did research on this topic for population and Hdi The information in this article (other than the individuals commenting about their personal relationships) is easily found in many books. It would take international economics, world history,anthropology, Asian culture and literature classes, African American studies, Asian American history, .S. Law (some of the stuff cited came from the results of laws) and the true development of the United States.

      • Freedom Mushaw

        Um actually sometimes it is racism. When your family or a person sees a race as a type of status it is not based on their features. When they disown you because you are with a x person it is not because of features and when you do as they say you are aiding the development of it. When a person says to me I don’t date such and such because of their features it is discrimination or pickiness when they mention stereo types or racial character myths (hostile, eats dogs, thieves, criminals, greasy hair, monkey like or smells bad) that’s racism… Racism is based on behavior and race it can be discrimination combined with a disgust or hatred based on false or factual information

        • peepsie

          wait. so for soneone to say they are attracted to the smaller waist, curvier hips, rounder behind, and fuller lips that African American women tend statistically to have is fetishization….

          but to NOT be attracted to it is racist??

          talk about wtf. there’s no way to not offend you there… no matter who someone is attracted to, you’ve found ways to make it evil and disingenuous.

          i do believe tbat racism can influence attractions, but i do also believe that people have characteristics they are attracted to thst just are….. and its not some fault of their brain or thinking… i for one have a specific set of features i gravatate toward. always.

          I’ve watched my 14 yr old and the girls he was drawn to and mentilned were pretty his entire lofe. he’ll have interracial relationships. it’s what he’s drawn to and has found pretty ever since he layed eyes on those two yr old chinese twins in the gas station or the 1st grade classmate with the “beautiful brown skin, mama. like chocolate and her big brown eyes like mine.”

          he’s still got the features he finds attractive and has since he was a toddler ablw to vocalize “pretty.” at two, at 7, at 12, he wasn’t fetishizing anything. he just knew what, in his eyes, is pretty….

          • Kert

            I don’t think you understood what they wrote. They specifically said that being attracted to or not attracted to certain features is personal preference.

          • disqus_OccN1ivZOx

            To be attracted to those attributes is not racist, to say that all black women have those attributes is racist.

    • juniper

      Agreed. Nicely done.

    • vince

      Research was done well. LMFAO

      Cherrypicked interviews and movies to prove the authors racism. This is a typical undergrad paper with much more typo’s than any professor would even allow.

      I guess whatever captivates the majority of idiots gets the $$$ though.

  • 23

    Glenn in TWD?

    • G

      He’s asian in the comics so they didn’t want to change it. Comics are less in the mainstream so there is less pressure to conform to our stereotypes, but it is still a valid point. There are always exceptions, and he is a strong one.

  • disqus_g

    Reverse racism is still racism. Tired of these type of articles. I’m Asian it’s disgusting how hypocritical minorities are when it comes to race.

    “They [white girls] don’t have the curves. Most of them are really skinny. I’m not really into anorexic girls.”

    -Reverse racism at its finest.

    • Manny Jenkins

      I think you need to consult your local community college political science professor because I think you may have the wrong. The term racism is a political construct of systematic oppression of another based on his or her race. What happens on the dating is more akin to prejudice which happens with every preference not just race that a person may have.

      My sister although 5 feet herself doesn’t date anyone under 6 feet. People have very fine tuned preferences when it comes to dating. She short people picket outside her house?

      Socialization will be the only way to change someone’s mind.

      • disqus_g

        Ok, maybe I don’t understand the word racism. Based on your definition, I don’t think racism against Asians really exists in America today. But what I am talking about are the racial prejudice and stereotypes, which is what most minorities complain about anyways.

        • pleasemakesense

          I am 100% asian. If you don’t think racism towards asians exist in america you are sorely misinformed. Please bring actual facts to the table before talking as if you know something. Otherwise keep your opinionated and mostly untrue notations to yourself.

          • disqus_g

            It doesn’t. Minorities including Asians have a tendency to find racism where there isn’t.

          • 12 Notes

            You are completely wrong. And if you really would like to know, I can give personal experience.

        • ScrumpDlicious

          Oh my. Yes, systematic racism, as a function of white supremacy, does exist against Asians and Asian Americans in the United States. It exists within a larger framework of anti-Black racism, but it is present. Just pay a bit more attention; those stereotypes, the racial prejudice, etc., are structural and symptomatic, against Asians and Asian Americans too.

          • Raoul Duke

            Claims of “white supremacy” are risible. White supremacists are rare as the dodo. Using the term in 2014 is an exercise of propaganda.

          • ScrumpDlicious

            Texas Neighborhood with ‘Caucasian Race’ rule shuts down black man’s home business over signage.

            Just one example out of countless ones. If you don’t grasp what “white supremacy is or how it operates, perhaps a bit of online reading will help you understand it and how it’s very much operative in 2014 and 2015.

          • A dude

            I don’t know what the big deal is. I meet someone, I like her and maybe we date. The important thing is that we connect and get to know each other.

        • Freedom Mushaw

          Um actually sometimes it is racism. When your family or a person sees a race as a type of status it is not based on their features. When they disown you because you are with a x person it is not because of features and when you do as they say you are aiding the development of it. When a person says to me I don’t date such and such because of their features it is discrimination or pickiness when they mention stereo types or racial character myths (hostile, eats dogs, thieves, criminals, greasy hair, monkey like or smells bad) that’s racism… Racism is based on behavior and race it can be discrimination combined with a discussed or hatred based on false or factual information. It will just depend on each individual circumstance. I wish people would stop generalizing as if there were these check marks that have to be done. Some people don’t date because they are racist others because they are picky.

      • Nikolay Uspenskiy

        and you may want to consult a dictionary… poli-sci is a waste of time

        http://www.oxforddictionaries.com/us/definition/american_english/racism

      • J belmont

        And a political science professor will probably tell you racism is prejudice, discrimination, and hate based on someone’s race. The definition you’re talking about is an unfalsifiable, and therefore inherently invalid, definition that’s only used within anti-science sociology circles.

        • SamuEL

          Putting aside your incorrect usage of the word invalid, your antiquated, community college philosophy of science class needs to emerge from the Popperian dark ages and learn that falsification in the form you are trying to use it isn’t even taken seriously as a criterion for establishing validity of scientific claims, let alone trying to establish the internal validity of a definition.

      • Raoul Duke

        The redefinition of “racism” you’ve given is a recent development and was done for political reasons. The junior college types latched onto it as a functionmof politics; not intellectual or academic reasons

      • bongo

        rac·ism
        ˈrāˌsizəm/
        noun
        the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.
        prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one’s own race is superior.
        “a program to combat racism”
        synonyms:racial discrimination, racialism, racial prejudice, xenophobia,chauvinism, bigotry, casteism
        “Aborigines are the main victims of racism in Australia”

        What you’re talking about is actually Cultural Criticism, a neo-Marxist ideology that seeks to redistribute power and influence. Most of the “racism” enveloped by this definition can’t be differentiated from simple Marjoritarianism, which is a facet of all democratic societies. As the demographics of this country change, so will prevailing attitudes, slowly over time, regardless of exhortations by the fringe.

      • TheHusband

        but then again, even guys who are average height would find your sister too short and never give her the light of day. and she’s probably ugly too lol

      • Kiboko

        We have it drummed into us that being with a shorter man will ‘look stupid’. I’ve turned down perfectly lovely men who were shorter than me and thought, ‘If only he was taller, I could go out with him’. I hate myself for it now. It was nothing to do with attraction and everything to do with being brainwashed. I felt I ‘wasn’t allowed’ :-(

    • Guest

      Another entitled white man.

      • Nikolay Uspenskiy

        another reading-comprehension-challenged commenter

        • disqus_g

          Yeah not sure how people miss the sentence where I say I am Asian.

          • Shin

            You aren’t Asian. You talk and think just like a white guy. Even if you are Asian, you are a fullblown uncle-tom. 闭上你的白人至上主义者的混蛋嘴。臭小子。しんじまえ, くそったれ

          • Is he a “self-hating Jew,” too? Your comment is ridiculous and rude.

          • SC2DC

            Because u do sound like an out of touch white guy.

    • Andrew Yip

      Quit your hashtag bs. Segregation is self mandated? It might be the case that being a white man that you choose to be colorblind? I can tell you how many times I’ve been called a chink. Yea, that’s the simplest form of racism but maybe one should just pull up statistics on policing and education. How can you say segregation is done by the communities themselves when that’s the only place they can afford to live? Oh, make more money and move out? Well, the education system in their communities are not funded as well as other communities namely white middle class ones. The last thing I’m going to pass on is a white man telling Asians that racism is over.

      • GreatName

        are people born racist, or is it a choice? at least we make enough money to be bitter on the internet, safe at home; we all know there are to many racist cops outside.

      • Nikolay Uspenskiy

        didn’t he state he was Asian? lol

        • Shin Sasaki

          Uncle tom self hating Asian. Or a white man pretending to be Asian. No real Asian man thinks like that. Only fake sellout uncle toms who like to keep western imperialism and white supremacism alive.

      • disqus_g

        Oh yah, I’ve been called a chink too but you do realize that all that stuff occurs in gradeschool, which really just stems from immaturity. In fact, everyone in gradeschool was likely discriminated against in some way or another – nerds, goths, punks, Asians, you name it. Once you get past highschool (and maybe for some colleges), racism really ceases to exist

        And I’m not talking about self-segregation in terms of where you live, but in terms of how you socialize. Minorities self segregate when socializing and this prevents outside races from getting to know them – thus furthering certain stereotypes.

        • SC2DC

          You’re not too familiar with southern whites and conservative republicans

          • disqus_g

            Grew up in the south bruh. Lived in Texas/Georgia for 14 years of my first 18 so I know what it was like in school. But like I said, once you get past gradeschool, people mature.

            Frankly most people judge you more on your confidence and how you carry yourself over your race and that’s definitely true in Texas.

          • Guest

            If that’s the case, well maybe you’re basing your conclusions

          • SC2DC

            If that’s the case, perhaps you’re basing your conclusions on your personal experiences. But surely you know that you have to objectively look at problems others are having to validate your conclusions. Not sure how you could take an honest look at the politics of this country and conclude that racism is a figment of other people’s imaginations.

            It was just 40-50 yrs ago minorities were protesting for basic civil rights in this country, and having these rights were opposed largely by the conservative political movement. These are more or less the same conservative politics that America is battling to this very day.

          • disqus_g

            It was still 40-50 years ago. You do realize that most of the white initiated racism today (outside of gradeschool) are perpetuated by that generation of people. I.E. people who lived through that era or were born in that era. Those born in the 80s and onward really don’t hold the same views. That’s why the most racist people always seem to be the grandparents because they lived through a different era and frankly are too old to change.

          • SC2DC

            If you’re only talking about the younger generations, then you really don’t have a point here ya know? Because “the baby boomer” generation (from 40-50 yrs ago…and the largest generation ever) is still alive and kicking, and they are largely controlling the wealth, and laws of this country currently. So again, not sure how you can make the statements youve been making about racism, especially if you are only referring to the younger generations who have little say/power in our country at this point in their lives.

            You have to step outside your bubble and think objectively

          • Anthony Huang

            They also control the media which the young white devils are exposed to!!!!!

            That was a joke btw

          • Shin Sasaki

            No, this generation of whites are more racist. Especially against Asian men, the stereotypes and TV Hollywood propaganda against East Asian men has increased significantly since Sessue Hayakawa’s time. STFU and do some research you birdsh_t pretending to be an Asian man.

          • TheHusband

            haven’t seen any examples of such propaganda as of late. if anything, white americans are the ones that should be worried; the rest of the world hates them and thinks they’re stupid and fat lol. that’s why asian men from america get treated with more respect than white american men when they travel abroad

          • mini_munny

            FYI, I’m Asian. And if you’ve only ever lived in the south, then you need to step outside your bubble and try living in a super diversified city. For all you know, you’ve been getting racism subtly thrown at you all your life and you didn’t even realize it…

            I’ve lived in NYC all my life and people don’t really factor in race ’cause we’re constantly exposed to different ethnicities and just sorta blend together (yea, there are people who try speaking to me in chinese to seem impressive but that’s… idk what to call it, but it’s not racism) so I tend to forget racism happens. But a recent trip to suburbia NJ was like a slap in the face with reality for me. And it wasn’t even them having to say anything, it was just their obvious body language and blatantly ignoring us when we needed help (I was at a diner/restaurant). So yea, racism still happens…

            I also gotta say it’s seriously weird that the topic of race always comes up for you with Asians. If you’re having conversations with race coming up, like ever, then you really do need to try living in a more diversified area to see the difference in your experiences. And for people to purposely friend you just ’cause you’re Asian… For me, if you’re an ass with a crap personality, I’ll drop you as a friend, regardless of whether you’re Asian or not. You have some major bad experiences that have warped you… seriously live somewhere more diverse dude!

        • eastdragon42

          Guess everyone’s personal experiences are different. I was never called a chink throughout grade school, junior high, or high school (in Chattanooga, TN); it wasn’t until college (Knoxville, TN) that I was first called a chink, and on multiple occasions too…

    • T. G

      @disqus

      I totally agree with you. Reverse racism is still racism.

      I am an Asian too (South Asian) who is married to a white guy and I could not believe how racists my own people were when I wanted to marry him (not my immediate family but family friends and relatives who likes to put their butt in other people’s life). Whites get divorced a lot, whites are selfish, whites don’t care about their family, etc etc. Now they will say its not racism because if you are a minority who immigrated to West then you cant be racist, you’re just “narrow-minded”.

      I’m not saying racism doesn’t happen from whites anymore, yes there are still some racist whites out there but racism occurs from other races too.

      • disqus_g

        Exactly, it’s a two way street. There are racists apart of every race. I just don’t like the hypocritical attitude that a lot of minorities have.

        • eglantier

          People are reacting poorly to your comments because you have inaccurately conveyed your argument, but I understand what you have been trying to say and I agree with much of your point: that while racism in our country is systematically oppressive and dictated by the marginalization of people of color by white people it does not mean minorities aren’t participating in racism also, towards white people, other races, and even themselves, which is internalized racism.

        • Diddle

          But you didn’t really make that point. What inflamed me so much is that you actually suggest that white people are less racist and that we actually live in the open-minded and free society. We don’t. That’s a con. BUT, I do agree with the spirit of your comment: prejudice is not the province of white people.

        • Nicole A

          Of course there are racists in all groups of people, but until white people no longer control the vast majority of political, economic, & social power in the US, their racism is going to be more highly scrutinized because it translates into more tangible effects for more people, such as the interracial disparities discussed in this article.

          • disqus_g

            But white people make up 75% of the population and historically that figure is probably larger. More and more minorities are holding positions of power but to expect minorities to outnumber whites is unreasonable.

      • jason

        you’re disgusting.

      • Bordergeist

        The problem is that what you’re talking about is not the majority of “racism”. Racism isn’t about how one person feels about or acts towards another–it’s primarily about systemic problems that cause people of one race to be significantly disadvantaged compared to another. And the simple fact is that in the US, white people are unbelievably privileged–they make more money for doing the same jobs, they find it much much easier to get home and business loans, they are more likely (due to open, direct discrimination in the 50s-70s) to have grown up in communities with better schools and other support services, and, possibly most importantly, are treated far far better by the US justice system. Until those facts change, the US (as with basically all countries) is racist, and needs to be changed.

        • disqus_g

          A lot of what I say comes from an Asian perspective – I realize that other races may face different issues when it comes to racism.

          • Anthony Huang

            No it doesnt. I am full Asian and have no idea what youve been spêwing. Asians wouldnt talk to you if you werent good looking… ok buddy you keep telling yourself that. You are definitely not coming from an asian perspective. Dont even know what perspective youre coming from.

          • disqus_g

            What? Asians talk to me because I’m Asian.

          • SVD10b .

            you might be asian, but you smell like someone else’s stooge

      • Austin Mabry

        Even the term “Reverse racism” is an inherently racist term.

        The implication is that “Racism” is a ‘white’ trait, and therefore when any race besides white people behave in ‘racist’ ways it’s not ACTUALLY racism, but rather something ‘kind of similar to racism’ manifesting itself in an unlikely [non-white] subject.

        Racism is racism. Regardless of the source or the target.

        The implication that racism is a ‘white thing’ is about as racist as they come. And that’s exactly what the asinine term, “reverse racism” does.

      • bloosteak

        What they said was statistically true. I think the phrase you are looking for is politically correct.

    • Love&Light

      Self-segregation isn’t a minority thing. That’s a majority thing too. Recent statistics just came out showing the average person of each race in America and their friends. Everyone had friends of various races, to varying degrees. Except white people, they had the most monotone list of friends. In fact, before that study they did another one where they found that majority of white people in American have ONLY white friends. The same isn’t true for black people, asian people or “latino” people (regardless of race). Basically, you sound like a person suffering from an inferiority complex whose trying to suck up to white people, as you’ve been taught. All of your faux talking points are basically pandering, based on nothing but your own ignorance and inferiority complex. No minorities need to “branch out and show others you are different,” we’ve been “branching” out for hundreds of years in this country. WE’RE the one’s fighting for our rights, freedom, humanity, etc. It’s about time the white people you think are oh so benevolent and sweet to do the work for once.

      • disqus_g

        Nah…I don’t have an inferiority complex. Self segregation is only ONE reason why I think minorities further racism. I’ve experienced many other things that support this view.

        Another thing that really bothers me is when I meet people for the first time. When I meet Asians for the first time, within 5 minutes of the conversation, the topic of race will come up – which for me is really uncomfortable. It’s basically guaranteed – I can’t think of the last time I met an Asian without that Asian commenting on the fact that we are both Asians. (This once again fortifies my belief that Asians want to make friends with me because I’m Asian and not because I’m me AND my view that Asians view society in an overly race sensitive tone). I don’t know if this holds true for other races but it’s certainly true for my race. Edit: I actually I lied, I remember meeting 1 Asian out of the past 5 that didn’t mention race and hasn’t mentioned race yet. Go figure, we are friends now.

        I don’t encounter this phenomenon when I meet people of other races.

        However, you do have a good point in that self-segregation is probably true for all races. But I don’t feel that white people have the most monotone list of friends. You have to realize that just statistically speaking, if everyone made friends without any regards to race, they should end up with about 3 white friends to 1 colored friend. Interpret that how you wish but speaking from a random walk perspective, one should have more white friends than colored friends…Obviously this will have to be adjusted by the demographics of your specific area.

        Additionally, from experience, whenever a random group of people are placed together and allowed to make friends (example summer camp, networking event, class room setting) – people self segregate. You’d be lying if you said that didn’t happen. Minorities will float to minorities of the same race even if that minority only makes up 10% of the group. Of course you will have your sell-outs that refuse to communicate with those of the same race but that’s a different story.

        I don’t agree with your last point about whites needing to branch out. People need to take matters in their own hands as opposed to wait for others to make things happen. We’ve been fighting for our rights because previously our rights were limited by the government. In today’s world, there aren’t such limitations.

        • Tum

          I have met Asians who don’t bring the topic about races. My students, for once, never mention that we are Asians. Maybe it’s the younger generation. I teach in an American class where about 50% is Asians and Asian Americans– so being Asian is kind of a default, and they won’t become friend just because they are Asians.

        • haploid

          “fortifies my belief that Asians want to make friends with me because I’m Asian and not because I’m me”
          There in lies your issue; being Asian is a part of your identity. As a visible minority it is a noticeable part of who you are and it doesnt seem like you’ve digested that reality very well. If there are 2 asians out of 1000 ppl, certainly being asian has meaning between the 2. Obviously you won’t have this problem if you lived for a while in Asia. If you went and lived in an international city like Hong Kong, do you think you’ll be surrounding yourself with more local Asian friends? or American expats?

        • Uchenna101

          I would definitely have to agree with you but with a bit of perspective to share. There was a time I never noticed race when I made friends. I move to America from Nigeria when I was a teenager. I looked at everyone really as a potential friend — at least in my age group. But what I noticed was that it was harder to make friends with people much different than I. I found that it was harder to make friends in my school with a majority of Hispanics (in Florida) and also hard to make friends even at church with a majority of white people. Sure, they were nice, very nice actually. But that’s where it ended. The relationship outside of the classroom never really occurred. I found that I made friends much better with African Americans, Hiatians and other black people. I felt maybe it was because we had more alike.

          But I realized it may have just been a southern thing. I moved from Florida to Chicago this year, and I find white people much more relatable. I actually have longer conversation with them that lead to spending quality time together. However, my heart had already been closed up to the idea of making white friends and I find myself almost always looking for black people to make friends with as first instinct. It surprises me when I noticed white people, especially white males wanting to engage in a conversation. I am learning to be more open. But my first encounter with white people in Florida, which may have actually just being white Hispanics, gave me the impression that they didn’t really want to make a long-term quality connection with me. And I was okay with that.

          But it appears that it is different in different areas of the U.S. I am learning to open myself up to other people the way I was when I first arrived in the U.S., but it’s definitely something that is at the back of my mind more than it was in my teenage years. I could definitely also attribute that to the media, particularly with how much race is talked about, literally all the time.

          You have to notice that people make first impressions of groups of people, early on in life. If these groups of people are not accepting of them in their youths (not necessarily by being mean but not really making them feel like they belong), eventually people will associate that group with exclusivity and not really want to be a part of that, later on in life when they meet other groups of people that might be more inclusive.

      • Jonathan Yuan

        Thanks for your shtpost. Asians are not your model minority. We are not “trying to suck up to white people”. It just so happens that the idea of success in American society aligns relatively well with that of many Asian societies.

        White people are not any more malicious or benevolent than you and I are. We are all Americans, looking for our place.

        • Love&Light

          As the old saying goes, a hit dog will holler. Not once did I mention Asian people, aside from them much like other minorities having racially and ethnically different friend groups. I did not mention the model minority stereotype, which isn’t only relegated to Asians. African immigrants outperform all other demographics in America. I did not say Asian people were trying to suck up to white people. Unless you feel as the person who I was speaking to is the living embodiment of every Asian person in America, I’m not sure what you read into my comment.

          Though, I have an idea. What you just shown is your own inferiority complex and your own thoughts regarding this subject.

          Why? Because you filled in the word Asian for where you thought there were blanks in my comment. I did not present, say or even allude to anything you suggest.

          Lastly, I never said white people were malicious nor benevolent. I simply said they aren’t as benevolent as this person was making them out to be. Putting all of the onus on minorities to branch out to white people, as if that hasn’t been going on for hundreds of years. Saying minorities are the reason for racism in America, because, you know…we’ve just collectively done so many horrible, discriminatory, unjust and inhumane things to white people.

          • Jonathan Yuan

            Actually, your comment directly accused a previous commenter’s “inferiority complex” in which he was “sucking up to white people”. In the context of the discussion it’s easy to draw the conclusion you were attributing this to, specifically, his race. This would apply if he were Asian, “latino”, black, or any other minority.

            Given that the previous commenter’s self-identified race is Asian, you did indeed allude to very popular ideas of 1. Asians being a “model minority” in America, being most like white people, and 2. white people posing as a “benevolent” figure in American culture. You heavily implied that all minorities (“we”) were somehow fighting for rights while white people sat around and enjoyed their privilege.

            I don’t disagree with you that minorities aren’t the only reason for racism in America. I believe that the previous comment simply stated that people who identify as minorities are responsible for a lot of racism. Yes, not every Asian is trying to “suck up to white people”, though there may be many that are. In the same way, white people as a race are not responsible for the American slave trade, though historically, many white people were.

            Just because a particular group has not done any “horrible, discriminatory” things does not mean they can’t be racist. Racism is internalized prejudice against a certain racial group. By definition and in practice, individuals in every racial group can be perpetrators of racism.

            Your problem (and that of many other people interested in social justice) is that you attribute the actions of individuals to entire racial groups. Your use of the word “collectively” worries me, in particular. The previous commenter was not putting the onus on his entire race to “branch out to white people”, he was making himself (as an individual) responsible for the way others perceive him.

          • Love&Light

            No, again that’s YOUR own inferiority complex showing up. If I call a person I’m talking to dumb and they happen to be a woman, in a conversation about gender, only a fool would conclude that I must be calling women dumb or that I’m alluding that women are dumb.

            As I said prior, a hit dog hollers. So, clearly what I said must have resonated with you specifically if you drew something that wasn’t there, out of thin air. Basically, you’re telling on yourself and I see I was very right in my assessment of you. You’re using absolutely ZERO logic in your attempt to use mental gymnastics to claim me saying this person has an inferiority complex, somehow, relates to him being Asian and the model minority stereotype. Stop reaching to try and fit your own agenda, it isn’t working.

            In any case, you’re purposely misrepresenting his comment. I see you have a hard time with reading comprehension. The previous commenter said, “Frankly, I believe that racism in today’s world is caused more by minorities than by whites.” So, no, he didn’t just say minorities are responsible for a lot of racism. He said they are MORE responsible nowadays than white people. Also, your later point is redundant if every black person in America hated white people that isn’t nearly as racist as 3 white owned monopolies disenfranchising black people and never hiring any. All racism isn’t equal, your own personal feelings about me I could care less about, especially if you have no impact on my life. Those sentiments become damaging and problematic when you apply them, as racism has readily been applied since the beginning of this country and is still in place today, in various institutions from schools, to the justice system, to hiring practices, housing, economics, suffrage, media, etc.

            Your problem is you lack reading comprehension skills. I never said minorities were not or cannot be racist. Learn to read. I simply said claiming that they are more responsible for racism to do is a laughably idiotic statement. Furthermore, you keep lying on the previous commenter that I’m just thinking you are him. Let’s look at his words shall we…

            ” Additionally, minorities always tend to self-segregate themselves…Minorities always travel in their own clusters/packs. So how in the world are other races supposed to get to know you and perhaps lose the stereotypes they hold if you self-segregate. It ain’t gonna happen. If you want certain stereotypes to go away, you should branch out and show others you are different…today’s society is so free and open minded. Unfortunately it’s being held back by minorities who find racism when there isn’t or when racism is inadvertent or really just stems from the immaturity in gradeschool.”

            But yes, keep using those mental gymnastics of yours to say a) he isn’t extremely ignorant b) he doesn’t see minorities as the problem as if whites are benevolent spectators c) clearly suffers from some kind of inferiority complex and as you claim d) that he isn’t speaking of any group of people, but he’s only speaking for himself.

            In closing, LEARN TO READ CRITICALLY. You clearly have an agenda and you’re not reading objectively nor critically.

          • Anon

            She said he had an inferiority complex and you concluded that it must be because of his race? What an outrageous assumption. And you somehow expect anybody to take your argument seriously?

          • Jonathan Yuan

            I’m sorry, was it gender minorities, political minorities, or racial minorities that were sucking up to the white majority?

        • Shin Sasaki

          Please STFU you uncle tom.

          你这个亲白人屁股的臭小子。

          “White people are not anymore malicious or benevolent” – lol, you being serious here?

          @Love&Light, why don’t you walk the walk and not just preach the preach and date a Black or Asian man/marry non-white?

          • Austin Mabry

            So are you saying that white people ARE more malicious or benevolent?

      • J belmont

        Most white people have only white friends because they’re by far the majority of the population and can actually live places where there aren’t any minorities. I’ve gone to schools where I was the only jew anyone knew.

        • disqus_g

          That’s a point I would like to see if the study made adjustments for. Your friends’ races are going to be highly affected by the pool of available people to make friends with. If you live in a predominantly white area, you will most likely end up with mostly white friends unless you make an extra effort to select friends based on race. The other way is true too.

          If the study doesn’t make that adjustment, I’ll just chalk it up as another one among millions of articles today that try to unnecessarily provoke racial tensions.

          • Shin Sasaki

            Screw you. Go back to Europe. THis country isn’t yours. Filthy genocidal, biological weapon using, religious nut-job squatters. Birdsh_t. Oh, what’s that? Europe doesn’t want you, didn’t want you? Europe is filled with non-whites now? Oh. That’s KARMA isn’t it?

      • Shin Sasaki

        @Love&Light, why don’t you walk the walk and not just preach the preach and date a Black or Asian man/marry non-white?

        Why are you with a white guy?

        • Love&Light

          Well I’m only 19, I’m not getting married any time soon. I’ve never dated an Asian guy, for no particular reason, though I honestly don’t think Asian men are that attracted to black women. Rarely see them checking for black girls. As for non-white guys I’ve dated several black/hispanic/even middle eastern. Even though where I grew up it was mostly white with a disproportionately high number of asian families. Why am I dating a white guy? I don’t look at him as a “white guy” he’s a guy who befriended me and asked me out and we clicked and fell for one another. Simple. Why does anyone date anyone else?

        • Love&Light

          Not to mention my boyfriend is a white person who GETS IT. Because trust me if he wasn’t I wouldn’t have given him the time of day. He’s very liberal and goes just as hard as I do about these things.

          • jonblaze1hq

            and God bless you sis I cause so many women of colour date white men without understanding the dynamics ofhas consequences if we don’t educate each other on it.
            race work here in the state, this color blind idea of love

          • Henry James Johnson Jr.

            That’s a very plausible explanation, my sister.You actually soothed my resentment towards you dating a white guy.Jk.I read your comments and I find that you are very insightful and your ability to use logic and reasoning to dissect illogic is remarkable. At first glance it would be easy for someone Black to call you a sellout simply because you are dating someone white but it is only when you speak that you prove otherwise. You are very knowledgeable of the Black experience and struggle and the sordid history between Blacks and whites in America. I commend you for this tremendous insight and awareness.We are all products of our environment; However,the difference between some of us at s that we don’t alienate ourselves from our cultural history.I said that in reference to you being raised in a predominantly white environment. It speaks volumes of you to be brought up in such an environment and still possess the awareness of the plight of Black people and the so-called minority as a whole.Again I commend you for not forgetting who you are.

          • Love&Light

            Awww, thank you very much. Such kind words. Yes, growing up in a predominately non-black/white environment just amplified things for me. I was never not aware of my difference from everyone else, and, as I’m sure you know, when you’re around your family, especially a black one, you say and talk about certain things that you wouldn’t say or talk about otherwise. So, that helped too lol unfortunately it seems a lot of people have been forgetting who they are, or rather just not caring. I’ve done this internet thing long enough to know the amount of “sell outs” and “coons” is just astronomically high, especially among black men, and in retaliation, some black women. If they’re not arguing with each other about certain things, then they’re talking about why x, y and z “race” of people are better to date and be with. Quite sad.

    • Baakus

      I agree that the half-Asian guy’s statements about the curviness of Black girls were misguided.

      But seriously, you think that minorities are responsible for racism today? You think that Asian girls are the ones being racist for liking you, so you want to avoid them?

      My initial impression of you is that you’re trying way too hard to not be that “That Asian Guy.” Just think about it: why do you think minorities “travel in their own clusters/packs?” Do you think there are legions of White people just begging for these minorities to join their circles, but these minorities are just thumbing their noses at them? Have you ever been to a frat party? Who’s self-segregating there? And if minorities abandoned their cultural groups, do you honestly think that they’d be welcomed as true equals in predominantly White circles?

      The question is not why do minorities segregate so much; the question is why do Whites not accept them as true equals.

      Hey, I’m an Asian guy too and I know the value of reaching out beyond all-Asian circles, especially in order to break stereotypes. But I also know the value of having Asian friends and trying to develop the anemic Asian American culture in the U.S. today.

      • Anthony Huang

        Possibly most intelligent comment of all.

      • shirene

        Agree! I like branching out, but I”m not ditching my Asian clique. haha! I think it’s fun and it’s a true asian american experience to always keep a group of Asian friends to mock each other’s asianess :P, eventhough none of us speak Chinese/Korean/viet to each other.

        • puke.

          “it’s a true asian american experience to always keep a group of Asian friends”
          rolling my eyes so hard they’re falling out of my head.

          • rSlip

            Lmao same.

    • Sally Song

      You must be living in a different world! Unfortunately racisim is alive and kickin’ but maybe you are oblivious to it. Try disguising yourself as an ugly Asian little girl and walk thru the streets of any rural super “white” area of MIssissippi or in the nastiest lowest socioeconomic areas of America. Then tell me that Racism doesn’t exist. Or try speaking to an Ole Boys Club in Congress and seeing if anyone will hear anything you have to say… You should try to do some of these things and then tell us that racisim doesn’t exist in the U.S. And its selfimposed! :(

      • disqus_g

        I realize racism exists but it’s not to the extent minorities make it out to be. Additionally, the point I was making is that we live in such a progressive society now, that really those that are racist are on the fringe of society. Unfortunately, what I see is that many minorities have not caught up to the fact that the world today is much different than the world 50 years ago – and thus are overly sensitive to racism and tend to find racism where it doesn’t exist.

        At the end of the day, I don’t believe people ultimately judge you based on race. Sure, if they don’t know you, they may try to stereotype you, but at the end of the day, people judge people on everyday qualities such as success, confidence, intelligence, appearance, style, personality, etc…

        Frankly I work at a firm that feels like an Ole Boys Club and I don’t feel alienated at all. I’m just another employee.

        • Henry James Johnson Jr.

          I didn’t want to chime in on your debate but after this last comment of yours I felt compelled to tell you that you have a very distorted view of racism in America. I’m willing to give you the benefit of the and say that you haven’t really experienced the vicious racism that exists in America rather than say you are in denial.For all we know you probably haven’t experienced that kind of racism that even your kind speaks of.Trust and believe that systematic racism really does exist.Sometimes we tend to generalize things we see based on a fraction of what we observe.Reading these comments have been very humbling to me as well as eye opening.Until today I didn’t think Asians viewed racism the way Black people do.I always believed that Black people bared the brunt of racism and this is due to me seeing a lot of Asians fraternizing and dating white people so I automatically assumed that all was cordial between the two.But much to my chagrin this is not the case.Racism is all- encompassing and then it just doesn’t affect Black people but people of color as a whole.

    • Carson

      You have no idea what racism is obviously by that ignorant statement.

    • Richard

      There is no reverse racism – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dw_mRaIHb-M

      • filthyswit .

        Then lets just call it what it really is; ethnic hatred. Non-whites who hate whites are ethnic haters. Don’t think you’re clever just because you can play the semantics game.

        • Richard

          Do you know the difference between Croats, Lipovans, Saxons, Tatars and Szeklers etc? Don’t generalise people with caucasian features or pale white skin. In fact, I have had the fortune to meet a redheaded green-eyed gentleman from the Himalayas (Indian part) but sounds like Apu from The Simpsons. “White” is no ethnicity I’m afraid. Saying it is just destroys the identity of the aforementioned ethnic groups who do not necessarily nor willingly wish to be lumped into “WHITE”.

          P.S. What semantics game? Nothing about meaning was mentioned, I think the point Aamer Rahman makes here is one about history and heritage.

          • filthyswit .

            Again you’re playing a semantics game. We know who is being talked about when a person says “white”. Same thing goes for the word “racist”; Lots of people say that blacks or Latinos cant’ be racist because they are not the ones with the power, even though everybody knows what is meant when somebody calls a black or a Latino racist.

            So since “white” is not an ethnicity (and even though you know who is being talked about when that term is used), should we call the people who hate them anti-Caucasian?

    • shirene

      I’m 100% asian. I think I understand what you mean. I have a bunch of Asian folks telling me it’s racist when people ask you “where are you from?” When in reality it’s a very legitimate question? I didn’t even start noticing it until these group of asian people mentioned it. Then I realized it is annoying if you are an American born chinese, and having people keep acting as if you are not USA citizen. I think it’s fair if we ask white people where they are from too, sometimes people are actually from elsewhere….

    • shirene

      I’m 100% asian. I think I understand what you mean. I have a bunch of Asian folks telling me it’s racist when people ask you “where are you from?” When in reality it’s a very legitimate question? I didn’t even start noticing it until these group of asian people mentioned it. Then I realized it is annoying if you are an American born chinese, and having people keep acting as if you are not USA citizen. I think it’s fair if we ask white people where they are from too, sometimes people are actually from elsewhere….

    • Freedom Mushaw

      I partially agree with this. But the self segregation is not only a habit from with in that race but a systematic issue. Laws that prevented people from living in Venetian areas, owning property, and being citizens caused these clusters more than people wanting to be around people who share a common thing. Safety was also a huge factor in these situations at the beginning. Example … A riot was created in the 60’s in Chicago after a black family moved into a building I an all white neighborhood. White flight was born when people tried to mix in. So systematically people tended to stay in their ethnic pods. How this could have changed is that when minorotoes had another ethnicity enter their homogenous community they welcomed them, but instead in most cases they did the same thing to others that was done to them. So sad. The Chinese exclusion act later to be the Asian exclusion act extension created Asian communities in the west. Cubans had this in Florida. And that community is very strong against non Cubans living there.
      We allowed the hatred of us – a minority to put out the same hatred. It’s sooo sad

    • bg57g

      “It doesnt happen to me/doesnt happen in my face, so it doesnt really exist”
      classic ignorance

    • Kiboko

      I wouldn’t go as far as to say that self-segregation is wrong because it’s not my place to say that. But it’s really not true to say that I haven’t had a relationship with someone from a Chinese/Japanese/Korean/Taiwanese etc background because I’m racist. I’ve never had the opportunity. My contact has been polite, but fleeting, which is a real shame. I’m not blaming anyone for this or saying that I wanted a ‘token’ friend. It’s just how it’s been :-(

  • Jacqueline

    Fix the typos!

  • H2O2

    “I have an adventurous type of spirit and like the idea of being with something rare,” WTF she’s referring to her boyfriend as a thing?she just sounds like she’s dating a trophy Asian boyfriend for the novelty of it A

    • Miju

      Kinda fell the same. What “thing”!

      • Morgan O’Brien-Bledsoe

        Her relationship.

    • 12 Notes

      Many men date Asian women for the same exact reasons and even more so. But then of course, there are a lot fewer white women dating Asian men. Kind of funny but this has been going on since WW II but very few have ever recognized it.

      • johar
        • Haha

          Insecurity at its best, bragging about their White conquests, showing off what they’ve got.

          • Jason Picton

            People are attracted to what attracts them, if you feel you are in a jilted or overlooked demographic then the problem is mostly likely you, not the choices of others.

      • AkuAndoryū Tru-Dru Harrison

        Many White Men Date Asian Women..state it properly because the only other Race I see with Asian Women are White Men they are the Highest Numbers in Interracial Relations. Asian Women are apart of the Problem that is the White Supremacy Problem because they stand behind them in anything and will likely Drink their Pee and eat heir Fecal Matter to prove their unquestionable Loyalty to their Great White Masters.

        • Kim

          It is so disgusting to talk about Asian women like that

      • You Know

        Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,..

        http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

        http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

        http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

    • flora

      Yea I’m not appreciating her motivations for dating outside of her race, or her willingness to follow such a horrible rule set by a racist family member.

    • Peter

      She probably means “being in something rare.” The “thing” meaning an interracial couple of Black woman/Asian man, Asian man are definitely not rare lol

      • gabe223

        Yes, Asian guys are not rare, but to get an asian guy to date a white or black female, YES IT IS RARE.

        • PsyVet1

          You’d be surprised at the numbers of Haffu kids who have Asian (Japanese) fathers. It happens much more than people think.

          • Jerry Alan Carroll

            The woman is rarely American though

          • TokyoMommy

            Yes, my kids for example!

        • Vu

          Asian guys/ White girls are not as rare as Asian guys/ Black girls!

          • Daniel

            Black girls is not popular in interacial dating. That is the reason. But many white women like black men more than asian men. And white men mostly prefer asian women over black women. Asian women are feminine,- black women are not.

          • Me

            *seen as feminine

          • Mocha

            Boo hooo. As a black woman i am so hurt that nobody wants our azzes. Lol. Any man who desires to sleep with a woman who looks like an 8 year old boy is a little suspect to me. I am glad these sexually insecure “males” arent attracted to me cuz frankly I like MEN not these effeminate she-males that inabit the North American continent.

          • Dimples 76

            Dont be fooled everyone want your dark skin. They all wants us. Black women are 1!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

          • HeavenlyKing

            Dimples, I don’t mind hitting on a girl like Beyonce all day everyday, need the cushion for the pushin.

          • Jason Picton

            Ahhh No.

          • Daniel

            My wife is actually asian. And like many asian women she have a slim body. But for men who like big ass is asian women mostly not the best.
            But I think media is guilty. Asian women are “better” women in media than black women. But for us whites it is actually a difference. My sister like actually black men but I as a white guy prefer asian women over black women. But i think there are more white male/black female couples now than in the past. But when I was young it was not social acceptable for a white man to be married with a black woman.
            It was actually hard enough for my parents to accept that my wife is from Asia. But times change. Today is it easyer for white men to have a black wife in my country. I think it is so in USA also.

          • BruceBeer

            Another factor are intellectual differences between the races, wit the average Chinese having a much higher IQ than the average Black.

          • True

            Chinese cheat at every exams and their universities regularly “enhance” results to look good since it can help the headmaster to be promoted, anyone who worked in China knows that.

          • Jason Picton

            Good to see you are not bitter at all.

          • ldavis

            Most black male/white female relationships seem to be based on lust and not substance. White women who marry black men are usually less educated and have a lower socio-economic level, according to the US Census data. This may explain why this group has the highest divorce rate. Interestingly, although white men and black women don’t marry nearly as often, this group has the lowest divorce rate of . couples in the US. They also tend to be on the same socio-economical level.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Please shut up with your BS. You don’t have proof you just have conjecture.

            What a dumb @$$

          • Haha

            Truth hurts badly when someone is not speaking the politically correct BS right?
            White male have the highest success rate in interracial relationships. White women are also the least marrying outside their own race, the highest being Asian women and mid-ground Black women.
            The type of White woman marrying outside their own race are typically self-hating whores, the least educated and overweight.
            On the other hand in China the local women marrying White expatriates often have post-graduate education and successful careers. Chinese men call them “leftovers”, too impressed by these strong, smart, successful and independent women who won’t settle for abusive patriarchal local dudes. White men love them for the same reasons.
            In fact there are so many women jumping on White poles in China that local groups of local boys have decided to attack random Foreigner man/Chinese woman couples in the street. Desperate measures to be expected from losers, that won’t make the woman love them anyway.

          • early90s/late2000s

            I don’t care. I’m neither Asian nor white.

            I just see old white men lure Asians over here with money…

            That’s all it is..money lol or the perception of money…status…that’s why white men are constantly over there lol

          • Jason Picton

            LOL that sounds very stereotypical, infact western men of all ages and backgrounds are flocking to asian women and vice versa, due to qualities they desire in each other, western men are seen as more loyal, warmer with families, put family and especially children first and foremost, asian women are co-operative rather than combative like western women are taught to be by feminism.

            Feminism teaches women they can be just like men, well maybe they can, but what they did not forecast for was western men saying NO THANKS to such masculinised females. Hence the Man Drought and Men on Strike phenomenom in the West currently.

          • early90s/late2000s

            What you described is the image of a “white” man. When they think of “westerner” who do you think pops up first? Tyronne or Jim? Lol playing dumb does not make it go away. I’m in a setting where I see about 400-500 faces in a matter of hours. So I see it all the same and it’s comical and sad.

            Let’s also be clear here. Colonialism messed up a lot if mindsets and views.

          • Jason Picton

            Western society is far more multicultural than any other, so NO you are WRONG, Western in no way means WHITE MEN, and in my posts I am discussing Western women specifically and why men are not desiring them as much anymore, but rather are seeking women from other cultures with better attitudes, its attitude that makes the western female unlovable.

          • early90s/late2000s

            No…you’re wrong…and I don’t fault you for thinking you know what you’re talking about.

            Another cat in denial.

          • Jason Picton

            Nope you are in denial cunt.

            Just another victim mentality loser.
            Women making excuses, Blacks making excuses, Gays making excuses etc etc.

            Instead of owning up to their own faults. I bet you are on the war against blacks in the USA bandwagon. Yet blacks kill the most whites and other blacks, but blacks want to fixate on racial reasons for cops shooting them, on why blacks are making up vast numbers of prison populations, on why they have a bad reputation in society etc etc etc.

            So its you who is wrong.

            Stop hiding behind protected group victim status based on race, gender, sexuality, religions etc.

            Its pathetic.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Lol bro we pick people like you apart daily.

            You make it too easy. This is about relationships and your ignorance just spews out.

            Honestly it’s like picking on a kid at the playground. If all you can do is bring up black vs. Black crime…which is a problem you’re a clown.

            Yet the majority is “white” and you kill each other far more. You are on government funds more than anyone.. And you fill prisons up. Don’t get upset and change the topic so you can express your ignorance you keep to yourself lol

            Go on Facebook. I’ll meet you there.

          • Jason Picton

            Blacks kill the blacks and the white prople. I aint changing shit.

            Western men are choosing asian women, and asian women tend to like us too, deal with it.

            You are a loser.

          • early90s/late2000s

            You haven’t owned anything. I guess next you’ll reference some random website with adjusted/inflated figures right? I see every play in your book.

            I’ve been on the FBI website.. The problem is black vs. Black crime in the figures you probably made up. Just to let you know.

            And racism? You mean my prejudice. Learn the difference.

            And the word you are looking for is proportion. You can’t “win” by claiming only you know best…you can’t even distinguish racism and prejudice.. Please go educate yourself.

          • Jason Picton

            LOL Butthurt.

            You got nothing just your opinion, I destroy you with facts just as I would in real life :0

            I win.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Racism…someone in power who establishes itself as being superior vs. another groups.

            I’m helping you out here because you’re trolling and you could at least be better informed to make it work.

            It doesn’t work on me..sorry.

            If I tried to establish superiority you just might be right… Ie “don’t date white men they lack…but we over here have..” Etc etc.

            Food for thought brick head troll

          • Jason Picton

            Its you who is the troll and only you who is the racists here, your anger at white males is obvious and gives us great pleasure.

            Lots of asian women don’t want asian guys they prefer white guys, the reverse is not the case, black women and asian men are the least desirible in western society, deal with it :)

          • early90s/late2000s

            Nothing you sat bothers me lol you’re some guy trying his best to sound legitimately intelligent when all you’ve shown is you can spell curse words right.

            you’re just another prick upset that a topic might be referring to you. Too dim witted to understand it can’t apply to every single person.

            Honestly, “I win”? Don’t immortalize yourself online with such childish acts. If I didn’t know any better you got a hold of your parents phone.

            ” I own you” lol go crush another beer can against your forehead.

          • Jason Picton

            Nothing I sat (sic) ? It appears you were angry when framing this reply.

            “some guy trying his best to sound legitimately intelligent..”

            Obviously I am because you felt the need to mention it specifically, yes I have provided logic and facts as opposed to your mostly incoherent ramblings.

            “Too dim witted to understand it can’t apply to every single person.”

            Yet it was you who took the Pin Dick comment to heart, projecting the reality of the comment in your case, and now hypocrite that others fail to see exceptions exists to the rule? Bravo retard LOL

            My parents are senior citizens with no interest intalking to butthurt racist pin dicks like you.

          • early90s/late2000s

            You pick out an obvious spelling error. You’ve made countless grammatical errors. It’s not that important.

            Nothing but insults with nothing behind them. Does this really work? Lol probably not.

            I think you’re in search of some validation. I can’t give it to you I’m sorry. You’re just another guy with an internet connection. You’ve brought up any and everything irrelevant. You make no sense… I honestly hope you’re trolling because if that’s showing your knowledge you should rewire yourself.

          • Jason Picton

            You made quite a few errors which indicates that you were (yellow) feverishly taping out a reply.

            Its pretty simple cunt eyes, you are a bitter asian male angry at asian womens paradigm shift towards preference to white males, and your tears are what we guys bath in.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Sadly, you’re assessment is wrong.

            That’s what you built your whole case on? Hoping I was Asian? Lol

            Bigger idiot than I suspected.

          • Jason Picton

            Trolls are useful to use to get the message out and to anger the entitled.

            Your race is unimportant but your hatred of the white race is just another useful tool we use to expose and humiliate and most importantly rebuke.

            So whether its white women complaining about WM/AF.
            Or Black women complaining about BM/WF.
            or Asian Pin Dicks complaining about everything….

            We just make fun of them as they try to guilt us, its like this trend in white heterosexual male guilt trips, we brush them off, if your ancestors allowed themselves to be slaves its their weakness, if your men are looking elsewhere its your fault ladies LOL

          • early90s/late2000s

            Yawn..no wonder I ignored you…

            You have multiple post trying to assume my race…yet didn’t care lol

          • Jason Picton

            Yes its true you got trolled.

          • You Know

            Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,.;’,././

            http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

            http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

            http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

          • Jason Picton

            There own women don’t want em much so a chinks gotta get some sex somehow :)

          • Epoche

            But they don’t choose to marry them why is that?

          • 80sGuy

            I bet it kills you when you see Asian men with their White women (girlfriend or spouse) going hand and hand together down the same block as you, while you and your skinny little chinky girl can only turn the blind-eye and walk away to prevent eye-to-eye contact. I’ve seen it many times.

          • Jason Picton

            Why would we care, we don’t want white women, and Asian men are not Alphas like white guys, so what is to worry about?

          • Jason Picton

            Racism:
            the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.

            Nothing about power, I bet you are like the feminists who claim women cannot be sexist because that requires discrimination and power, and women have no power in society LOL.

            You lefty losers are truly pathetic.

            Slaying trolls, its what i do.

          • early90s/late2000s

            “so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.”

            you do realize feeling superior is to exercise control aka power? Of course you don’t…too busy trolling and embarrassing yourself… Lol

          • Jason Picton

            No feelings are feelings that does not mean they manifest into action or policy.

            If I felt smarter than others or taller than others it would just be a feeling, it would not require action or efforts.

            Many racists like you do not ever articulate their actual feelings or attempt to project them onto others, in fact asian men rarely try that sort of thing because they would just get stomped.

            :)

          • early90s/late2000s

            The fact you keep hinting I’m Asian is even more comical… Like seriously you sound like a jack@$$ lol

          • Jason Picton

            You are non-white thats what you have stated, so maybe you are a chocolate drop wimp, but fact remains the bitter cunts are the rejected cunts or the weaker peoples who now want to cry about their position in the world, but never blame their own failings.

            Asian men and white women are the ones complaining about WM/AF, because they are missing out, the rest of us dont care, within the black community the Black women do also complain about their men marry white.

            So the rest of us just enjoy life, poke a bit of fun at those whiners who think they are owed something along Racial or Gender or Sexuality or even Religious lines.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Lol you can’t troll me…this was horrible 6 months ago…and it’s still bad hahaha…someone will read these responses…and curse and argue.

          • Jason Picton

            As you have done. :)

          • early90s/late2000s

            I let you go half a year ago. “White” males who lack the ability to understand/listen/process (and there are quite a few)… Rather than “conquer” (which you imagined yourself doing) can’t be reached. Case and point..yourself lol my bad for the cursing..that’s on me. With all your activity I’d hope you were paid to do that trolling I’ve seen.

          • Jason Picton

            I enjoy exposing fools like you and do it for free. In regards to money I get payed even if I don’t bother getting out of bed.

          • Epoche

            Black lives matter students who cannot do college level work after failing to complete an objective agreed upon standard must be removed by the threat of physical violence for the good of all races.

          • Epoche

            Racism is paying for your own children.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Lol I read two comments…find something updated.

          • messengeroftruth

            Stick to your video games little boy.

          • Jason Picton

            Tissue Mr Mangina?

          • Jason Picton

            Fuck up retard.

          • Epoche

            Blacks are inferior because organized black power destroys things like Coleman young. Whenever blacks get enough money they flee black rule in Africa or america, whether they are descended from slaves or not. Zimbabwe and detroit are good examples.

          • JP Anderson

            Then explain BLACK WALLSTREET

          • Epoche

            they were able to copy successful things that whites did. for the most part blacks couldnt organize a pissing contest.

          • JP Anderson

            MORE BS!!! At that time the whites, who made up the kkk in the south were struggling economically and saw that the blacks were prospering. We all know what happen next.

          • Jason Picton

            Still waiting on Facebook, you yellow?

          • Jason Picton

            “Nonetheless, the term is commonly used, often negatively as a pejorative (e.g., “racist”), and is associated with race-based prejudice, violence, dislike, discrimination, or oppression.”

            Race based prejudice is racism. Can I get someone who is not a retard like you to actually challenge me online?

            I win.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Even if you’re a troll you aren’t good at it.

            Have you ever been embarrassed? If not I am for you.

            Waiting on Facebook? I’m lost. You want my Facebook so you can troll and do who knows what? Right.

            You aren’t stupid…you just aren’t very smart. I hope you’re younger in age..

          • Jason Picton

            You are the troll. I have owned you, its what i do.

            You told me to meet of Facebook, well I am waiting, you are such a dumb fuck you cannot even keep your trolling story straight.

            I don’t hide behind a fake name like you, you need to because you are full of shit.

          • early90s/late2000s

            Lol I can’t get over you constantly trying to start a war of childish remarks…..baiting me to reveal my race with lame insults.

            It doesn’t work! Get over it.

          • Jason Picton

            You still here?LOL

            I don’t care what race you are, I just state the facts.

            People get butthurt when they don’t get their way or people reject them, well in this case its because asian men are butthurt, yet asian women can chose whoever they want, we all can, so if some group starts trying to come up with excuses to make themselves feel better at their rejection, starts attacking other groups rather than blaming themselves, thats when I give them a reality check.

            So everyone be whoever you want, but when others don’t want you then don’t get butthurt as we see so much on these types of threads.

          • Jason Picton

            “Go on Facebook. I’ll meet you there.”

            You said that, you aint lost, you are scared.

          • early90s/late2000s

            You’ve proven you’re an idiot. You bet the house I was Asian….and you failed lol

            I’ll leave you to curse and do whatever it is you’re trying to do.

          • Jason Picton

            Yes run away coward, I owned you, but I also used you.

            So any of you non white’s or non-males or non-hetero’s listen up we just dont care, we will do whatever we like you do whatever you like, but start telling anyone else what they can do or why they do it and you will get stomped.

            If you are a player of the Gender card, or the Race Card or the Sexuality Card we will smash you, shaming and blaming will not work on us because you are weak fucks looking for anything to blame except the one person who is to blame, YOU, pathetic YOU.

            :)

          • early90s/late2000s

            Please stop. White males have felt inferior for some time now….lol one of the main reasons stuff is so messed up now. Trying to insure you keep the power struggle aka racism going. Only thing you’ve proved is you like the sound of your own words.

            Much like yourself and others you benefit from your forefathers. Probably couldn’t make much of yourself without being born with benefit of the doubt. Such is life though.

            You and I are both here because you can’t let it go. You don’t care all of a sudden yet kept using insults tailored to an Asian man…back tracking now

            You were all over the place earlier. Now you want to be taken seriously ..lol

          • Jason Picton

            LOl yeah they are so superior that you sooks claim they run everything bwaahhhhh.

            I don’t care what race you are, I just rebuke losers like you with facts, weak cunts hidding behind excuses like gender oppression or race oppression to cover your own failings.

            Its not might fault, its because i am a nigger LOL or a gook or a fag or a feminist hahhahaaaa

            Anything else?

          • early90s/late2000s

            Thought I replied to you.

            I don’t fail…you’re behind a screen trying to personalize what’s being said…I know a loser on the net when I see one…lol

          • Jason Picton

            Sound slike you know yourself then LOL

          • Jason Picton

            “you like the sound of your own words.”

            Says the lip hooked halibut himself.

          • Epoche

            White males nd Asian women are most desirable.

          • Jason Picton

            I am spewing ignorance? I just owned you with your own hate filled mentally unstable postings. Bwahhhhhhhhhhhh

          • Epoche

            Failure to recognize social patterns under the threat of being accused of racism kills people.

          • Jason Picton

            Yes so its not racist for a white man to only like Asian women, as you cannot hate yourself and if you have no problem with white males then you cannot hate all whites, therefore this equals a lack of racism.

            Its just butthurt rejected western white women venting at their own disenfranchisement.

          • Jason Picton

            Blacks in the USA are @12% of the population yet constitute @39% of the prison population, LOL

          • Jason Picton

            4.7% of Black males are in prison, while only 0.7% of white, so they should stop committing crimes at such a greater rate than whites.

            Stick to facts, you butthurt asian males have no idea.

          • Epoche

            But blacks and Latinos don’t pay taxes and will vote for politicians who condone violent campus activism of they can’t pass a standardized test. Just because you have a small dick doesn’t make me racist.

          • Epoche

            Black men have stopped paying for their own children and now criticize others mate choices. That’s ironic

          • Jason Picton

            Your racism clouds your judgement as we can see by your comments.

            “early90s/late2000s Unite2014 15 days ago

            Shut up

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s Dawn Wang 20 days ago

            You’re just another white cock sucker

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s AsianAmerican 20 days ago

            You’re trash.

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s bedwetter toughguy 20 days ago

            You’re a classless troll.

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s Unite2014 21 days ago

            I apologize for my language but some stuff is complete rubbish

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s Grazhdanin 4 a month ago

            Shut up bitch.

            ReplyView in discussion

            early90s/late2000s a month ago

            I live in the bay area. I see it all over and it’s so sad.

            Asian women will settle with the fattest…baldest…sloppiest white guy, all for status.

            I really feel sorry for some of them…I really do. It’s obvious you get with them for money or the illusion of money. I see it all day ..everyday and it bothers me for some reason.

            Probably because I know you hold white guys on a pedestal.

            ReplyView in discussion…”

            Another butthurt asian guy blaming white guys for your own situation?

            Obvously.

          • Black Man is a fetish

            “What you described is the image of a “white” man. When they think of
            “westerner” who do you think pops up first? Tyronne or Jim?”

            I guess you are a black man. Black men always pop up on sites like this and start fighting with white men over various women when you black men are poor. Black men don’t even provide for or CARE ABOUT their OWN women or children! Black men have nothing. So listen, the reality is that the black man would be nothing more than a FETISH for an Asian woman. She’ll hit it & gossip to her Asian female friends about the experience, and she’ll keep it moving towards an Asian or white man. A black man is nothing more than a sexual fetish for the majority of these Asian women.

            I know this because I used to live abroad (Not in Asia) and the majority of my friends were Asian (especially Japanese). I saw how they wanted marriage with white man or especially Asian men, but the one time they mentioned black men, it was like they were talking about the black man like a sex toy or something, a bed-warmer. Not like a regular man they wanted to build a life with.

          • Marina Doshkevich

            That is because black men come originally from Africa. They do not come from Europe originally. Most black people are in Europe because they were brought as slabes. When people think of the WEST they think of EUROPE, and thus they think of the people who are original to Europe, the white Europeans. That is logical thinking.

          • early90s/late2000s

            There are generations of “black” men established in the u.s. do you know how much of a clown you’re close to sounding like?

            “Originally”..don’t make me laugh.

            By that logic the original person to the u.s. (native American) should be an automatic thought….but people don’t see it as so huh?

            You thought you had great logic. Try again.

            I got to mute this crap..

          • Epoche

            Zimbabwe has moved forward since throwing the white man out of power?

          • JP Anderson

            But many white nations are in economic turmoil right now as we speak.

          • Epoche

            because they are becoming less white

          • JP Anderson

            NOPE!!!! That’s BS. A site such as dailyjobcuts.com which reports on U.S. job losses everyday has nothing to do with race.

          • Epoche

            why is it that whites dont want anything to do with blacks but the opposite is not true/

          • White woman in China

            Ooooh sorry to disappoint you. Educated Asian women are VERY competitive, ambitious and have NO intention of being the little woman. It is an outdated stereotype that they are submissive.

          • Jason Picton

            Nobody said they are, the only ones claiming that are the bitter rejected white/western girls looking for excuses to cushion their own ego’s.

          • Jason Picton

            “I just see old white men lure Asians over here with money…”

            Butthurt.

          • Gene Walker

            True..white men lure over here with money. But once they get Americanized
            They leave these guys for black men. Someone that’s more loveable then white guys

          • Bullocks/Hogwash 2015

            “True..white men lure over here with money. But once they get Americanized
            They leave these guys for black men. Someone that’s more loveable then white guys”

            In all my life, I have never seen an Asian woman with a black man. Asians are raised to like fair skin and status and wealth from what I have observed. I’ve seen them date some older wealthy white guy but then turn around and marry an Asian man after that. Someone in their own race.

          • True

            Exactly. Amen. End of story. Glad we can all move on now. Jeez.

          • Marina Doshkevich

            I see plenty of young white college students with Asian girlfriends…now I doubt that they will usually get married, but i don’t think that money is what attracts Asian women to white men. In any case, there is no shortage of very wealthy Asian men, and no shortage of white women or black women that are attracted to money. So your comment makes very little logical sense.

          • early90s/late2000s

            You didn’t use logic. You used one of the worst perceptions ever, yours. This is my second reply to your lack luster post.

            Do you read your response’s? I bet you do… That’s how bad the finished product is.

            Think about college and who dominates the classrooms. Is college a privilege? Who is more likely than not to be privileged in the U.S.? – this is logic and me giving you the chance to put it together yourself.

            “but i don’t think that money is what attracts Asian women to white men. ” – apparently you have the answer so tell us. I’m curious.

            “and no shortage of white women or black women that are attracted to money.” –

            Yet I make no sense…lol smh

          • Epoche

            He only understands money. He is incapable of seeing that Asian women and white men like each other.

          • Epoche

            I am a poor white male who met an attractive Asian female and now we are both very rich.

          • JP Anderson

            To haha:

            These are RICH white men with mediocre/unattractive Asian females

            So it’s a lie that you being poor met an attractive Asian female.

          • lel

            But then yet again most white females are typically self hating wheres anyway aren’t they? Makes sense, that explains yellow fetishism

          • UR obsessed with black women

            “White women are also the least marrying outside their own race, the highest being Asian women and mid-ground Black women.”

            Black women are the least likely to marry outside their race, and what does “Mid-ground” mean?? and why are so many people on here OBSESSED with talking about black women? You talk about black women’s looks, black women’s dating habits, if black women are this or that. Stop your OBSESSION with black women!

          • Marina Doshkevich

            And Chinese guys are definitely hot. They are even pretty likely to be tall.

          • jay stocke

            white males are very insecured and evil. They use the media ploy to portrait wm/af couples in Hollywood while totally exclude Asian male presence on the silver screen. The same ploy is used in news anchors. They pair up white male news anchors with Asian female anchors while totally exclude Asian male news casters. But this procreation secret is totally exposed. Now I see some am/wf couples featureed in Asian advertisements.

          • jay stocke

            white males are very insecured and sly. They use the media ploy to portrait wm/af couples in Hollywood while totally exclude Asian male presence on the silver screen. They use the same media ploy on news anchors. They pair up white male news anchors with Asian female anchors while totally exclude Asian male newscasters. But this procreation secret is totally exposed. Now I see some am/wf couples featured in Asian advertisements.

          • fds

            The media is owned exclusively by Jews who identify greater Western culture as the enemy. The programming shows such denigration all the time.

          • JP Anderson

            You talking out of your a**hole too much there.
            These are RICH white men married to MEDIOCRE/FAT Asian women:

          • JP Anderson

            To haha:

            These are RICH white men with mediocre/unattractive Asian females

          • 80sGuy

            Not true at all. Where did you get your b.s. info from? White women whom dates/marries Black men are not self-hate, that trophy goes to Asian women – the only race species known to mankind whom posses such great deal of shame and self-hate. Educated or not, Asian females will flock to any White man of any age, and any size just to get the sperm count.

            I have personally seen Asian friends, their parents (mothers) and sisters bossing and treating the husbands/brothers/boyfriends like dirt. When I visit, it is usually the father that do the great cooking and washes up, not to mention the bread and butter of the family. I also do not doubt that patriarch loves his family very much. I also realized this weird phenomenon when going out, many Asian girls would make their (Asian) boyfriends hold their purses or handbags…very controlling, not to mention odd and weird, why?

            Your theory of the so-called patriarchal Asian man whom abuses women are stuffs that only appears on numerous films such as Shogun and The Joy Luck Club (author Amy Tan), which ironically are produced by the very same pair, the two types of people – Jewish (white) men and Asian women. The foremost is whitewashing, and the latter is a sad excuse of abuse and a way to escape, yet both instills the message of ‘submit and savior’.

          • Jason Picton

            Education and wealth/income are not something we men value over youth and beauty and we also value women who are not feminists shrills.

          • Rick

            Lot millionnaire black men married white women light skin take best black mentioned

          • Gene Walker

            Idavis: you are a big lier a lot of these white women are very educated with these black men. You’re just jealous these educated white women’s don’t want you anymore
            Just like the Asian girls crossing over to these. Black brothers. I’m with an educated Asian woman. All the Asian ask me to set them up with black guys. They told me do not bring any white guy there was. So I don’t. Asian girls like black guys now

          • 80sGuy

            You go boy!!!

          • Marina Doshkevich

            Show me a study that says that too. Because that just sounds like something you made up on the spot because of your own assumptions. As far as I am aware, all interracial couples have a very high divorce rate.

          • BruceBeer

            It’s biology, Blacks have more testosterone than other races, that is part of the reason many Black women have “manish” qualities.

          • Marina Doshkevich

            No. Black men do not have any extra testosterone. And NO black women do not have extra testosterone. Show me a study that says so.

          • ONCH

            Still insanely rare when compared to WM/AF couples.

          • Article is silly

            “Asian guys/ White girls are not as rare as Asian guys/ Black girls!”

            What difference does it make??!! And why are black women or men talked about so much in an article that’s supposed to be about whites and Asians?? Why do you bring up black women/men?? Also, in my entire life I’ve only seen ONE couple where the man was Asian & the female was white. I’ve lived all over the world, btw.

          • RIF

            You should come to Canada I have two neighbours on my street with a Chinese Husband and White Wife

          • Epoche

            They are envious that’s why.

          • 80sGuy

            That must be Bruce Lee.

          • Sarah

            Hi!
            Relationships with foreign individuals DOES increase cross-cultural understanding. Perhaps it wouldn’t in a close minded culture where people are trying hard to blend in but, generally, in American culture, being different is valued. Having a different opinion from everyone else is valued. I know it may not seem that way from the media, but if you came to the U.S. and interacted with lots of people, I think you would understand what I’m talking about.
            In the U.S..there are many cultures all living together and melding together. It’s natural that people will be interested in others. A term like “racial purity” is considered an evil and racist concept in our culture, but I get where you are coming from. I don’t think you meant it in the “Nazi” sense. You acknowledge you were raised thinking that way and perhaps that’s what works in your part of the world. But the world is like a family and we are all human.
            A family from ANY culture that brings their family in the U.S. and has children in the U.S. will find that their children become American and subsequent generations will lose more and more of the “parent” culture of which they came. An example would be my Greek ancestors which represents only part of my heritage. My family doesn’t even eat Greek food when they get together except perhaps at funerals. We do “American” things. But being “white” in America means you lose your parent culture especially fast. The Greek relatives, in Greece, my family have kept in touch with are so different that it’s like we aren’t related.
            I must mention another point: I’ve heard that Chinese people think Americans are weird for being nicer to strangers or friends than to their own family. I know it seems odd, but it’s because we can choose our friends but we can’t choose our family. If your family is horrible, in U.S. culture, you can just not ever talk to them again. We have no obligation to them. People are independent of their parents. You have the freedom to be the closest family ever or the most separated family ever. You have the choice! No more horrible obligations and guilt hanging over your head for an eternity of ancestors looking out from heaven at you!
            My point mentioning all that is that people in our culture (I’m American) are “mixing” race because it makes sense in our culture. The U.S. is, in many ways, a cultural experiment. Cultural differences are minimized in this country when compared to other cultures, I think. The genetic diversity is wonderful and I hope it continues to be more mixed.
            I am called “white” because I look it although much of my Greek family looks Middle Eastern. I am Irish, Scottish, English, German, Austrian, Greek, and more.
            From a scientific perspective, the genetic diversity in any species, ultimately makes the species stronger.
            I think it’s great that you are proud of your ancestors. I am too! Everyone should be but that doesn’t mean you have to lead the same kind of life as them. You are new, fresh and you are here, alive in the world right now. They are dead. Perhaps they aren’t gone but I hardly believe the dead are judgemental. We are the judgemental ones, the living, always analyzing right and wrong, etc. Our ancestors are probably all pure love energy right now! Ok, that was some hippie stuff, but seriously, live and love and be open to what makes your heart sing! If that includes loving someone who is not Han Chinese, you might find that they are as proud of your heritage as you are even though they aren’t Han, because they love you and everything about you.

          • I am not sure any non-Chinese can appreciate Chinese culture the same way any Han Chinese can. It seems different.

        • Dana

          Honestly, black women (99%) do not care. That’s no skin off their noses. I felt I needed to mention that just to be clear. Also, a white man wrote this article and it cannot be trusted. At least I personally do not trust it. It’s more propaganda and B.S. than ever before. I hate online.

          • Mocha

            You aint neva lied! I dont see that many non-black women in my every day life who are either supermodel material or fit the so-called standards of beauty. The average black woman on the streets look about as good as they do. The only ones out here in Cali who look halfway decent have spent around 100k getting plastic titties and an azz put in, lip implants, eyelid surgery to “westernize”their eyes (if Asian) a facelift and botox before age 30 (if Caucasian) and many hours in a tanning booth, otherwise they are very plain and washed out looking.

            And I am glad these…effeminate she-males who inhabit the North American continent dont desire me because their whiny voices, bad toupees and flabby arses dont excite me either ROFLMBAO!!!!

          • Jason Picton

            LOL u seem to have racial bitterness issues.

      • Tuk

        i am a light skinned thai woman and i accept that black men are the most sexy. in thaiand, you will see darker men with lighter women as traditional norm. but darker men abandon their dark women and try to get lighter women. most of our lighter skin women marry darker men, not wesern men nor chinese men. thai chinese are generally dark because chinese married black women as light skinned women prefer black men because black or darker men please lighter skinned owmen and have the most sweet words.

        • tuk

          (more) thailand is a land of black and whites western men when come to thailand hardly get light skinned thai women but have to end up with black women because we, the light skinned race minority, do not find western men attractive. this is unlike our dark thai men who are more sexy, robust and have more sweet words and they prefer us, the light skinne thai women over black women.

          • BruceBeer

            Super BS. In Thailand they have sperm banks from only White donors and these are very popular to “beautfy” the babies.

        • BLKPOWER

          damn this bitch even types fucked up english

    • MsG

      It sounds as though her attraction stems from a fetish

    • If he’s happy with her, and she with him, why find fault with the reasons they give for seeking each other out?

      • Etown Brown

        Or better still, WHO’S BUSINESS is it?! :)

      • bella lis

        I don’t think it’s about finding fault. I think people are just curious and want answers when it comes to interracial dating because people are that ignorant and can’t fathom finding someone attractive based on things beyond the norm.

    • Charles Vise

      He is a thing. All humans are things. get over it.

      • Kyungjun KJ Park

        That means you’re a thing too!

        • YO

          So?

    • shirene

      I get what she’s saying. I’m AF dating half black half hispanic male. I like it because it’s something I choose to have, and it’s not usual. Any other route (white or asian) would have been easier. PLus, it helps that I like him :).

    • lana

      It all comes down to money. I do not find white women as being attractive, why must the goal be to pair men with white woman in all tv shows and commercials? I would love to see more beautiful women of other races on tv commercials and shows on tv. All you see on tv is white girls with blacks which to me is boring.

      • Helen

        Although money can be a factor, race usually is a bigger factor. If you have a rich Asian male and a rich White male, women will tend to be more attractive to the white male, even though their financial status is the same. In fact, even if an Asian male is richer than a not-so-rich but well off white male, women will still favor the white male. It’s less so about the money, but more so about how women are simply more attracted to non-Asian males.

        • Benz

          B.s. its racism

          • jgreene

            not b.s. but, yes, racism…and proven fact. i think this articled delved into some of the reasons why. the only thing that could compete with a white male who’s “not-so-rich but well off” is an extremely rich, powerfully positioned white male, for example, puff daddy, etc.

          • Haha

            It’s the truth, deal with it.
            Source: Lived in China, plenty of girls went with me instead of wealthy local dudes.

          • bella lis

            Youre naive. Lol…they likely dated you for the very same reason some white men date Asian women (and vice versa) in the west. Fetishism and novelty. I can assure you that Asian alpha women usually date within their race because they have a strong desire to. Just as white alpha usually date/marry same race.

        • TheHusband

          wrong, asian women would certainly prefer the asian male, for one. even non-asian women would prefer an attractive asian male over most white males. remember that most white males themselves aren’t exactly that attractive themselves; take a walk through any public area in america and you can see for yourself. if anything, the majority of white american women wouldn’t be considered desirable by many asian men, so it can go both ways

          • SomeGuy

            well the thing is, you’re talking about an “attractive” asian male vs a regular guy. in any case, body fat/muscle mass percentage aside, white men are considered to have genetically more desirable traits than Asian men

          • Tony Jiang

            what a racist statement mien furher

          • tuk

            men of caucasian race are all fat crocodiles, not at all attractive. you hardly get any girl from thailand, but end up date trash women from our thai toilet (prostitutes, bar girls who are dark skinned, very ugly), and i am a thai girl from the light skinned race minority.

          • Jason Picton

            LOL bitter again?

          • tuk

            my name “tuk” is a female thai name. very ugly are caucaisian men with a lot of hair and dark freckles like primivate chimpanzies. and i am a female translator writing in english from thailand

          • Jason Picton

            U are a small pin dicked asian man LOL

          • Kiwi

            Just curious. Do you talk that way in front of your half Asian son? Does your Asian wife approve?

          • Jason Picton

            Yes, he is only HALF asian, you seem to have trouble with that concept. Perhaps you continue to ignore he is half caucasian and only focus on the Asian part as it suits your agenda. Again she is not his mother, you are not very good at this are you?

          • Kiwi

            You didn’t answer the questions, retard. I’ll reword them, though it might not help as it seems you’re too stupid to read simple sentences.

            Do you trash talk Asian men behind their backs or do you do it in front of your son? What does he think?

            Do you trash talk the men in your wife’s family behind her back or do you do it in front of her? What does she think?

          • Jason Picton

            LOL as you can see folks, this ia another comman bitter reply, he thinks that we even have to answer his questions, and then resorts to Ad Hom attacks when we don’t jump on his tiny dick commands. LOL.

            I call it like it is, the fact that the most popular interacial pairing is a white male with an asian female shows the trend, and there are reasons behind it, obviously most asian women arewith asian men, the only ones who seem to have a problem with the large numbers of asian women looking outside their race is fucking gutless cowards like you who feel entitled to those women by default of your race, yet get rejected. We see the same bitterness and entitlement mentality amongst white and black women in regards to men of their races daring to marry/date outside of that race.

            You are trying paint the argument to suit your agenda and you are failing badly.

            You are angry that asian women are flocking to be with white guys. Thats the simple truth of it and it comes out in your posts.

          • Kiwi

            The reason you didn’t answer the questions is because you’re afraid to expose yourself as two-faced. The answer to both is “no” because you would be too ashamed to lose face in front of both your son and wife, who likely would be shocked to learn that you post comments online deriding Asian men as small dicked.

            Imagine what a Eurasian male must think, growing up without any Asian male role models in his life and being unable to convince others that he is not Asian in any way. Add on top of that having a white father whose only opinion of Asian men is that they have small penises. I suppose a good father would keep his racist views to himself to spare his son…

          • Jason Picton

            The reason people do not answer your questions is because they are based on a false premise, its like asking someone who is a vegan what they like most about the tast of beef.

            I said YOU are a pin dick. Again keep trying to twist it, my son is not asian, he is bi-racial so he is as much white as he is asian, man you are butthurt.

            My son is here watching the EPL and thinks you are a wanker.

          • Kiwi

            “The reason people do not answer your questions is because they are based on a false premise, its like asking someone who is a vegan what they like most about the tast of beef.”

            I asked if you talk shit about Asian men in front of your son. That’s a yes/no question that even 5 year olds can answer. Also, I didn’t ask “people” questions. I only asked you. Are you really that stupid?

            “My son is here watching the EPL and thinks you are a wanker.”

            So your son has enough Asian ancestry that many people would consider himself Asian and nothing else, knows that you spend your entire life online posting about how Asian men have small dicks? While he’s still there, do share what he thinks of YOU.

          • Jason Picton

            Other people are reading your comments, and I was talking about your general attitude.

            Again you based your question on a false premise, that being that I talk shot about ASIAN men, I point out facts about world demographics, cause and effect.

            Again if Obama is half white and half black then he is not BLACK, you have a hatred of white men, that is obvious, so much so that you consider my son being half asian half white as being asian, you discount the white haf becuase you are butthurt and hate white men.

            He thinks i am awesome.

          • Kiwi

            Yes, he thinks you are awesome because you haven’t told him that Asian men have pin dicks yet. After you tell him (and I know you were lying about him being there) come back and tell me what he thinks about you. But I know you won’t because you’re a coward.

          • Jason Picton

            Once again retard I said YOU are a PIN DICK and my son is biracial not asian bwaaahhhhh.

            Just man up and sort this out face to face. U dumb troll.

          • Kiwi

            Once again, retard, I said your grandsons will have PIN DICKS, and your son will have to explain to them why they have White pig DNA. Waaaaaaaah

            Go screw your pig now.

          • Jason Picton

            Once again retard I said YOU are a PIN DICK and my son is biracial not asian bwaaahhhhh.

          • Kiwi

            Doesn’t change the fact that your son is still Asian and will be seen as Asian by Whites, retard.

          • Jason Picton

            Hooks in deep with this insecure asian.

          • Kiwi

            Yes. Go ahead and talk that way around your son. He’ll be so proud of the day you screwed his mom.

          • Jason Picton

            Insecure asian men are a laugh :)

          • Kiwi

            Insecure White men who sleep with Asian female dogs are an even bigger laugh. :)

          • Kiwi

            White people don’s see Obama as half white, retard. You have to be living under a rock to not notice that.

            White people don’t see Eurasian men as white or even half white. They see them as Asian.

            The point is that you would never talk shit about white men, proving that you are a racist hypocrite.

            Of course your son thinks you are awesome. You haven’t talked about his pin dick to him yet. Hahahahahahaha!

          • Jason Picton

            Other people are reading your comments, and I was talking about your general attitude.

            Again you based your question on a false premise, that being that I talk shot about ASIAN men, I point out facts about world demographics, cause and effect.

            Again if Obama is half white and half black then he is not BLACK, you have a hatred of white men, that is obvious, so much so that you consider my son being half asian half white as being asian, you discount the white haf becuase you are butthurt and hate white men.

            He thinks i am awesome.

          • Kiwi

            Whites don’t see Eurasians as mixed, they see them as just Asian. Whites don’t see Obama as Black, they see him as just Black. If you don’t agree, go argue with other White people about it.

            Your son doesn’t know what kind of person you really are because he doesn’t know you talk shit about Asian men when he’s not around.

          • Jason Picton

            Mixed is mixed, you have a small apendage but its not the end of the world. My son is mixed ;)

          • Jason Picton

            You hate white men, so its you who are the racist, but keep trying, owning you is fun.

          • Jason Picton

            Why do Eurasian men need a specifically Asian role model (thats racist), fuck me you are just a sook. If you don’t like how certain parts of society depicts asian men, despite when its based on fact, then thats your problem.

          • Kiwi

            I didn’t say Eurasian men need a specifically Asian role model, retard. I was talking about how Eurasian men who inevitably self-identify as part Asian and male but have white fathers and Asian mothers who bash Asian men all the time will have problems with their racial identity.

          • Jason Picton

            “Imagine what a Eurasian male must think, growing up without any Asian male role models in his life….”

            You most certainly did CUNT.

            Self identify LOL good one PD.

            Listen cunt we are not going to stop calling out the faults of asian men in regards to why women reject them, their own women, because they are fact, and no amount of guilt tripping will stop ME or that.

            We are allowed to say our piece, you offer only attempts to shame people because you don’t like the message.

            Eurasian men are as much white as Asian, my god you are truly a pathetic victimhood mentality PD.

          • Kiwi

            Can you read, retard? Nobody sees your son as White, so when you say Asian men have pin dicks, he’ll obviously wonder if you are ever referring to him since he has Asian ancestry.

            PS: I don’t talk, think, or know about other men’s penis sizes or know of any other men in real life who do. But I know you certainly do. I wonder if it is projection due to latent personal insecurities. Or maybe you’re confused about your orientation since you talk about men’s penises so much?

          • Jason Picton

            Just the facts Bro PIN DICK.

            “Big
            In the penis size league tables the Daily Mail reports that men from The Republic of the Congo take top position with a porn star like 7.1 inches, with the Ecuadorians, Ghanaians and Columbians not far behind with 7 inches, 6.8 inches and 6.7 inches respectively.
            The average for the African continent as a whole is a whopping 6.3 inches.
            Medium
            The Icelanders come top of the Europeans with 6.5 inches.
            The Germans are Mr European average with 5.7 inches.
            The Brits come out above the French, beating the more traditional country of love and romance, by a full 0.2 inches.
            The Brits also beat the Australians (5.2in), Americans (5.1in) and Irish (5in).
            Small
            At the other end of the table, North and South Korea measure in at 3.8 inches. India and Thailand are only slightly bigger at 4 inches.
            The overall average for north-east Asians was the lowest at 4.2 inches.

            Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/333932#ixzz3jo6AsmOL

          • Kiwi

            Holy shit, you are one dumb fuck.

            Richard Lynn is a quack who has no qualifications in medicine. What’s more creepy is that you look at studies on men’s penis sizes. Do you enjoy looking at men’s dicks?

          • Jason Picton

            NEWSFLASH: Kiwi exposed as Homophobe Gook PIN DICK :)

          • Kiwi

            NEWSFLASH: Jason Picton exposed as hypocritical racist pig :)

          • You Know

            Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,.;’,/

            http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

            http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

            http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

          • Jason Picton

            Good to see, the lil asian PIN DICKS gotta get pussy somehow :)

          • Kiwi

            Can you read? I didn’t say Eurasian men need a specifically Asian role model, retard.

            Look, no one wants you to stop sleeping with dogs. It’s your choice. No decent guy wants the trash that you go with.

            I am allowed to say my piece and you offer only attempts to shame us because you don’t like the message.

            Eurasian men are not seen as white by white people. They’re seen as Asian. So I guess your son has a PD. So sad.

          • Jason Picton

            “Imagine what a Eurasian male must think, growing up without any Asian male role models in his life….”

            You most certainly did CUNT.

            Self identify LOL good one PD.

            Listen cunt we are not going to stop calling out the faults of asian men in regards to why women reject them, their own women, because they are fact, and no amount of guilt tripping will stop ME or that.

            We are allowed to say our piece, you offer only attempts to shame people because you don’t like the message.

            Eurasian men are as much white as Asian, my god you are truly a pathetic victimhood mentality PD.

          • Kiwi

            If you want to bash Asian men, I have the right to call out racist Asian women and White men on their shit. You talking about dicks only proves my point.

          • Kiwi

            An Asian woman, assuming she has any self-respect, would not join her white husband in bashing Asian men. She has an Asian father, grandfathers, brothers, cousins, uncles, friends, etc., people she may love and care about. If she learned that her husband spent all his time online posting comments about Asian men’s penis sizes, she may at best suspect her husband of being gay or at worst be offended that her husband so disrespectfully trashes all the men in her family.

          • Jason Picton

            My wife owes you NOTHINg jsut because you are asian, get over it cunt. obody bashing asian men, we are just exposing your butthurt comments over your own bitterness at society and the women who dare reject you.

            My wife herself has stated she would NEVER be with an Asian male, its her preference, preference is not DISCRIMINATION, the UN has stated so.

            Where have I trashed her family, you confuse coments that you choose to take to heart and accord to all asian men you PIN DICK CUNT.

          • Kiwi

            “My wife owes you NOTHINg”

            Don’t get me wrong. I do agree. I would never want anything to do with your wife. Same reason all decent men never want anything to do with prostitutes.

            “Where have I trashed her family”

            You think every man in her family has pin dicks. I would recommend you telling her that to her face, only I doubt she would be offended because she obviously has no shame or respect for her own family. Trash marries trash.

          • Jason Picton

            Again she would have nothing to do with you on two counts, 1. You are a PIN DICK butthurt entitled mentality male, and 2. You are asian, as she has a preference for white guys that really rubs you the wrong way.

            Perhaps look at your own reality to see why so many asian women are looking elsewhere for partners.

            More Ad Hom LOL

            Again you have a PIN DICK not all asian guys.

          • Kiwi

            Again, you would never describe White guys as having pin dicks, so your “not all” argument is BS.

            Again, I couldn’t care less if trash like your wife wants nothing to do with me.

            1. No decent man would want her (including decent White men)

            2. Your wife doesn’t have a preference for White men. She has a preference for racist and sexist White pigs like you who have shitty personalities.

            Again, you’re a bottom of the dung heap White guy. And I’m here, just feeding you for my own entertainment.

          • Jason Picton

            Statistically asian men have smaller genitals, deal with it, none of this you would say to my face so I LOLZ on you Bro PIN DICK.

          • Kiwi

            Statistically, most guys don’t talk about other men’s genitals. Deal with it. None of this you would say to my face, right back at you. Go back to screwing your pig, please.

          • Jason Picton

            Statistically asian men have smaller genitals, deal with it, none of this you would say to my face so I LOLZ on you Bro PIN DICK.

          • Kiwi

            Actually, stats show no genital size difference between races. Enjoy eating your dicks, bro.

          • Natalie N.
          • Kiwi
          • Kiwi

            No, actually, they don’t. http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/bju.13010/epdf

            You’re probably just another one of those whitewashed Asian girls who thinks she’s better than all Asian guys and only dates White guys. Do the world a favor and go choke on a White dick.

          • Kiwi

            Again, no decent guy would want a dog like the one you screw on two counts 1. You are a racist white pig who feels entitled to Asian pigs, and 2. You are a racist pig, and pigs tend to rub people the wrong way.

            Perhaps look at reality to see why no decent human wants to be with a dog like you.

            Obviously, you would never call a white guy a pin dick, proving that you are a hypocrite.

          • Jason Picton

            Again she would have nothing to do with you on two counts, 1. You are a PIN DICK butthurt entitled mentality male, and 2. You are asian, as she has a preference for white guys that really rubs you the wrong way.

            Perhaps look at your own reality to see why so many asian women are looking elsewhere for partners.

            More Ad Hom LOL

            Again you have a PIN DICK not all asian guys.

          • Kiwi

            Again, no decent guy of any race would want your wife on two counts.

            1. She’s a racist self-hater and that rubs men the wrong way.

            2. She bashes her own race and has no shame.

            You only talk about Asian men’s penises, proving you a hypocrite.

          • Jason Picton

            ” I doubt she would be offended because she obviously has no shame or respect for her own family.”

            This folks is the classic guilt trip, so despite all the facts my wife should whorship and defend ALL asian males just because her family has asian males.

            No thats not how it works.

          • Kiwi

            You’re right. That’s not how it works.

            Your wife shouldn’t defend all Asian men but it’s perfectly okay for your wife to judge and exclude all Asian men just because of their race. Way to go, hypocrite. Sheesh. You really are that stupid.

          • Jason Picton

            Insecure Troll Above, Beware LOLZ.

            Racial preference is not racism, so says the UN.

          • Kiwi

            Racial preference is not racism when its dogs and pigs breed together. No worries.

          • Jason Picton

            Insecure Troll Above, Beware LOLZ.

            Racial preference is not racism, so says the UN.

            Woof woof

          • Kiwi

            WTF? The UN doesn’t say that, retard.

          • Kiwi

            Right. Instead, she should attack Asian males right alongside her White pig husband. If you killed the men in her family, she wouldn’t give a shit. That’s the kind of pigs you two are.

          • Jason Picton

            This folks is the classic guilt trip, so despite all the facts my wife should whorship and defend ALL asian males just because her family has asian males.

            No thats not how it works.

          • Kiwi

            You’re right. It’s not how it works. The world is actually a better place when racists like your wife stay away from decent men of any race and only sleep with racist pigs like you. It’s a fair arrangement.

          • Jason Picton

            You are a buffalo :)

          • mike

            white women are sluts and sleep with big black dudes so their vaginas get stretched out. even white guys are too small for many white women. especially fat white women which there are tons of and keep increasing as white americans keep getting fatter.

          • BruceBeer

            So sad, but what he says is often true. Many American women are STDS central

          • tuk

            my name “tuk” is a female thai name. very ugly are caucaisian men with a lot of hair and dark freckles like primivate chimpanzies.

          • tuk

            The name “tuk” is a thai female sex, not a man. let check it with a thai guy in USA or Europe. very ugly are caucaisian men with a lot of hair and dark freckles like primivate chimpanzies. i am a thai girl, not a man from thailand, and i work as a translator so i can communicate in written english. Who wanted or want any western man? you just walk with dark skinned thaitified women, divorced ones, not virgin, not any real thai race Please stop thinking what happens in USA is the same as what really happens in the true Asia.

          • Jason Picton

            thats kewl because I am not in the US nor from the US, and I live in the real Asia and asian women love white guys, not low-so thai loser men.

          • BruceBeer

            Stupid comments. You sound frustrated.

          • Yep

            Frustrated and aggressive Asian males are common all over the internet. The same dudes look down the ground when passing you in real life. Can’t get a girlfriend in real life? Must be Whitey’s fault. Yeah right.

          • tuk

            The name “tuk” is a thai female sex, not a man. let check it with a thai guy in USA or Europe. i am a thai girl, not a man from thailand, and i work as a translator so i can communicate in written english. Who wanted or want any western man? you just walk with dark skinned thaitified women, divorced ones, not virgin. Please stop thinking what happens in USA is the same as what really happens in the true Asia. very ugly are caucaisian men with a lot of hair and dark freckles like primivate chimpanzies.

          • Tuk

            The name “tuk” is a thai female sex, not a man. let check it with a thai guy in USA or Europe. i am a thai girl, not a man from thailand, and i work as a translator so i can communicate in written english. Who wanted or want any western man? you just walk with dark skinned thaitified women, divorced ones, not virgin. Please stop thinking what happens in USA is the same as what really happens in the true Asia.

          • Jason Picton

            I suspect you are infact a troll account from one of the bitter rejected races white men don’t want :)

          • Jason Picton

            And bigger where it counts than asian men, they had to make a micro condom for the asian markets.

          • mike

            a lot of white men have small penises too. even many big tall guys you think are endowed actually arent. i’ve seen them in the locker rooms and some. so dont make it seem like all white guys are big where it counts. and ive slept with asian men who are big as well, even guys who are small statured.

          • Jason Picton

            So ur gay? Ewwwwwww

          • Deal with it

            Large size condoms are not available in Asian countries, I had to order them from abroad when living in Japan and China since I wouldn’t fit in with the local offer, maybe one exception would be Thailand since there are so many non-Asian going there for you know what.
            Magnum XL and Durex XXL are widely available in 99.99% White populated countries like Finland or most of Eastern Europe. Condom makers know the truth, market talks.
            BTW, the biggest recorded penis in the world, Jonah Falcon, is white, so are the second and third biggest.

          • bloosteak

            There actually isn’t penis size by race based on doctor measured results. Nice try though.

          • Natalie N.
          • Jason Picton

            We rule, all women love the mighty white weapons in our pants :)

          • bella lis

            I can attest to this, on my life. LOL….

          • lel

            And a nano one for the white market

          • Jason Picton

            The mighty white penis rules the world Yin Yang LOL

          • tuk

            western men are always with trash women from asian toilets, divorced asian women, not virign. John Lennon married a japanese woman who was not at all virgin. a western man has recently married a divorced dark skinned thai woman, an alreay used woman.

          • Autumn

            you’re a fucking sexist. Why would you judge a woman by her sex life? Go get some education and help. You’re sick!

            FYI, lots of virgin women did terrorism in Russia.

          • Jason Picton

            U sound bitter LOL

          • Haha

            You sound like a frustrated Asian boy worshiping virginity because of a deep-down insecurity about your micro-penis.
            Experienced women are top notch, no real man wants a starfish to fuck with.

          • You Know

            Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,.;’,./

            http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

            http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

            http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

          • Natalie N.

            Nah, that’s not true. The Japanese singer Ayumi Hamasaki was married to a white guy. So is another singer Utada Hikaru. Zhang Ziyi was dating a white guy for a long time. Hong Kong actress, Vivi Tam, was also with a white guy. So no, I wouldn’t say all Asian women who marry/date white guys are “trash” or “toilets”.

          • Jason Picton

            Nope my Asian wife categorically refuses to ever be woth asian men, sorry to burst your bubble but white men and asian women are both the most sought after. 30% of US born asian females still seekout white guys.

          • JohnnyMangoes

            Your son will be Asian. I wonder exactly how he’s going to feel about that.

            Future Elliot Rodger?

            http://www.reddit.com/r/hapas

          • Jason Picton

            Hold on if Barak Obama is half white who is he “black” he is only half black. LOL, you people fixated by race definitions.

            My children ARE children, their backgrounds are from two racial groups, surely they will just as easily be labeled WHITE on the same logic you label them ASIAN?

            LOL I love smashing fuckheads logic like yours online. If someone is 1% black are they black?

            Elliot Rodger? What has that got to do with it? He was a loon who killed men and a couple of women, not am MRA etc.

          • Kiwi

            If your son looks Asian, it won’t matter that he’s half white. When he asks out an Asian girl who categorically refuses to date Asian guys, she’ll reject him because he’s Asian and then he’ll come home crying to his mom, only for her to tell him that she also hates Asian men and would never date one. Even if your son looks white, many girls will be grossed out to learn that he’s half Asian.

            Do you see what is wrong with this? What’s sad is that I doubt you do. I wonder if you even respect the men in your wife’s family. Shameful…

          • Jason Picton

            Asian chicks dig my son, as for the white women or kiwi scum, I prey they stay away from him, the people we white men are starting to reject is white filth women and kiwi bludgers like you. So don’t get all confused, your sheep will be missing you.

          • Kiwi

            “Asian chicks dig my son”

            I doubt it, especially since you’re the one who said “white men are the most sought after” and that “asian females seek out white guys”.

          • Jason Picton

            You are a special kinda stupid aren’t you.
            Now lets take you apart.

            I mentioned that my wife, not everyone, refuses to be with or consider an asian man as a spouses etc. This was in reply to the opinion by bitter lonely unwanted western females that state these asian women would really prefer to be with asian men, and only marry whites for money/visa etc.

            We see so many atypical bitter attacks by jilted western gals all designed to make them feel better about and justify their own rejection undesirability.

            So yes asian chicks do dig my son, as he is half white also, you seem to be some kinda of racist puritan that thinks if a person has one dop of non-white blodd that they must be considered part of the race of that mix no matter how small.

            So yes white men may be the most desired, and black women and white women the least, but just don’t take those facts personally.

            I win. ;)

          • Kiwi

            “I win. ;)”

            You win because all the women of your race are the least desirable? Ouch. I’d like to see you tell that to the women in your family, only I’m afraid you’re too cowardly to do that…

            “So yes asian chicks do dig my son, as he is half white”

            Good to know. That means if your son has boys of his own with an Asian woman, your grandsons will be undesirable to Asian women because they have pin sized dicks since they’re mostly Asian.

          • Jason Picton

            No again you are being emotive, trolling and quite wrong as usual. The least desirible women are black american women, my family knows that I am very much not into western women, I am anti-feminist, anti-western females.

            No my son has no children yet, why to people like you jump to such conclusions, go play with your pin dick and vent about rejection by women who you demnad by their race should desire you, what a loser.

          • Kiwi

            Butthurt much? You say you don’t want your son to be with white women and say he’s good with Asian women. So obviously, your grandkids will be mostly Asian and very likely look completely Asian. That means your grandsons are going to have pin dicks! Congrats! Let it seep in slowly. I know it hurts.

          • Jason Picton

            Who is to say he will have any kids at all, I don’t demand nor expect that, its your tradionalist asian thoughts like that that have your women spitting in your faces and chasing white guys. Again you have a PIN DICK, asian men in general have smaller dicks that other races, but you have a PIN DICK, because of your butthurt bitter comments and demands of racial loyalty from women of your race who find you pathetic.

          • Kiwi

            “Who is to say he will have any kids at all, I don’t demand nor expect that”

            I KNOW you don’t demand or expect it. That’s because you don’t want your grandsons to have PIN DICKS. Get over it!

          • Jason Picton

            No, the reason I don’t expect it is because its his life his choice, I wonder if you extended such freedom to asian women in their choices to marry/date non-asians how much more the women might actually like you, and not think you are hung up on racist issues of entitlement.

            You have a PIN DICK, not all asian men.

          • Kiwi

            Do you say White men have pin dicks? Didn’t think so. Hypocrisy aside, there do exist White men who date or marry Asian women but are not racist. They don’t resort to bashing Asian men or obsessively talk about Asian men’s penis sizes. That’s how I know you are racist, bottom of the heap trash, unlike other White men.

          • Kiwi

            Wow, are you stupid. You don’t call white men pin dicks, which proves what a stupid hypocrite you are.

            The only entitled person is you, and you feel entitled to women who bring shame on their race. No decent man would ever want her and for that matter, no decent woman would ever want you.

            Get over it.

          • Jason Picton

            No, the reason I don’t expect it is because its his life his choice, I wonder if you extended such freedom to asian women in their choices to marry/date non-asians how much more the women might actually like you, and not think you are hung up on racist issues of entitlement.

            You have a PIN DICK, not all asian men.

          • Kiwi

            If you weren’t a racist pig, maybe women from your own race would like you. Obviously, you only talk about Asian men’s dicks, proving you a racist hypocrite.

          • Jason Picton

            You lost.

          • Kiwi

            Yes, I lost because your grandson is going to have a teeny weeny peeny. Congrats.

          • Jason Picton

            I won, because you are a butthurt PIN DICK, my kids are all biracial LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

            Yeah racists like me and the wife always marry interacially.

            No wonder asian women are rejecting asian men more and more given Kiwi as an example.

          • Kiwi

            You won because all your grandsons are going to have PIN DICKS. HAHAHAHAHA

            Only ugly Asian women (inside and out) marry white scrubs like you. It’s no loss to Asian men. Keep your garbage.

          • Jason Picton

            I won, because you are a butthurt PIN DICK, my kids are all biracial LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL.

            Yeah racists like me and the wife always marry interacially.

            No wonder asian women are rejecting asian men more and more given Kiwi as an example.

          • Kiwi

            Only self-hating Asian females breed with dogs like you. Don’t worry. Decent guys aren’t missing out on anything.

          • Kiwi

            The only thing you won is an easy, cheap, low class dog to breed with. No one wants it.

          • Jason Picton

            You lost.

          • Kiwi

            Right. The guy who loves talking about dicks is the winner. Congrats.

          • Kiwi

            “asian men in general have smaller dicks that other races”

            Wow, you seriously know and talk a lot more about men’s penises than every man I know of. Check your orientation, bro.

            Your grandsons are going to have pin dicks. Have fun.

          • Jason Picton

            My children are biracial so they won’t end up like you, troll on loser LOL until u decide to man up.

          • Kiwi

            Your grandkids will end up looking Asian, so they won’t have to look like you, a White pig. LOL

          • Jason Picton

            Nah my son like Black girls so they wont look asian, nothing more pathetic than a pure blood asian bitter PIN DICK hahahahaha

          • Kiwi

            So your son likes Black girls even though you don’t. Great for him. Just wait till he hears you trash on Black women the way you bash Asian men.

          • Jason Picton

            So insecure aren’t you lil man.

          • Kiwi

            Right. Says the guy who’s obsessed with other men’s penises.

          • Jason Picton

            LOL u r obsessed with me because mine is way bigger than your lil asian PIN DICK hahahahahaaaaa

          • Kiwi

            Right. Because criticizing you is worse than talking about other men’s dicks all the time. What a dumbass.

          • Jason Picton

            the enemy is white women, never loose sight of that :)

          • Kiwi

            Do you kiss your white mother with that mouth?

          • Jason Picton

            Now you see this fake Kiwi is trying the race card guilt trip. Its a common reply they use, they normally include sisters etc in it to add extra guilt. LOL.

            Feminism has made white women toxic, not all but enough for me to be unable to recommend them to men for reason’s I can articulate.

            Its like saying your mother is a murderer, you don’t condone her actions, but you still love her as your mother. Well its the same with the western female, just because I know some and they are ok does not mean there is not a real problem with what western society has turned women into, hence the backlash against feminsim umongst women, in a vain attempt to start attracting more men again (I warn men agaisnt such wolves in sheeps clothing).

            Now the cause and effect is obvious, just that western women refuse to admit that its them that is causing men to look elsewhere. The reaction men get when they do and find foreign women is but one of the symptoms of this ingrained shift away from toxic western females.

          • Kiwi

            Actually, nearly all white men who marry have white wives, many of them feminist and very much in happy, rewarding relationships. Just because you’re a bottom of the pile white male that even white females don’t want to touch with a 10 ft pole doesn’t mean all or even most white men have the same problems as you. Get over it.

          • Jason Picton

            Ahhh denial tactics mixed with sour grape syndrome.

            Yeah sure, if we are the bottom of the pile why do white women and asian loser men like you get so butthurt when we pair up with yummy willing asian ladies?

            As white women try, its too late to reject and label men who have already rejected you as losers at the bottom of the pile. No, I have seen the bitterness and anger in white women whenever they see me with aisan women throughout my life, some have even discussed it and told me truthfully that how can they get a man when we are choosing asian women with which they cannot compete, especially once western women start aging, 30 years up really struggle if they are single.

            Feminism sold them a dud pill, they cannot have it all as promised, because men have the right to say NO.

            Feminsim is very unpopular even amongst women now due to the backlash of men refusing to man up and provide female life expectations in the west.

            The other side of the coin is the bitter asian male who cannot get an asian woman and resents the men who do (white and black guys).

            So I suggest you get over it.

          • Kiwi

            “Yeah sure, if we are the bottom of the pile why do white women and asian loser men like you get so butthurt when we pair up with yummy willing asian ladies?”
            Easy. It’s because it’s an embarrassment when Asian women willfully overlook all the negative qualities of white men and date them only because of their race, never mind how shitty these white men are, like yourself.

            Honestly, no decent man of any race would want to be with an Asian woman like your wife or any of the other women who’ve spread their legs for you. They’re angry because they don’t like seeing the women in their race having no sense of shame or decency, which is embarrassing for other members of their race, both men and women.

          • Jason Picton

            Lets begin another smashing of the PINDICK.

            “It’s because it’s an embarrassment when Asian women willfully overlook all the negative qualities of white men and date them only because of their race, never mind how shitty these white men are, like yourself.”

            Gee no bitterness or racism there, as I told everyone its easy to expose the disenfranchised butthurt types, be they white women, black women or the asian male. You see I don’t care what these 3 groups do or what they think they are owed or entitled too. My role is to encourage men to avoid such females especially. I don’t care if white women marry black etc, I don’t care what they do at all, and thats the rub, they think I should care and owe some allegiance to them based on “race” no different to our resident PD asian here expects from asian women.

            Its obvious he has an issue with asian women being with white guys and overlooking him. = BUTTHURT.

            So you think asian women owe you loyalty because they are asian?

            “Honestly, no decent man of any race would want to be with an Asian woman like your wife or any of the other women who’ve spread their legs for you. They’re angry because they don’t like seeing the women in their race having no sense of shame or decency, which is embarrassing for other members of their race, both men and women.”

            Its you who are racist. I don’t expect white women to owe me anything based on race.

          • Kiwi

            “So you think asian women owe you loyalty because they are asian?”
            I already answered your question, retard. I want nothing to do with Asian women like your wife because they have no shame, respect, or decency. Asian men are upset because women like her are an embarrassment. They make all Asians look bad. You can keep your wife. Nobody wants your garbage.

          • Jason Picton

            Once again we are talking about asian women as a demographic not just my wife. Given your insults at her its no wonder women reject you.

          • Kiwi

            I know you were talking about Asian women as a demographic, retard. The truth is, 99% of Asian women are comfortable dating and marrying Asian men. Your wife is the exception, which makes her embarrassing for all the other Asians who aren’t racist against their own. It’s no wonder only a low class woman like your wife would want to be with you.

          • Jason Picton

            Far fewer than 99% of asian women prefer or even like asian men, thats they data thats the facts and its why you are butthurt and such an easy target, poor baby bwaahhhhhhhhhhhh

            Again if racial preference is racism, then gay men are sexist for excluding women?

            So easy to own you PIN DICK.

          • Kiwi

            The data shows that 99% of Asian women in Asia prefer Asian men. That’s why there are billions of Asians and 99% of Asian women are with Asian men.

            There is a large number, though, that likes to sleep with pigs like you. You like an alternative lifestyle. Can’t blame you.

          • Jason Picton

            Nope in Asia they have less choice to reject the PIN DICKED asians, in the USA 30% of AF marry WM, even in Asia far more than 1% of AF marry non-AM’s :P

          • Kiwi

            Less than 1% of Asian women in Asia go for White men, even if given the chance to go with White men. 80% of Asian women in the US grow up around Whites but still less than 30% choose to marry White men, plus that % is falling.

          • Kiwi

            Given your insults towards Asian men, it’s no wonder no decent guy would want a dog like the one you screw.

          • Jason Picton

            Once again we are talking about asian women as a demographic not just my wife. Given your insults at her its no wonder women reject you.

          • Kiwi

            Once again, we are talking about racist self-haters breeding with racist pigs. Given your insults towards Asian men, it’s no wonder she would want to be wth you.

          • Jason Picton

            “Asian men are upset because women like her are an embarrassment.”

            Because ashe dared to marry NON-ASIAN.

            You are exposing yourself nicely.

          • Kiwi

            No, she married a racist pig. That’s why it’s so sad. But hey, why should I care when pigs breed with pigs?

          • Jason Picton

            LOL you most certianly do care hence I own you on here.

            Now once again racial preference is not racism, and by definition its impossible to be racist against your own race.

            Do you also consider gay men sexist for excluding women as potential partners.

            And if I am racist against Asians then why did I marry one, you defy logic, I bet you get your head kicked in often.

          • Kiwi

            You married an Asian because she’s an easy and cheap lay. Most white women are smart enough not to marry guys like you. It’s obvious since both of you bash on Asian men all the time. Nobody likes dogs.

          • Jason Picton

            LOL maybe all the Bitter PIN DICK asian men could hook up with the white women we have rejected?

          • Kiwi

            Get real. It’s the Asian women that nobody wants who end up with you.

          • Kiwi

            No, retard.

            Because she dared to screw a pig.

            Are you really that stupid?

          • Jason Picton

            “Asian men are upset because women like her are an embarrassment.”

            Because ashe dared to marry NON-ASIAN.

            You are exposing yourself nicely.

          • Kiwi

            No. Because she decided to breed with a pig. That’s what’s embarrassing.

          • Jason Picton

            Yes bashing asian men is the same as saying you would never be with one, especially if you are an asian woman, because according to PD Kiwi these women have a racial obligations to be with aisan men or promote asian men. Bwaahhhhhhh

            FAIL

          • Kiwi

            Can you read? I didn’t say Asian women have any racial obligations, retard. I said women like your wife make all Asian women look bad because they are racist against their own race and look like cheap prostitutes, especially with men like you. Are you really that stupid?

          • Jason Picton

            Lesson for the day for the PIN DICK, you cannot be racist against your own race.

            “racism
            ˈreɪsɪz(ə)m/
            noun
            the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics, abilities, or qualities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races.
            “theories of racism”
            prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one’s own race is superior.”

            You picking it up yet. Many Asian women don’t like asian men because of the very traits you are showing on here, you are the actual racist.

          • Kiwi

            Lesson for the day for the white pig, you can be racist against your wife, kids, and their family.

            Most Asian women don’t like white men such as you because they see you for the racist pig you are. The ones who do go for guys like you know they are pigs, too, so they realize it’s a good match.

          • Jason Picton

            Lesson for the day, Kiwi is in no way a bitter asian male LOL (sarcasm).

            Asien women and white men is the largest and growing demographic, it leave naturally more feminine asian males bitter and alone, example = kiwi above.

          • Kiwi

            Actually, Asian women and White men is a shrinking demographic. Likely, it’s because many of them are catching on to the fact that scrubs like you are racist pigs.

          • Kiwi

            I didn’t say Asian women are racially obligated to be with Asian men, retard. I said Asian women who hate Asian men and marry racist pigs like you are a shame to their own race. No decent man would want a dog like the one you screw.

            Hahahahahaha!!!

          • Jason Picton

            Yes bashing asian men is the same as saying you would never be with one, especially if you are an asian woman, because according to PD Kiwi these women have a racial obligations to be with aisan men or promote asian men. Bwaahhhhhhh

            FAIL

          • Kiwi

            Right. Categorically excluding an entire race instead of being colorblind isn’t bashing one’s own race. I already told you many times. Nobody wants to be with your dog.

          • Jason Picton

            We have yet another bitter asian male amongst us.

            “Kiwi my self 2 years ago

            I agree. As an Asian male, I find it insulting that our masculinity has to be validated by white women, as if white women are a trophy or something. And besides, most white women would never want to be with nonwhite men, anyway, highlighting their racist tendencies. So, it’s pointless for nonwhite men to seek approval from them. What makes white people so special, anyway? I would like to see the promotion of relationships between Asian males and other nonwhite women as well.

            I also agree on the issue of white worship. White people in general do not respect Asians so it is hypocritical for Asians to seek validation from them.”

            Bwaahhhhhhhh.

          • Kiwi

            Right. An Asian guy who says he’s open to all races and has only about a dozen comments is “bitter” but a white guy ranting about white women not wanting to sleep with him and how he has to travel to Asia just to pay women for sex and has half a thousand comments is not “bitter”.

          • Jason Picton

            LOL i love how you are so angry and trying to fit me into your biiter view of the world.

            Now, your first comment that I have shown speaks for itself, we can see your agenda and that you are coming from a butthurt personal experience.

            I am married so hardly have to travel anywhere, but hey keep trying Pin dick.

          • Kiwi

            “I am married so hardly have to travel anywhere”

            I know you live in Thailand, retard. That’s obviously not where you were born.

            As for who you’re married to, the question is how much you pay your wife to sleep with you since only someone so desperate would want to be with trash like you. Is it more or less than what the plane ticket cost?

          • Jason Picton

            I lived in Thailand with my wife, now we are in Oz. Watch out your butthurt is starting to show, hmmmm

          • Kiwi

            Thanks for the update. Does it cost more to pay your wife for sex or to buy plane tickets?

          • Jason Picton

            Do you insult your mother like that?

            See thats what you do, you claim men calling you a PIN DICK that you are is an attack on ALL asian males, yet you try a lame insult on my wife, that you would never say face to face, but fail to see the hypocrisy that you are insulting your own mother by that comment.

            Fucking OWNED lol

          • Kiwi

            “Do you insult your mother like that?”

            Unlike your wife, women like my mother respect Asian men and don’t talk shit about Asian men because they respect their fathers, grandfathers, brothers, etc.

            Women like your wife disrespect Asian men, refuse to have anything to do with them, and marry white men who trash Asian men and say they have pin dicks.

            The difference is clear. Women like your wife spread their legs and take payment. Women like my mother don’t because they have pride.

            And you still didn’t answer the question:

            Does it cost more to pay your wife for sex or to buy plane tickets?

          • Jason Picton

            Yet when i insult you you claim I insult all asian men, including bi-racials like my son.

            Yet when you insult my asian wife you are not insulting all asian women including your mother?

            And you think an asian woman is only worth repecting if she submits to your racist agenda and refrains from accurate criticism of the asian male culture?

            I said you have a pin dick, which is obviously true.

            Again your question is based on a false premise.

          • Kiwi

            “Asian male culture”? Is that a culture that Asian men grow up in complete isolation from Asian women? And you do realize most humans are Asian, right? Are you really that stupid?

            Your wife isn’t criticizing “Asian male culture” (even though Asian men and women grow up in the same cultures). She’s judging and excluding all Asian men based on their race, even Asian men who treat women better than White men do. If she were accurately criticizing men, she would exclude only men with terrible personalities, such as yourself, instead of all Asian men. Your wife obviously had no problem spreading her legs for a racist and sexist White pig like you, so obviously she’s a two-faced hypocrite.

          • Jason Picton

            Big

            In the penis size league tables the Daily Mail reports that men from The Republic of the Congo take top position with a porn star like 7.1 inches, with the Ecuadorians, Ghanaians and Columbians not far behind with 7 inches, 6.8 inches and 6.7 inches respectively.

            The average for the African continent as a whole is a whopping 6.3 inches.

            Medium

            The Icelanders come top of the Europeans with 6.5 inches.

            The Germans are Mr European average with 5.7 inches.

            The Brits come out above the French, beating the more traditional country of love and romance, by a full 0.2 inches.

            The Brits also beat the Australians (5.2in), Americans (5.1in) and Irish (5in).

            Small

            At the other end of the table, North and South Korea measure in at 3.8 inches. India and Thailand are only slightly bigger at 4 inches.

            The overall average for north-east Asians was the lowest at 4.2 inches.

            Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/333932#ixzz3jo6AsmOL

          • Kiwi

            Holy shit, you are one dumb fuck.

            Richard Lynn is a quack who has no qualifications in medicine. What’s more creepy is that you look at studies on men’s penis sizes. No normal guy or any guy I’ve ever known does that. WTF

          • Jason Picton

            NEWSFLASH: Kiwi exposed as Homophobe PIN DICK LOLZ

          • Kiwi

            NEWSFLASH: Jason Picton exposed as racist hypocrite LOLOL

          • Kiwi

            You use the term “pin dick” to describe Asian men but not white men, proving that you are a hypocrite.

            Asian women don’t have to marry Asian men. It’s only the ones who marry pigs like you who need to be called out and criticized for being racist.

            Also, Asian males don’t all share a culture, retard. You obviously wouldn’t accept anyone criticizing white male culture, proving again that you are a hypocrite.

            You talk a lot about other men’s dicks. I don’t. It’s obvious you are the insecure one.

          • Jason Picton

            Yet when i insult you you claim I insult all asian men, including bi-racials like my son.

            Yet when you insult my asian wife you are not insulting all asian women including your mother?

            And you think an asian woman is only worth repecting if she submits to your racist agenda and refrains from accurate criticism of the asian male culture?

            I said you have a pin dick, which is obviously true.

            Again your question is based on a false premise.

          • Kiwi

            Wow, you are one dumb fuck.

            You don’t insult me. You insult all Asian men. I don’t insult all Asian women. I rightly criticize just those who have no shame, like your wife. That’s the difference.

          • Jason Picton

            “The difference is clear. Women like your wife spread their legs and take payment. Women like my mother don’t because they have pride.”

            So what you are saying is any asian woman who dares marry non-asian males is spreading her legs for cash, but if they marry asian they have pride.

            Geeee, its not all about you is it? Bwaahhhhhhhh

          • Kiwi

            Are you really that stupid? An Asian women who sleeps only with White men for cash, like your wife, is an embarrassment to all Asians. I don’t care if an Asian women dates men of any race. However, your wife excludes all Asian men, which is not what most Asian women are like. I’ve said it many times: you can keep your wife. No decent guy would want her.

          • Jason Picton

            I have this insecure PIN DICK owrked up nicely.

            Big

            In the penis size league tables the Daily Mail reports that men from The Republic of the Congo take top position with a porn star like 7.1 inches, with the Ecuadorians, Ghanaians and Columbians not far behind with 7 inches, 6.8 inches and 6.7 inches respectively.

            The average for the African continent as a whole is a whopping 6.3 inches.

            Medium

            The Icelanders come top of the Europeans with 6.5 inches.

            The Germans are Mr European average with 5.7 inches.

            The Brits come out above the French, beating the more traditional country of love and romance, by a full 0.2 inches.

            The Brits also beat the Australians (5.2in), Americans (5.1in) and Irish (5in).

            Small

            At the other end of the table, North and South Korea measure in at 3.8 inches. India and Thailand are only slightly bigger at 4 inches.

            The overall average for north-east Asians was the lowest at 4.2 inches.

            Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/333932#ixzz3jo6AsmOL

          • Kiwi

            Holy shit, you are one dumb fuck.

            Richard Lynn is a quack who has no qualifications in medicine. What’s more creepy is that you look at studies on men’s penis sizes. No normal guy does that.

          • Jason Picton

            NEWSFLASH: Kiwi a pin dick.

          • Kiwi

            NEWSFLASH: Jason Picton likes dicks.

          • Kiwi

            Wow, you really need to learn to read. The only thing your wife dared to do was spread her legs for a pig. Those who have pride don’t do that, and that’s most of them. Too bad.

          • Jason Picton

            “The difference is clear. Women like your wife spread their legs and take payment. Women like my mother don’t because they have pride.”

            So what you are saying is any asian woman who dares marry non-asian males is spreading her legs for cash, but if they marry asian they have pride.

            Geeee, its not all about you is it? Bwaahhhhhhhh

          • Kiwi

            Wrong. Asian women who bash Asian men and sleep with racist pigs like you have no pride or shame. Some Asian women who marry White men don’t bash Asian men. Yours is just not one of them. Too bad.

          • Jason Picton

            Perhaps the fact that asian men like you are so butthurt and feminine as to attack a woman you don’t even know just because you think you have been jilted and unfairly rejected, is why those women validly don’t want you.

          • Kiwi

            Meanwhile, it’s perfectly okay for White men and Asian women like you and your wife to attack all Asian men who they don’t even know as feminine and as having pin dicks.

            If your wife validly didn’t want certain men, she would exclude them based on their personality, not their race. Instead, she’s married to a racist pig and refuses to date all Asian men, no matter how kind, caring, or loving they might be. That is not valid. That is your wife being a racist pig like you. Again, nobody wants your garbage. I would not mind being rejected by a woman like your wife. That’s like being rejected by a cheap prostitute. No shame in that.

          • Jason Picton

            Only ones complaining are cowards like you, the bitter asian men and the rejected white women. Tissue?

            Sexual preference is NEVER racist, or do you think gays are sexist for not liking women LOL

            Fucking owned this cunt just as in real life.

          • Kiwi

            Of course sexual preference isn’t racist when your preference is dogs and pigs.

          • Jason Picton

            Insecure asian male above, who cannot fight :)

          • Kiwi

            Right. Yet White men who talk about men’s penises are not insecure. Makes so much sense.

          • Kiwi

            The fact that only Asian women who are cheap, easy, and shameless want you and that nobody else wants to be around you shows what a pig you are.

          • Jason Picton

            Perhaps the fact that asian men like you are so butthurt and feminine as to attack a woman you don’t even know just because you think you have been jilted and unfairly rejected, is why those women validly don’t want you.

          • Kiwi

            Perhaps the fact that only self-hating racist dogs would want to breed with racist pigs like you explains why decent men are lucky to be rid of trash.

          • Jason42ist .

            You got it exactly right. So Asian women hate their own men, they truly marry white men for money and white men with small penis like Asian women because Asian woman have tiny, tiny vagina. Asian women are selling a tight V for lots of white man’s money. So the child that is half Asian is hated by Asians for being half Asian, not all white, the white father hates Asian men and yet has a son that is half Asian. The mother hates Asians altogether but has a half Asian son. The children always marry white, so within 2 generations they are back all white again. Problem is the kids won’t marry anyone Asian so the Asian mother is back to square one mixing Asian genes with white after only 3 generations. Her great-grandkids will be back 100 percent white. Who doesn’t get it that Asian women go after white men for money, typically they stalk Jewish men knowing that Jews are very wealthy. And tiny penis white men like feeling big. It’s literally selling small vagina for very high price.

            Why do you think no Asian men go with black women? Black women have the largest Vs while Asian men have the smallest Ps. Like swimming in the ocean.

          • Kiwi

            I can tell you’ve either slept with a lot of Asian men and black women to know what size genitals they have or you have some strange mental illness. Either way, it doesn’t matter.

          • Jason42ist .

            It was on Oprah a long time ago. She had a doctor on the show and she said it – she said Asians have the smallest sex organs, then Hispanics, then whites and then blacks. If a white man sleeps with a black woman he would have a hard time having an orgasim because black women have larger vaginas than the other races. Why do you think mostly ONLY black men will sleep with black women? Because black men have big ones so it’s all good. And this is why rich white beta men marry Chinese women – they have super tiny Vs. They are paying for a super orgasim. Rich white guys worth billions marrying and mating with people who are nothing to look at and there are billions of them, while a rich white guy is probably .11111 percent of the world’s population. The Asian women are after money, they are smart and cunning. How else could they take a man of another race from another country other than theirs for a ton of money and make a man who has it all think marrying someone who somewhat resembles a monkey with ashy skin is soooooooo fantastic if not for the tight P cats?? They are selling super tiny vaginas. Get a clue.

          • Kiwi

            You need to be a standup comedian. It’s your true calling. I haven’t been this weirded out and amused in a while.

          • mike

            and there are many white women who dont want to be with white men either and only with black and hispanic men.

          • Jason Picton

            Good luck too them, difference is the ones complaining about peoples choices are Black and White women and Asian men.

          • BruceBeer

            Usually White trash, fat, dime
            dimwitted, and crude.

          • Haha

            In one word, feminists.

          • JP Anderson

            These are RICH white men with mediocre/unattractive Asian females

          • BruceBeer

            The above statments are true. I lived in China 3 years, their very favorite men were North Europeon men, tall guys with light skin and crystal blue eyes.

          • bloosteak

            They sound quite feminine. Or are you talking about only in bars that were catered to foreigners? Just think of the numbers. Even if .1% of Chinese women had a fetish for nerdy white guys, that’s still a LOT of women.

          • Haha

            Facts are facts, Asian women are marrying outside their race at an exponential rate. Asian men are desperate with only their hand.

          • Jason Picton

            U are in denial my friend.

        • Kiboko

          Do you mean ‘be more attractive TO’ or ‘more ATTRACTED to’? I’m not being pedantic, or critical of your grammar. I’m asking because the meaning of your comment changes completely depending on which one is correct. I suspect it’s the latter, but I can assure you that for some women, money isn’t a factor at all.

          There are indeed a small group of women who will marry a man with money over one they love. There are also men looking for trophy wives. But in the 21st Century, we are able to be financially independent and we are not forced to marry because it’s the only way to survive. Looking for someone who can provide for you is becoming less and less important. For some of us, it isn’t important at all. I know this is anecdotal, but none of my friends have ever been with a man ‘for his money’. In fact many of us have experienced some men (not all) spending our meagre income and disappearing off into the night.

          I must admit though that when I saw the title of the article, being English I went automatically to the English understanding of the word ‘Asian’. This is anyone who looks like they may be from India/Pakistan/Bangladesh etc. I clicked on this because I have had one LTR three short-term relationships with (English definition) Asian men. I have never been in a relationship with anyone who is (American definition) Asian (Chinese/Japanese/Korean/Vietnamese/Taiwanese etc). After reading this article I asked myself why as I definitely prefer the qualities outlined above to the US Cowboy stereotype. I think it’s simply opportunity. I’ve never had the opportunity to make friends with anyone who is US Asian as they tend to socialise within their own community, so no relationship was able to develop from friendship. I would have been open to the idea (I’m not looking now).

          I cannot speak for all women, I definitely cannot speak for US women or black women and I’m not trying to deny anyone else’s experience. What I can say as someone who used to work in statistical data is that it’s possible that the wrong conclusion was drawn depending on the question asked.

          For example one of the paper’s over here had a meltdown at the statistic for elderly people on their own on Xmas Day. What they didn’t say is that figure also included those who don’t celebrate Xmas/ with no family/with families who saw them on the day before or after/with families working in the emergency services or out of the country/and elderly people whose behaviour has been so atrocious that no one wants to spend any time with them. I also thought that it’s more important to see elderly relatives regularly rather than just once a year on Xmas Day. It would be easy if the answer to the question ‘Have you dated Asian men?’ was ‘no’, to conclude that was the result of a lack of attraction.

          There may be another reason that white woman/US Asian man is an unusual combination. While the article defines what donates ‘men’ and ‘masculinity’ in US Asian culture, it doesn’t say anything about women. I don’t know whether this applies to US Asian culture or not, but I wouldn’t be in a relationship with anyone who expected me to be subservient. I’ve ended it with white men or refused them in the first place if that was their position. As (and I’m referring to the general stereotypes in the article) there’s now an increase in US African women/US Asian men partnerships and US African women are perceived as independent, it probably isn’t. But if the perception is there that it might be, that might put some women off. Attraction is more complex than liking someone’s face.

          This article was also very heteronormative. Do the same dynamics work when both parties are women? Men? I’d be very interested in that, especially if it’s not the case.

        • bella lis

          Wrong. Im Asian and prefer a manly Asian man over any other race any day of the week. Alpha Asian men are the best no question. Ever.

      • BLKPOWER

        white women are not attractive at all that’s why they spend so much time telling us how beautiful they are because if you hear something enough times you’ll start to believe it

        • any day now

          I am white and native American, I look predominantly white and am pretty offended by all this. I am not anorexic, bleach blonde or well off. I would absolutely love to be a dainty, delicate Asian women or a beautiful ebony goddess lol its not always easy to be a plain Jane white woman. I find all men attarctive. I feel like if everyone wants racism to end EVERYONE needs to end it. I’m constantly bombarded with how unspecial I am, how a person of another shade deserves this or that more than I do simply because I’m white. When does it end? I personally haven’t done anything to anyone so why am I being punished. My children are white, my year old daughter recently came home and told me she just wanted to look as good as *****(the Asian girl in her class) because everyone is nice to her and it must be because she’s special. I didn’t say yes she is just like your biracial best friend, I said well maybe she needed a little extra love today…..just like everyday. Why can’t we just treat people like people?

          • tuk

            but i hardly find men of caucasian race attractive because of their strange body that shock us rather attract us. they hardly get thai normal girls but end up dating even dark skinned prostitutes with african face that are very ugly in thais’ eyes. our thai women of light skin race never walk with your white guy.

          • Jason Picton

            100% you are one of the pathetic Thai males butthurt because your women prefer foreign men, stop drinking Lao Kao, stop fucking your 12 year old nieces and stop having Mia Noi’s and maybe your women will like you guys.

          • JohnnyMangoes

            Your own son will look Asian and face the same discrimination you and your wife harbor.

            Your son will be just another Eurasian serial killer.

            http://www.longingfordeath.wordpress.com

          • Jason Picton

            LOL anotherbutthurt asian guy, your issues will not be our childrens issues, we are not bigoted we just point out the butthurt comments by those who are being rejected and attack others.
            Its white women BITTER at white men with Asian women.
            Its black women BITTER at black men with White or Asian women.
            Its Asian men BITTER at Asian women with black or white men.

            So those are the 3 that are BITTER.
            White women, Black women and Asian men. They are the ones trying to blame and shame others with guilt labels and tactics, when the faults of their undesiribility lies with themselves.

            :)

          • Haha

            True, always these three types of people trying to shame others for their choices. Likely the result of deep-down insecurities. I have yet to heard about White men publicly shaming White women for dating Black men.

          • Kiwi

            Have you seen the Cheerios ad with the Black man, his White wife, and their daughter? The ad’s Youtube comments was filled with so many racist, hateful posts by insecure, bitter White men that the ad’s creators had to close the comments section. Now you’ve heard.

          • Jason Picton

            Go back to NZ.

          • Kiwi

            I’m not from NZ, retard.

          • Jason Picton

            Exactly, so now you understand how it is to be judged on no information, as you did to me and my family.

            You assumed by son will come home one day to his mother and cry about it. You made so many assumptions, false assumptions, one my wife is not his mother, he is 23, he gets alot of interest from women, especially asian women because he is half white, and eurasians generally get the best traits from both races when mixed. You wipe the egg from your face loser hahahahaha

          • Kiwi

            “he gets alot of interest from women, especially asian women because he is half white”

            Have you ever told your son the only reason Asian women like him is because he is half white and that if he were fully Asian, they wouldn’t like him? What did he think?

            Have you also ever told him why he’s not the most desired kind of man because he isn’t fully white? Again, what did he think?

          • Jason Picton

            Again you are jumping the shark because much like western/white women you are angry that YOUR WOMEN are seeking out others than yourself.

            Now the reason more and more asian women seek western me, particularly white men has nothing to do with race or colour and has more to do with how much better they treat women when compared to men from asian cultures.

            Nobody said asian women do not also find asian men attractive, you are just a typical butthurt asian guy who is annoyed that any asian women dare prefer outside their race.

            You are a racist.

          • You Know

            Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,.;’,.,.,.

            http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

            http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

            http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

        • KLB999

          F**k you, you racist shithead.

          • BLKPOWER

            So because i don’t find white women attractive i’m a racist date whomever you want i could care less i’m just not attracted to white women

          • KLB999

            Making overarching negative statements about an entire group of people based solely on them being another race is racist, yes. I don’t think it’s right that white features have been “sold” by the media as being most desirable but I believe that has been changing and I don’t hear anyone saying all white women are beautiful or all white women claiming to be beautiful. To say that ALL white women are unattractive is really lame and entirely different than saying you personally are not attracted to them. I am attracted to men of all types though not all members of any type.

          • Dimples 76

            Yea white women are put up on every bill board. If black women was put up on all the bill boards, television commercials, magazine ads. Black women would be the most desire.

        • Dimples 76

          I agree that why they are so unsatisfied with there bodies and spend all that time in the gym

        • bella lis

          BLKPOWER. your name says it all.

      • BruceBeer

        They do this to pander to White females who have a lot of spending power, and to irritate that great satan, the white male. The Black females who are left out are just collateral damage, well worth it if it reduces White male power.

    • Morgan O’Brien-Bledsoe

      Do you call a relationship a person? I call it a thing. Hell when i wasn’t sure how secure my relationship with my now husband was i called it a thing. Now it’s a marriage.

    • cletus

      You sound jealous. Get over it.

    • Olivia H

      lol I though that was a weird comment too. but I think she meant having something rare. As in the relationship is a rare thing. I doubt she means asian men are rare….i hope. lol

    • LynetteB

      Honestly you took the words right out of my mouth. Immediate same thought/reaction. An otherwise insightful article with a shitty, fetishistic, objectifying, sexist quote as a conclusion. Which undermines a lot. Unfortunately.

    • WHITE GUY

      All the asian girls I know have white fever.

  • Jesus

    Hey , This paper is awesome! I found it almost enlightening, I was wondering if it’d be possible for you to fix the typos so that I could possibly cite it for a paper? Thanks

    • thenewmasses

      Hey, Vesko, if you want it proofread by a native English speaker with an English degree, I’d be happy to do so, just reply to this and I’ll send you a proofread draft. I work in translation and proofreading so, not a big deal. :)

  • anon

    Funny. I always thought it was because asian women were exotic and beautiful and looking for bigger, ahem, “items” and also white women are also looking for bigger “items”. Under my theory, we’d all be after black guys if white men hadn’t forced them into slavery and prisons – now why did they do that?! ;-)

  • thenewmasses

    “The social order with white males on top in this country is alive and well. A white male can marry anybody he wants and he will never be subject to the same kind of social and societal disapproval a woman would,”

    I would argue there is one and only one exception to this: if he wants to marry someone five or more years older than him.

    Obviously the reasons for disapproval are totally different: he’s seen as squandering his traditional privilege by not using it to get something that’s traditionally desirable.

    Also, I think this had a lot to do with the shockwaves created by the Lennon-Ono marriage… lot to unpack about the reaction to that union at the time it occurred, I suppose…

    • TheHusband

      too bad most white males aren’t that good looking, so they’re have trouble marrying an attractive woman of any race. an attractive asian or latino male would have more marriage options than most white men

  • thenewmasses

    You know, even the world “masculine” comes from 19th century American writings on race that sought to distinguish Black men from white men who sought to embody Victorian ideals. The former were “masculine” which had the connotation of “brute” (this actual word was often used, not surprisingly given the status of black men as chattel) strength – versus the white man who was “manly” – cunning, intelligent, civilized, a paragon of reason and taste, a caretaker and patriarch. I was reminded of this reading what this essay says about the closest Korean equivalent of “masculine.”

    Here’s where I read about “masculine” vs. “manly” in the 19th century, very interesting read:

    http://www.amazon.com/Manliness-Civilization-Cultural-1880-1917-Catherine/dp/B000OPG4J2/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1416035658&sr=1-2&keywords=manliness+and+civilization&tag=donations09-20

    • memorious

      masculine (adj.) mid-14c., “belonging to the male grammatical gender;” late 14c., “of men, male,” from Old French masculin “of the male sex” (12c.), from Latinmasculinus “male, of masculine gender,” from masculus “male, masculine; worthy of a man,” diminutive of mas (genitive maris) “male person, male,” of unknown origin. Meaning “having the appropriate qualities of the male sex, manly, virile, powerful” is first attested 1620s. As a noun from mid-15c.

  • Love&Light

    This was a very good read. Most of the stuff I already knew, but it’s nice to see it all written out here. Also, the first few lines I laughed when the person told that lie to try to justify their own ignorance. Saying it is due to the heights of the “races” as to why some are perceived as more attractive (i.e. more masculine/feminine). Yet, the average black American is 1/2 an inch shorter than the average white American, for both males and females. And Europeans are generally the same height or taller than the average Africans.

  • Machu

    Trish O’Day is the character’s name in Romeo Must Die. That’s Aaliyah homie.

  • Suhana

    Wait— Asian Guys are the hottest guys…I’m south asian, I don’t understand this?

    • Ali

      By asian men, they meant, chinese, japanese, korean etc..

      • ScrumpDlicious

        Is that true? The article doesn’t distinguish between East Asian and South Asian, though it quotes Professors Sharma (South Asian American) and Yuh (East Asian American). It thought it was pretty interesting, especially considering how in the general public discourse there’s almost zero discussion of non-white-centered interracial relationships, especially between Black people and Asians/Asian Americans and Pacific Islanders.

  • Vesko, thanks for this really interesting post. A friend shared it on Facebook—I showed up expecting something superficial and provocative, but you’ve located a lot of interesting statistics and research, and you also talked to real people to hear their actual thoughts, instead of only speculating. It’s really fascinating to compare people’s self-identified reasons to what others (including a few commenters here) think are acceptable or unacceptable reasons for being attracted to people of different ethnicity.

    I’m from Toronto, where more than half the population was born outside Canada. The attitude attributed to Millenials in the Pew study you cite seems to extends across age groups in Canada: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/canadian-attitudes-toward-immigrants-conflicted-poll-says-1.2826022

    In the Atlantic provinces, 86 per cent said they would be comfortable if someone of a different ethnic background married their best friend, while in the prairies that dropped to 71 per cent.

    Being ethnically half-Asian myself, I’m inclined to cheer for happy inter-ethnic couples, no matter what reasons they had for getting together.

    I’ve also spent some time in Beijing—anecdotally, I think it might be useful to distinguish what you saw at NUS from the U.S.-located cultural dynamics you discuss in the rest of the article. An example: ethnic Asian women in the U.S. may have a complex attitude towards (also for instance) white men that mixes “mainstream” (or Hollywood-filtered) American views with the Asian concept of masculinity (depending on things like how long their family history in the U.S. is…anywhere from 0 to >100 years!). Women in Singapore or China, etc., among an Asian majority and with a distinctly different and smaller pool of white men available, may exhibit similar preferences, but for very different reasons. The comments from Sheryl Berardinelli and Cheryl Judice begin to hint at this.

    As I’m sure you’ve found, there’s a lot of interesting social science work in these areas. The founder of OK Cupid has been going around lately promoting a book he published—I wouldn’t be surprised to find it has some interesting data behind it, but not nuanced and careful thinking like yours.

  • Hereandthere88

    Interesting article and based on research! I really like how you don’t point fingers or present a biased view against interracial dating; many articles I read on the subject talk solely about fetishism as a means of saying people should stick to their own. You state that if you have an inclination to a race, it’s about you, not them. Then you take it one step further, not hating on the people who have those preferences, but examining the possible reasons behind those preferences. It could be fetishism, it could be upbringing, and it could even be pure, simple attraction.

    I’d be interested in reading a similar sort of (research-based) article on the subject as it relates to homosexual relationships. I am a young, Latino-white male (identify as Hispanic) with a preference for Asian guys. I get a lot of flack from people saying that it’s an “Asian fetish,” while failing to understand that not all preferences are based on fetishism or imperialism. Over the years, I’ve thought a lot about why I have these proclivities, but in the end, I always arrive at the same answer: “The guys I’ve dated, I just found attractive.”

  • Longduckdong

    that’s not Anthony Michael Hall (2nd picture from the top) – that’s “Long Duck Dong” the Asian foreign exchange student.

  • galaxy

    No need to be shock of asian man n white woman.. walking dead glenn n maggie are a great pair!

    • OmarBelushi

      Their relationship isn’t that exposed though.

  • Kavansurf

    That is not Anthony Michael Hall (above) as is pictured but is Gedde Watanabe

  • Baakus

    Yet there are still many people who benefit from the status quo who’d adamantly state that the imbalances are somehow just “natural preferences” and shouldn’t be questioned because “attraction is mysterious” or some other self-serving BS like that.

    Great article.

  • Liz

    Great, but that’s not Anthony Michael Hall.

  • Daniel

    There is an absolute skew in Western society towards White beauty as desirable; however, I would argue that societal views on ‘physical compatibility’ is also, and perhaps, larger (at least with heterosexuals) to blame. I think the author hinted at this, but never fully fleshed it out.

    I think a big part of what attracts us to people is this inherent desire to be physically compatible. I’m a good-looking, vaguely cut, quick-witted White guy. However, I’m also pretty short (5’7 on a good day), and no matter how funny, smart, or charming I can be, I have yet to find many taller women to be attracted to me. I’m not Dave Franco, but I do think I’m more attractive than a handful of my taller counterparts. Even women who are maybe an inch or two shorter than I am tend to also prefer men who are closer to 6′ (the fascination with 6’0 is funny to me).

    If also goes both ways. If a full-figured woman at 5’10 was attracted to me, I would likely not be immediately attracted to her, either. So this isn’t some pity party, it’s more of an observation I’ve made in my personal experience. Basically, it takes much more work to overcome perhaps a lot of these subconscious desires.

    Hearing Ms. Campbell say “I don’t have very many expectations other than he being taller than me so I can wear my high heels” really reinforces this notion. If Asian men are generally on the smaller side of the spectrum and Black women are on the larger side of the spectrum, the difficulty of transcending race only adds to the idea of overcoming this difference in physical compatibility. However, since Asian women tend to be smaller and Black men tend to be larger (fuller, if not taller), there is much less inherent discomfort with transcending the racial barrier if you feel physically compatible with the person. So the idea of a stereotypical Asian male with a Black female seems much more at odds than any other combination.

    I think this is less of an issue with homosexual relationships, which I agree with one of the commenters, I think it would be really interesting to see how racial attraction forms with members of the LGBTQ community.

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  • Cruntdrugger

    Well, glad to buck the stereotype. I’m an Asian guy married to a white chick.

  • Duck

    i have a giant cock so i don’t care

  • kiyone

    I’m Asian. Men are essentially all the same: human regardless of race or ethnicity. it’s the individual person that determines how i feel.

  • Tamela Anderson

    This “study” is very slanted, because they used sub-Saharan faces to rep the black faces. These are some of the darkest complexions on the planet. They should have used a plethora black people from different places, because our skin tones are so diverse and range from ivory to blue. I feel that it was another study to undermine the beauty of black women who age better than any other race.

  • Paul

    Very interesting read! I have discussed this with my friends who have acquired, just as I lately, a taste for Asian women. I myself am a white male. I never really believe the interpretation that it had to do with ‘nature’. Your social constructivist interpretation clicks with me. I am certainly not biased to dating interracially, though I am currently dating a white women. I must admit that generally I find black women less attractive. So the view expressed in this article is probably true for me I am afraid :s

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  • rogerthat

    Well. Stereotype is based on statistics, right? These common perceptions dont just come from thin air. Blacks as a population tend to commit more violent crimes and tend to be more aggressive, look at worldstarhiphop (Its not us, the blacks themselves want to be portrayed that way). Whites are more likely to hold powerful positions, (Obama included). And Asians are more likely to be good at math and be more docile because of their culture teachings.

    • JJ749

      Have you ever heard of self fulfilling prophecy? And are you taking economics into account? Socioeconomic and culture (including systematic oppression) has more to do with these factors that race. I’m black and I’ve never in my life committed a violent crime and I most certainly do not want to be portrayed this way (nor does any other black person I know). While you’re right that stereotypes don’t come from thin air, your post perpetuates stereotypes.

    • JJ749

      Also, why do you choose to include Obama as solely white instead of biracial? Also, I can list very many blacks (men and women) that have “held positions of power”.

    • Moose_Master

      “Well. Stereotype is based on statistics, right?” No. They have very, very, VERY, loose ties to reality if anything but they are definitely not based in fact. Maybe actually look up what stereotypes mean, I mean you are using a device connected to the internet after all.

    • disqus_OccN1ivZOx

      Correction poor people tend to commit more violent crimes. Take any race and/or ethnic group (group A). Take two sub groups of group A, one of middle class status (or greater financially success) and one at or below the poverty line (neighborhood with would probably be the best). Regardless of race and/or ethnicity you will see the same results. Violent crimes are more publicized when they occur in african-american communities because there are more poverty stricken african-american communities in big market/media cities (although they exist throughout the US) than poverty stricken communities of other races/ethnicities. African-Americans have been systematically disadvantaged. Their issues are deeper than skin color, it has to do with generations of oppression, tradition and miseducation. This is even more apparent when you consider the fact that “black” people who’s family is of non-american decent are considered to be the ideal minority along with asians. This means that they experience a higher rate of financial and academic success than other ethnicities/races who are considered to be minorities.

  • Rhonda J

    I have been reading the most recent conversation and have concluded that disgus_g is either an idiot and/or can’t read. He has been provided academically and socially sound information in response to his misinformation…But Alas!….to no avail Folks save your breath on this one. SMH #hehasinternalizedhisoppression

  • sdgirl

    Im a white female and my bf is asian. I have always liked asians and there culture. White guys and the families bore me.

  • russjosephs

    While I understand the point of this article and think it’s interesting and relevant, the author definitely has an agenda, and it’s obvious that every person, no matter their ethnicity or race, has certain preferences that could easily be branded as offensive. For example, in trying to portray the ‘other side’ of the spectrum – aka Asian males and black females – one of the men says he likes black women because of “their bottle figure. I like how smooth their skin is.” He then went on to speak about the appeal of their body curves, lips, fuller figure and skin color. “No matter how old they get, they always look young.” Now, imagine if a Caucasian or black male talked about why he likes Asian women, but only in physical terms. He would be branded as a fetishist with yellow fever. This shows clear bias, which doesn’t make for a good argument overall.

    • Baakus

      The author chose a bad example of a guy who seems to fetishize a race of women, only difference being that he does it AGAINST societal trends rather than with them. It’s still wrong, however.

      But I am certain that the author is not saying that one type of fetishization is preferable over another; he just chose a bad example.

      His greater point is that there are reasons that certain IR pairings are more common than others. These reasons are often steeped in traditional racial prejudice, and because of that, they warrant a critical examination and questioning.

      However, there are many who benefit from the status quo, and they would rather shout down these types of issues so that they can enjoy their unfair advantage in the dating world.

      • TheHusband

        and even with that unfair advantage, they can never seem to score attractive women of color.

        • OmarBelushi

          Not true, you’re an idiot.

    • Moose_Master

      As the author explains, this “preference” you speak of has very little to do with the physical. Granted this guy does seem to have a thing for for black women, but he is in the same boat as people who refuse to date people based on their race. In general, when people say that they have a preference towards someone based on race, they aren’t talking about physical attributes, they are talking about the stigmas and stereotypes they believe about those races. So while this dude claims to like black women for their curves, it doesn’t change the fact that all races of women can have curves. There is something about black women that he perceives as attractive that may very well be based on frankly racist ideas of black women. But that’s where I agree with you, in that its these stereotypes that lead him to his fetish.

  • [email protected]

    Rules? Nah. A lot of this has to do with the perpetuation of stereotypes. The key to life and happiness is to get past all that and get to know people, not just a collection of physical attributes. By the way, the Asian small penis thing is TOTALLY a myth. They run the gamut in size just like anybody else. Race is NOT an indication of whether someone is good in bed. You can find both selfish and/or attentive/exciting lovers in every color.

  • maddy0308

    We were at NUS at the same time! I noticed this phenomenon as well, thank you for actually doing the research and writing it out in a more articulate way than I ever could!

  • nilbud

    Retarded

  • Jarred J

    Great read! Enjoyed the thoughtful commentary

  • Mandi Bramer Pennington

    I think you seriously misunderstood “Sixteen Candles”. Long Duk Dong (played by Gedde Watanabe) doesn’t propose to Samantha Baker at all in the movie. Other than their initial meeting where he says, “What’s happening, hot stuff?” he doesn’t even show any interest in her. Instead he very quickly finds a “new, American girlfriend” who happens to be white and equally as interested in him as he is in her. In fact, Samantha complains, “Donger’s here for five hours, and he’s got somebody. I live here my whole life, and I’m like a disease.”

  • Fernando Pessoa

    I was surprised when I read in the US black male/white female couples exceed white male/black female couples by a ratio of 2.3; in my country we don’t collect ethnic statistics (it’s illegal), by my perception is that the opposite happens: it’s quite common to find a white man married to/dating a black woman, but not so common the reverse.
    But further down the text this idea is somewhat contradicted. Sociologist Cheryl Judice says “A white male can marry anybody he wants and he will never be subject to the same kind of social and societal disapproval a woman would.” Wouldn’t this make black male/white female couples rarer than white male/black female ones?

    Also, I don’t think “It was common for British colonizers to have relationships – or even whole families – with Indian concubines”; if that was so, then those British colonizers would not recognize the offspring, because British family names are rare in India and Pakistan (and in former British African colonies). Can anyone quote a famous Indian/Pakistani with British family name?

    The Portuguese, on the other hand, did marry natives, and gave their surnames to the offspring. Many Sri Lankan family names are Portuguese (Fernando, Perera, Mendis, Fonseka, Rodrigo…) — even though Portugal lost its possessions there in 1658. The same in India, and not only in Goa (which was Portuguese until 1961): the Mangaloreans (of which Freida Pinto is an example) have mostly Portuguese family names, even though they escaped Portuguese rule between the 16th and the 18th centuries.

    • Baakus

      Remember that just because a White male has the social freedom to date/marry whomever he wants doesn’t mean that he will necessarily do so. It means that he will get to choose his “favorite minority group” and nobody will be able to say anything about it. Currently, White men’s favorite IR group is Asian women, and the media does everything it can to favor that by emasculating Asian men and constantly showing AW in relationships with WM.

      I read that in South Africa, there are more WM/BW couples than the reverse, so essentially, the mirror image of Black-White IR couplings in America.

      Racial ideology is always made to fit the conveniences of the dominant group. In a Black-majority colony like Brazil, intermarriage between White colonizers and native women was necessary to maintain the White population, so race became a more fluid identity. People could “marry into” Whiteness because if they couldn’t, then everybody would be “Black” within a generation or two and the White dominant class wouldn’t be able to hold onto its position.

      In contrast, a Black-minority colony like the U.S. enforced rules like the One-Drop Rule, which greatly penalized anyone who would start a family with a non-White. They could afford to do this because Whites outnumbered the non-White population and they could keep to themselves without much demographic consequence.

      • YourHusband

        um i don’t actually recall that many IR examples in media of WMAF, especially not one where the AF was actually attractive. plus, i’ve seen some positive examples of AM and do not recall any “emasculation” either. it’s funny when people bring up these points and always fail to include specific examples. and for the record, notice how white men tend to pick the asian women who aren’t considered attractive by asian men? and either way, the most attractive asian women will always go for asian men, as asian women are naturally inclined to be more attracted to a high quality AM than any white male.

        • Baakus

          Lucy Liu, Brenda Song, Jamie Chung… These Asian actresses are treated as the hottest mainstream Asian American actresses and they are exclusively paired with White guys.

          If you can’t see the emasculation of Asian men in American culture and history, then you are being willfully blind. You seem reasonably intelligent so I won’t assume that it’s due to stupidity. And no, Glenn from “The Walking Dead” doesn’t make everything okay.

          • YourHusband

            except Lucy Liu is kinda ugly, and Brenda Song and Jamie Chung are nothing special without makeup, plus they are not even good actresses. They have never appeared in a good movie as a lead role.

            either way, you seem to ignore the importance of real life; after all, you can always come across attractive and masculine asian men in real life. besides, it always seems like the asian women who date/marry asian men seem to be more attractive than those with white men.

            and remember that most white americans are rather stupid and uncultured, so their take on what men from another part of the world should be like is simply a reflection of their own ignorance, which simply makes it obvious why the rest of the world despises white people from america.

  • chanchan

    My father kicks serious ass and even more so since he married a white woman and had four kids! Once again someone in my family disproved yet another facebook read

    • OmarBelushi

      except this didn’t happen you’re making it up

  • Snow

    So i am marrying my Dutch by passport, Chinese by ethnicity fiance. Me being a cosmopolitan white woman who has dated around the globe and him being the person i have zero doubt about. Apart from crazy smart and understanding, he happens to be super fit and hot, and we have amazing chemistry in and outside bed. He happens to be Asian and i happen to be white, and we live in a very multi-culti place. Pains me to see how different some people perceive and are perceived in an interracial relationship.

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  • Michelle

    I have always been perplexed by this phenomenon; this isn’t my first time hearing about it. As a Caucasian woman I am repeatedly surprised by the reaction I get from other women when I express the opinion that I find Asian men the most attractive. Always have. That’s not to say I don’t find attractive men who are Caucasian, African, etc. I just generally find many Asian men to be handsome and they always gave me butterflies when I passed by in school. (Too shy to approach!)

  • Realist

    I would really like to see the 600 facebook profile pics before I agree with this article.

    • I hate stupid people

      EXACTLY. All the white people in the study were only of British descent. I suppose this author thinks all white people have either red or blonde hair too. And way to generalize Asians. I know some people who find Chinese attractive but not Japanese etc etc bc it’s all preference. Indians are asian… yet look nothing like someone say… from Korea! So which Asians are you trying to generalize? All of them? This article is so stupid, ignorant and inaccurate. Don’t try to tell me what all 6 billion plus people on the plant prefer based on what 40 people prefer you idiot. Everyone is different with what they like. I mean seriously… 40 different individuals looked at 600 different faces and their opinions represent the preference of over 6 BILLION people?? Not to mention how attractive were these people representing the 600 faces? Maybe one of the 20 guys who looked at the 600 faces prefered Italian girls but there were no pictures of Italian looking women so he choose a picture of an Asian girl over a milky white skinned English woman with freckles. Or maybe the Black men in the study happened to be fit and young while a lot of the white men were out of shape and a lot older. People choke these BS studies down our throats and then general society just eats it up without question. I hate stupid people.

      • Realist

        A horse face in any race would not be attractive. I have seen men from different races who I was attracted to or whom I considered good looking. I have also seen men of different races who I wouldn’t take a second look at. It all depends on the person/face put in front of me at that time.

        • Moose_Master

          I’m pretty sure the author explains that these “preferences are not simply the function of attractiveness, but have to do with the racist disposition of the observer.

          ‘Love is not colorblind, Sharma admits. However, to claim that height and shape or symmetries of the face make some races more desirable than others is a “complete baloney,” she says.

          If you think of Asian men or black women as less attractive than other races, it is because of you, not because of them, Sharma says. Since the day you were born, different influences on your mind – the bedtime stories your Mom read, the cartoons you saw as kid, the school you went to and the wallpaper on your computer – have come together to create a cohesive image of the world.’

  • I don’t like this. The Asian man excludes white girls by making broad generalizations that they’re too clean and skinny, and the black girl admits she wants something “different.” Yet a white man says he doesn’t want a black girl because she’s too curvy or loud, or a black man says he wants an Asian girl because she’s different, it suddenly becomes a bad thing. This article’s bias is proved with the dismissal of Lennon and Ono’s marriage as simply based on Ono’s “exotic” features, while the Asian male and black female couple at the end are glorified by the author. White men are not glorified in every Asian culture or social class – many Japanese families don’t want their daughter to marry a white man. This article fails to mention this dynamic in order to prove its own point.

  • sick of bogus studies

    the study is bunk… you had BRITISH people as the ethnicity representing all white people?? Most white people don’t look anything like the Brits. What about Italians, Greeks, Spaniards, etc etc… who look NOTHING like a British person. Most of Europe does NOT look British and contains a multitude of curvy beautiful women and masculine looking men. Do a study with all THOSE people instead of putting an ethnicity in a “box of how a race should look” (ie: all white people look British) and you’ll probably find there are too many different looking people from every race to even know which is which anymore! Regardless, do a study that has a better representation of each race instead of 600 people where the 200 white people are all either Scottish, English, or maybe Welsh…

    • Moose_Master

      I don’t think you know how studies are ran or how their results are used. The 200 in this study do not represent ALL white people. That’s moronic. Its used to get an idea of the general attitudes of white men. The study its self most likely used research from other studies that used different samples and drew similar conclusions of white men. So the results you see and their explanation does not claim to on its own tell the entire story of white men, but confirms existing data that already supports this claim. That being said, maybe another study might show differences between the groups you chose, however the fact that this study didn’t specifically separate each group into their own special category does not make this research any less legitimate. If nothing else, the study you described is pointless by your admission.

  • BH

    I don’t agree with a lot of this. I do believe that society and media has shaped our concept of attraction toward various races, however, I don’t think the ONLY reason males are attracted to Asian women is because of their submissive, male-worshipping femininity. Sometimes there are biological reasons for liking what you like. I am a white male who is mostly attracted to non-white women. Sometimes this includes Asian women. No part of me wants a submissive, shy, kowtowing, man-pleasing Asian woman. I am, however, attracted to certain physical attributes that Asian women generally possess ie: healthy hair, youthful skin, petite structure etc. Yes these are generalizations, but if and when a hispanic or black woman possesses these traits, I am drawn to them as well. It has nothing to do with how society has shaped my preferences, it is simply what magnetizes my attraction at a biological level.

  • Charles Vise

    I was married to a beautiful Filipipina for 10 years until we were divorced 3 years ago. I tried dating White American women after that, but what a disaster! American women suck. I eventually married another Filipina, and I am happy again. Of course, you cynical types will start hurling your stereotypical “he married her because she is submissive” or “she married him to get a green card” BS… But the truth is, we married because we are in love. Anything other than that is none of your business.

    • SuperShrug

      Well, you also got 10 years of cultural immersion, kinda hard to stop eating sinigang and adobo after that long.

  • SuperShrug

    I watched night court when I was little and decided I wanted an asian wife.

  • Thing

    Why is it necessary at all to justify or legitimize who you are attracted to? If we are not attracted to physical features of some person, ought we feel ashamed because we are socially/psychologically conditioned to have a certain preference? The notion of a purely conditioned preference is certainly not the whole picture anyway. The important thing is to not make someone else feel uncomfortable to be with a particular person. However, whether certain interracial couplings stay outside of the norm or become more common, who really cares? If you’re white and it bothers you that a white woman is dating a black man.. you’re racist. If you are white and only want to date other whites, well that is your preference.

    • Moose_Master

      Wow you actually took the time to write this ignorant mess. Did you even bother to read the article? Its not a “preference”. And to answer the question of who cares, I would guess the people who actually read the article cares?

  • Tim Davila

    Where do hispanics fit in this?

  • filthyswit .

    I’m a White man who likes Asian women and I think it’s BS when people say I have a fetish. I wasn’t even born during the Vietnam War and have never thought of them as being submissive. I just think they are cute and typically have less of an attitude than white or black American women.

  • gam69

    How about penis size?

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  • Zahara Weng

    Interesting article. Shed some light on the origins of most ethnic stereotypes. However I feel positive that we’re growing in a generation that approves of interracial dating. It’s sad that people can’t look beyond race and just focus on who their attracted to oppose to how society will view them.

  • greta

    interesting one but preferably true. if you look around standards of beauty, femininity and masculinity still did not change (more advantage in the courtyard of the whites) well, I guess as a Filipino it is more of survival instinct that most Filipina women wants someone white as there is a stereotyping that they have dollars in them or maybe because the white men are more open minded and not so traditional than the asian male counterpart so the higher level of education of asian women they will also seek someone who can understand this evolving image of new “asian women” so unfortunate, that sometimes the expectations are also opposites as the “white men” tend to stereotype that “asian women” are more meek and timid and submissive as preference for bride.

  • jakatak

    More simple than all this overly detailed phycology work, it comes down to ideas of PENIS SIZE.

    For men it doesn’t matter, a vagina is a vagina. But for women it very much does matter and the following hypothesis follows exactly the results of couples shown in the article above. Hate on this idea but I think it is real. I live in Asia as a white man with many non Asian female friends. They straight up are not ashamed at admitting this.

    From largest to smallest (real life averages): Black, White, Asian.

    Asian woman can only go up in penis sizes from their local Asian men to whites to blacks. White women can only go move up to black men, but would be moving down if they went with an Asian man. Black women can only move down, from black men to white men to Asian men. Sure you never really know what is between a guys legs but the assumptions are real.

    • Anon

      This is exactly what I was saying!! It’s real simple!! I’m a white girl who has dated whites, asians and hispanics and there’s a big difference and I haven’t even gotten to date a black guy yet. You left out the hispanics, but I think it goes like this from largest to smallest: Black, Hispanic, White, Asian.

      :-)

      • OmarBelushi

        You’re not a girl or white.

    • YourHusband

      except some asian men are larger than the average white and black men. women will generally assume the asian is well endowed if he is one of those buff masculine asians, and not scrawny or nerdy. either way, women care more about how the man uses it as opposed to the size (as long as it’s average at least).

  • bulli sot

    my girlfriend is black and I’m Cambodian.. she date me because I’m human..

  • Cosmo

    “If you can come up with an example [in movies] where an Asian man is shown in a sexual role with a white woman, I’d be shocked. Shocked!” Sharma says.

    Hello? The Lover (1992), extensive erotic scenes between Jane March and Tony Leung

  • xpsychoxsammiex

    Hmmmm im white and i prefer Asian men and i know several girls like me are we the the exception to the rule or someing

    • Baakus

      Generally, yes. In the American racial system, Blacks are hypermasculine, Asians are hyperfeminine, and Whites are in the ideal middle. That’s why when Whites, as endogamous as they are, choose to be in IR relationships, it’s usually White women with Black men and White men with Asian women. But we don’t see a lot of Black women with White men or Asian men with White women, because that’d be a “step down” in terms of femininity/masculinity.

      • OmarBelushi

        that’s bull and you know it

        • Baakus

          Of course I know it’s bull. I’m just outlining the existing racial myths with regards to inherent masculinity and femininity.

  • ladybird

    This article was supposed to be on interracial couples who are White and Asian. Why did you bring in the Black element?

  • BSDetector

    People need to worry about themselves and not who other people are dating.

    • disqus_OccN1ivZOx

      We our social animals it is in our nature

  • Mick

    I think this is a good question: if women where the ones who initiated relationships, would this situation be reversed?

  • Kelly

    In all fairness, I am from Canon City area and those people are just weird. But I like the point you make definitely. If I hadn’t had moved to China and met my boyfriend, who is full blooded Chinese, I think I would have never realized the truth of this and that what people think they know about Asians is not true at all. But it is clearly a matter of how society forms our thoughts. I never considered dating Asian men but I had dated Mexicans, Blacks, and Whites. But then it stopped being about what people look like and more about how people treat you. And I discovered that they way men treat women in America is astoundingly different than how women are treated in Asia. And I experienced more kindness, respect, devotion, sincerity and care from my boyfriend in China than I did from any boyfriend I had in America. And they were the exact things you listed here. Not because he was Chinese but because of his own cultural values of what family and relationships mean. I think most American men, in some way, have the same relationship values and they are far different from the Asian relationship values. Thank you for writing this. We need this heard and changed. Well done.

  • Katie Zagraniczny

    Regarding the disparity in on-screen profanity: if the n-word is included in the count, surely the influence on those percentages would not be minor. It would be interesting to find out what words were considered profanity.

  • Andrew Wilfred

    Thanks for the interesting article. I’m not entirely sure what to take away from it, but it’s interesting to see how choices have evolved (even in my short time). Cheers man.

  • jak

    Really, in an article about stereotypes, you wrote that America’s view of masculinity is a man on a horse with a gun or a man protecting his family with a gun? Im sorry but thats just not true. Why is okay to put rediculus stereotypes on white people when you are trying to point out the stereotypes cast on Asian males. Stereotyping goes both ways. If you don’t think it should be done to one group, don’t do it to another group. That only keeps the problem going.

  • Rage N Asian

    Interesting article. As an FYI, Im Korean, married to a white woman. My friend is Chinese Japanese, married to a whit woman. Another acquaintance is Filipino and married to a white woman. Anither friend is Chinese and married to a white woman. Sounds to me like we are finally coming out from living sheltered lives. This world is getting “smaller” in that it’s easier than ever to travel to other countires and learn about people and their culture firsthand….and that we are more exposed here in the US because of the educational universities, etc…. Maybe a little more research should be done as well.

    • OmarBelushi

      None of you are Asian men and none of you are married to white women look like men

  • Ian

    I despise the term “reverse racism,” because the phrase implies that racism against whites is somehow a lesser offense. Will we still call it “reverse racism” when whites are a minority in America?

  • Todd

    This tribal mentality is sickening to me. I’m white, from the South, but my wife of 24 years is AfAm. We were blessed with 4 lovely kids, but almost none of my extended family accepts my wife and children, which disgusts me. Almost feel like leaving the U.S. and moving overseas to a better place. My wife has three sisters, two of whom are married to Filipino men. I don’t see what the big deal is…

    • Anon

      You should move to Puerto Rico. Just a thought.

      • Anon

        Not because you are doing anything wrong, but because you don’t feel comfortable in the U.S.

  • Caitlin

    This study could do with some socio – historical perspective. Consider factors like:
    a) females have traditionally married outside the tribe / region while males have stayed put (global phenomenon)
    b) property is largely patriarchal in distribution, males marrying within the tribe / region keeps the wealth close.
    c) some religions / traditions restrict females e.g. it is easier for a muslim male to marry a non-muslim, than the other way round.

  • Elizabeth

    Great read. Very informative research and history, although I would criticize that Dr. Nitasha Sharma’s subtle implication that biology does not play a part in human reproduction is wholly false. Although no one race is more desirable than another, clinical studies have consistently shown that immune system compatibility, body and facial symmetry, the natural inclination for genetic variation (that we unconsciously seek to expand beyond our heterogeneous gene pool) and many other biological factors help us chose our mates. Yes, there is no debate that our societal, cultural, education and many other sociological factors decide our preference, but please do not downplay the natural and biological aspect of human reproduction.

  • dc

    And then there are these reasons: http://aiyaweb.com/2014/dating-chinese-men/

  • gwen

    wow. this article. good written article about many subjects in mind and coming from my perspective. I am a very tall (over 6 ft) and very white woman. I only find asian men attractive. and nothing against the article but i do see these patterns time and again. and also see asian men not having interest in me.

    so… Sarchet, you are full of shit. don’t assume every white woman is clean or without curves. and campbell, you are not free spirited as you say, you still want a “TALLER” man like EVERY woman. I have no shame in dating asian men who are 7 in shorter than me.

    the most attractive and rewarding relationships is to have more bigger women being proud and willing to date smaller men. That is the next level beyond interracial dating.

  • TokyoMommy

    “If you can come up with an example [in movies] where an Asian man is shown in a sexual role with a white woman, I’d be shocked. Shocked!” Sharma says. How about “The Lover.” Classic White female/Asian male romance movie.

    • OmarBelushi

      Never heard of it.

  • Linda

    One of the best articles I’ve come across so far amongst all of the myriad of useless ones that pop up on my Facebook newsfeed. Fantastic work, this was a really thought-provoking article.

  • SalmonFillet

    The part I don’t like about this particular entry is that it kind of goes out of it’s way to make claims counter to existing stereotypes – and thus falls into the trap of adhering to new stereotypes. Cultures aren’t monolithic, and groups of people aren’t all of the same shade either. The way to combat stereotypes isn’t to tout everything that runs contrary to existing ones (and deriding everyone who fits into existing stereotypes is harmful too), it’s to acknowledge that every individual is different and that categories may sometimes point towards statistical tendencies but do not ultimately define what everyone inside that category is like. The goal isn’t for everyone in an underprivileged group to make a unilateral shift, it’s for everyone regardless of what group they belong to to have the freedom to be who they want to be and not be pigeonholed.
    Combating stereotypes isn’t about pushing a particular group’s agenda, or about a particular group assuming primacy over others – it’s about individual freedom.

  • Sick of stupidity

    Being an Asian male (and older now) who is already and naturally very introspective, analytical and deep thinking on social norms since I was a kid……..not to mention I was born in poverty striken Detroit IL, raised in the most segregated state where racism is a right (Milwaukee, WI), educated in an intellectual and ethnic melting pot (Washington, DC) and now living in superficial SoCal, I feel I have always viewed things from the outside-in (even while being ‘in’ with both the majority and minorities, while growing-up until now).
    With this said, I have also studied silly, yet interesting psych/sociology courses and agree with the analytical breakdown of the article.
    BUT, as I have grown-up in all environments, I realize………we ALL (enthnic groups) segregate ourselves, be it for comfort reasons, ignorance, insecurity (aka pride in your ethnic background disguised as ethnic superiority) yada yada.
    With this fundamental driving-force……NOTHING will change. EVEN IF Asians come into power and enforce media changes in society.
    THE FACT IS…we (we as in ethnic groups) will be just that, ethnic groups. We will always be treated by the powers that be (institutionally) as the typical generalizations and also ‘those’ people, as it should be if you segregate and have ‘pride’ in your ethnicity.
    Just think about it…
    But don’t even get me started on how Asian-Americans (as a whole…are largely connected with, surround themselves around people who are Asian – as most other groups do and segregate themselves from others – those others whom they are wishing would accept their Asian ethnicity). This inevitably shapes your personality, character, attitude, perspectives etc. And thennnnnn…as a whole…shapes what the public thinks of you (you as in Asians, Blacks, etc.).
    F being Black, Caucasian, Latino, some form of Asian etc. IF YOU ARE AMERICAN…YOU MUST ASSIMILATE AND ALWAYS REFER/THINK AS YOURSELF AS AMERICAN FIRST.
    IF YOU THINK YOU’RE ASIAN, TRY TO SILO YOURSELF AS ONE AND EXCLAIM (WITH PRIDE) THE DIFFERENCES…YOU WILL BE TREATED AS ‘OTHER’. THAT WILL PROPEL YOU TO CONTINUE ON THE PATH OF ‘ACTING’ AS THE PERCEIVED ASIAN.
    So shut up and assimilate or accept and proclaim your difference. Can’t have your cake and eat it too.
    IT’S PRETTY SIMPLE……..YET EXTREMELY HARD.
    :)

  • Dina Anya

    “different” is thrilling I could date anyone even though i am black dating a black guy we come from different tribes and I like to put that in everyones face… lol

  • Freedom Mushaw

    I 1 million percent agree with everything here. I have been saying very thing in this article for years. I also note that though in Asia, masculinity is defined differently, femaninity is also seen different and the value of looking more western. Black or African women in Asia will see a decrease even more. But it must be understood that it’s not solely racism that the Korean population created but (just like this article states) an influence injected by the white male hegemonic society of the times.

    Wonderful read and I am going to share it

    I am with a Korean American. And I say that I have always had Koreans in my life (since I was 6) but understanding the Asian male has been a journey. I hear the comments from other men that have tried to take me away from him based on his ethnicity and those comments show me that they are horrible people. I also hear the comments from Asian girls (old school ones)-shrug get over it there are more than6 million Asians in the world, this one in a million loves me. The other heart breaking thing is how Asian men have degraded themselves. This breaks my heart more. I have met guys who have said things like “she has yellow fever, she’s not really interested in you”. They are never Worley the time. Because they are just like the men who degrade them. Too busy focused on race not humanity. Who are you to say that a woman is can’t be attracted to you because you happen to be Asian. Asians are attractive ppl. If you can’t accept you are attractive to other women that’s a self esteem issue that will cause our relationship serious trauma.

  • Freedom Mushaw

    Some of the comments below show a reading issue. When the writer states things like “exotic” or puts it in quotes they are referring to things others have said not that the writer or others in the article agree to it. The writer is not racist they are simply telling you what other people have used to describe things and that those people have the mind set. Let’s put accountability and words in the correct persons mouth.
    The views of how white women look and how black women look is not of the author.

    Jeesh

  • miss_chevious

    I’m not going to defend the racist caricature that is Long Duck Dong (ugg), but I will point out that he is actually very sexually successful in the movie. He meets a white girl (Marlene) at a party and she becomes his girlfriend and they engage in some very suggestive behavior. The main character even comments on how ironic it is that he has a date and she doesn’t. I think the character generally fits into the author’s thesis, but getting details like this wrong undercut the point.

  • Lily

    “Most of them are really skinny. I’m not really into anorexic girls.”
    Being skinny doesn’t mean being anorexic, when people will get that ?

  • Audrey

    I think it is silly to still objectify people in this way. Like interracial is a cool trend rather than just seeing people for people. I know Asian women and not all are submissive. Not all white women are skinny and emotional. Not all white guys are macho. And not all Black guys are hypersexual. This is kinda offensive to everyon. People just need to get over the difference in skin color

    • Lily

      Exactly what I thought. Plus, even though the article is about the United-States, I think that what you wrote applies to Europe as well.

  • joshua

    This article is written very poorly and lack insight. It’s like the studies have been cherry picked just to make it appear like it was well researched. Truth is people can be attracted to anyone they have an instinct with. Whether that instinct is physical, emotional or sexual. Also, it failed to analyze the economics of a person, some do not marry or have a relationship because they are attracted to a certain type of race, some are attracted to social status.

  • Joseph

    I have an asian father and a white mother so myth debunked

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  • asianz

    Interesting article. You explained why white women don’t date Asian men is due to stereotype. But you did not explain why Asian men don’t date white women. Is it simply that they can’t get a date with a white woman at first place, or Asian men don’t find white women attractive due to some reasons?

  • Samantha

    I don’t know about you, but I think white men are becoming more rare. In terms of exposure, all I see is ads and billboards today are Asian people. There are so many Asians (China and India), aboriginals and blacks where I live. It’s amazing when I see a white guy. It’s like they are slowly becoming collectors items. The girls here go crazy over the white guy when we find one. Especially the Asian girls. LOL I live in Canada where the population used to be predominantly white. I was even saying to my friend the other day that it does not make sense that French is our second national language. It should be Chinese!

    • asianz

      I don’t know where in Canada do you live. I guess maybe in Vancouver. Move to Toronto where you can still find plenty precious white men. You can also find white male every where if you get an office job. Especially in middle and upper management positions.

      • Samantha

        I have been to Toronto, and it is full of guys from India! And no need to get so sensitive, I am not the white girl you so desire. My parents move to Canada when I was only 4 so maybe I am a white girl trapped inside an Asian body!

        But maybe I can tell you why I don’t like Asian men! Soooo old-fashioned in ways that only benefit them! They raise families like it’s a dictatorship! And why would I put myself through that when I known the Asian guy you are with would much ratter be with a white girl!?

        But being old-fashioned is nothing to be ashamed of as long as you add a bit of flare. I mean I also like white guys that are old-fashioned. But there is a difference. White man that are old-fashioned are the sort of man who takes only the best of the past and innovates it to fit modern-day standards.

        He sees the good and the bad from the past and present, electing to keep certain things alive while letting go of those that should have never existed in the first place. In other words, “a modern-day, old fashioned”.

        • asianz

          All I can say is good luck to you and hopefully you will meet an old fashioned white guy that you worship so much. Hopefully he won’t treat you like a fetish thing nor ask you to be a docile housewife. Since all white men are so sophisticated in your eyes, this may not happen to you. BTW, I don’t desire white women nor women who act as if she was ashamed of her culture. So no thanks.

  • K

    … Glenn and Maggie from The Walking Dead. Are you shocked? Not as crazy as you make it out to be.

  • Baganov

    “I set off to answer the question, What informs our perception of beauty? Is there really something profound about face shape, height and body features that defines attraction? Or, is beauty merely a social construct amplified by popular culture?” You had clearly already decided what the answer to that question was, seeing as you made no attempt to weigh up the argument that physical features influence our perceptions of beauty. Interesting though how at the end a woman says: “I don’t have very many expectations other than he being taller than me”.

    Anyway, my main purpose for commenting is that I’d like to point out that even if stereotypes of different racial groups have influenced how attractive we see them, the stereotypes that you talked about involve prescribing to racial groups characteristics that are already established as attractive or not, so it doesn’t actually show that ‘beauty is a social construct’. For example, you talked about how the stereotype that black women are masculine started, but that would only influence our perceptions of black women because we already see masculinity in women as unattractive. To show that beauty is a social construct, you would need to show how society has made masculinity in a woman seem unnatractive and that we don’t naturally find it unattractive.

  • Jonathan Chen

    …wow. Don’t you know that white women age quite…swiftly? At least to Asian men, who don’t age as quick…?

  • R

    Curious where Indian-Americans fit into all this.. Ideas?

  • truth seeker

    In America we are brainwashed! The stereotype is Black Men are the most Manliest. And Asian Women are the most Girliest. What that means… is how u perceive it.
    Believe it or not.. we are also subliminally brain washed to think Black Men have Big Dicks and Asian Women have tight Pussy.
    And black men are big and tuff and protectors. AND Asian Women are very feminine and family oriented.
    Believing both American indoctrinated ideas they both would be the “ideal couple”
    #indoctrinationofanation

  • truth seeker

    Im an Asian male 29. Born and raised in Oakland CA. Up to my mid 20S ive usually aimed at typical Asian Women. Recently I aim for black/Latina women.. I think its my subconscious realizing from experience that when it comes to personality black and latina women are generally friendlier and easy going and open minded and curious. Not a preference. Just a natural attraction of nature for ones self! Its about 2/3. Difference with black women being the majority of my likes. Black women from most walks of life… :)

  • live$die in Chicago

    You know there is scientific evidence that blacks people have much more testosterone than asian men(it’s pretty obvious)….that is probably the reason …

    • Baakus

      If it were purely about testosterone (assuming that your claim is true), then Black men would be considered the most desirable type of men.

      But outside of some extreme porn categories and a tiny minority of non-Black women, Black men face a ton of discrimination as romantic partners, especially serious romantic partners. Look at all the data in online dating. Some Black men do even worse than Asian/Indian men.

      Once again, the “White standard” is idealized and normalized. Asians are too cold. Blacks are too hot. Whites are just right. How awesome for White dudes! It’s such a surprise that in a system that White men have set up, they always seem to come out on top.

    • OmarBelushi

      That’s not true, and has never been a scientific study.

      • live$die in Chicago

        On average, yes. Come on, just look around.

  • surprised to see the K-1 “Fiance” visa and no mention of the reality show I’m forced to watch called “90 Day Fiance”. Ugh i hate that show.

  • sarah

    Shocked, really? Watch “Mao’s Last Dancer”. Not only is it a recent movie with an Asian-male romantic lead, and some quality ballet scenes, but it is a true story as well.

  • Yen

    Selfie is a tv show with an Asian male lead and white female love interest. Unfortunatley it was cancelled. Its was a great show!

  • Chris Okoye

    Asian women were seen as “War Trophies” during after WWII. Not much has changer since then though.

  • Bill Dellaport

    Yeah lets not get married or be with someone for the right reasons, lets be with them for the wrong reasons (race). Love???!?!?! What’s that. Naaaaaa,

  • Cassie

    I’m a Black woman dating an Asian man. Whether we like it or not, stereotypical representations have a lot of influence on our respective (dis)comfort with gender identity throughout of lives, and on how we are seen and interacted with as a couple. Your piece is comprehensive & spot on. THANK YOU.

  • poikilos

    Articles like these of fail to mention another stereotype and it seems to suggest that the dearth of asian men white women relationships is mainly because white women are not attracted to asian men. How about if asian men don’t find relationships with white women worth pursuing? At least in the Filipino community, there seems to be a prevalent belief that white women are not good marriage material and the probability of marriage ending in divorce is higher when men marry white. In fact, often when talking to Filipinos and I mention that I’m divorced, the next question is almost predictably “Is your ex-wife white?”

    • Baakus

      Sure, some Asian men may not want to be with White women, but given the general nature of Asian male discontent, this is very unlikely to be the case. Because if all that was holding Asian men back from evening out the interracial disparity was their own personal choices, then they probably would’ve started doing more IR dating by now. But that’s not what’s happening. A lot of Asian guys are angry because they think that they’re not only almost completely denied opportunities to date/marry outside their race, but also reduced to competing for a smaller pool of women within their own race due to IR dating/marrying.

      There are 3 forces that work against Asian guys:

      1) White guys who bash Asian guys in the media and social circles, both of which they still largely control in a White male-dominated society

      2) Asian women who internalize racism and idealize White men at the expense of Asian men

      3) White women who also buy into the anti-Asian male myth and don’t even see Asian guys as remotely possible romantic options

      • YourHusband

        but there are reasons who those forces fail:

        1) it becomes obvious that those white guys are insecure and possibly jealous of certain asian men, so it actually backfires and makes THEM look bad. after all, how would they know? they may not even be friends with any asian men. besdies,anyone can see for themselves that most white men aren’t actually that attractive or desirable themselves

        2) but those are only the ugly asian women with low self-esteem who never got any attention or respect from asian men. notice how the most attractive asian women seem to end up with asian men

        3)some asian men are just inherently attractive (see godfrey gao), and white women will not be able to help but find them attractive. if anything, many asian men don’t find the majority of white men to be attractive.

        • OmarBelushi

          Why is most of the crap you type such, well, crap?

  • BestInTheWorld

    Dont see why people worry too much on who dates who. As a white guy Im generally not attracted to black women. Though im friends with many of them and will(and have already) helped them in need. It really doesnt mean im racist, it means that the lot of you are bigots who gets upset if someone doesnt find you attractive so you cry racism. You cant force people to date whoever……

    • Helen

      lawl. it’s because you’re white and you’re on the other side of the fence. you don’t and won’t have a problem in the dating world.

  • BestInTheWorld

    lol

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  • nicholas smith

    fuk this racism

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  • Fat Freddy

    WOW, how about these stats: The US military sends tons of single men overseas who by nature want to date someone and come back married. Look up the facts. The single military women do the same thing, except wait… there are so few of them. How about this fact, in areas where Japanese or Chinese companies send tons of single men to the US, you see them coming back with wives. This guy needs to do real research. He could start with some basics in “Research Design” reading. JUNK!

  • shmiggen

    The big losers here are yellow males and colored females. Both white and colored men poach off of the yellow men’s women. Also, colored men still have colored women and some white women. White men also have white women. Colored women are pretty much stuck with colored men, and yellow men are pretty much stuck with yellow women.

    • Ebony in Inwood

      Colored?

    • OmarBelushi

      screw off doucher

  • jazzman07g

    Every black dating website I go to and I’m choosing 99% Black women 1% Mexican Women; there is always these white women want to message me, etc. The whole premise of the site is to date black people…I wish they get it through their thick skull…WE DON’T WANT YOU!

    • OmarBelushi

      Mexican women can be black.

    • Austin Mabry

      Haha. Racist!

      If the premise of the site is to date black people, isn’t that where one would expect to find people who want to date black people?

      And wouldn’t those people include white women who want to date black men?

      You’re a special kind of stupid.

      • jazzman07g

        Another racist child who think their logic is some how logical…..If black people go on a site that caters to their needs to date other black people then, why is becky there? If becky wants to date black men then go to an interracial website…and stop irritating us…Also, the only racist are the ones who started the system of racism. You can’t victomize a group of people and then called them racist because they love each other..so, pass me with that bullsh!t you are trying to say……

        • Austin Mabry

          You just called me a racist, and then said I can’t be a racist, because I didn’t start the system of racism. Which is it?

          Are you saying that it’s okay to exclude Becky based on her race? Because that’s pretty much the definition of racism.

          You, sir, are a racist and an imbecile; with a massive persecution complex, and a healthy side of hypocrisy.

          Douchebag.

          • jazzman07g

            I see you are still on your marry-go round wanting attention. Stop bothering me and go play with the rest of the racist greek kids….

          • Austin Mabry

            I like how you’re trying the “I know you are but what am I” approach. I didn’t realize I was speaking to a 7th Grader.

            Racist.

          • Staci Watkins

            Its is NOT racist to not want to date white people or any other race. As long as I’m showing respect and treating people as human beings should that’s what matters. No one is obligated to date outside of their race to prove their not racist. that is some bull.

      • Staci Watkins

        No! There should not be whites on sites like black people meet. If white people want to date black people thats fine but match.com and plenty of fish.com would do for that purpose. I have a problem with white people ( its white women really )going on sites specifically for black people, to hook up with black men. it seems as if they cant stand that black people might be trying to meet each other. thats a problem.

        • Austin Mabry

          The question of what races of people are allowed on racist dating sites is up to the owners of said racist sites.

          It seems to me that the only people commenting about not being able to “stand” something, it’s black racists who can’t stand white people dating black people…

          What do you have against white people, anyway?

          • Staci Watkins

            I have nothing against white people. And nothing I said should’ve provoked that question. What I have a problem with is when back in the day ( Im married now so it doesn’t matter) I would go on a black dating site and I would have white women in message boards telling me that I dont belong there because they created it on the site to meet black men. Excuse me? this is black people meet for crying out loud, how could I not belong anywhere on that site. Also, we will not agree because there is nothing wrong or racist with black people or any other race or culture having a site where they can meet singles of their own culture without having to do searches for them.

          • Austin Mabry

            That’s not what you said. What you said was, “No! There should not be whites on sites like black people meet.”

            You’re the one telling people they “don’t belong” based on their race.

            “If white people want to date black people thats fine but match.com and plenty of fish.com would do for that purpose.”

            Maybe, but if somebody was looking for a specific race of person, it’s only logical to look on a site that caters to that race.

            “I have a problem with white people” Well, yeah, that’s glaringly obvious at this point

            “( its white women really )going on sites specifically for black people, to hook up with black men.”

            Why? Again, they’re just being smart. If they want to meet black people, it only makes sense to go where black people are. It’s not rocket science.

            “it seems as if they cant stand that black people might be trying to meet each other. thats a problem.”

            This was just you projecting your own racism on others.

            If it were a case of a website called “Whitepeoplemeet” complaining about black people and saying they “There shouldn’t be blacks on whitepeoplemeet.com” we’d have Al Sharpton and Jessie Jackson organizing riots and boycots.

            But flip the tables and put the racism happening at the hands of black racists, and racism is suddenly, magically, ‘not racism.’

            When you are saying that people should not be allowed to be in specific places, based on their race, that is racism pure and simple. It’s no different than saying that black people should only be allowed to use ‘black drinking fountains’.

          • Staci Watkins

            lol your funny. Like I said there are plenty of black people on Match.com or any other site who are looking to date outside of their race. thats them and they have every right to do that. But no, I do not think its right for white people or any other race to come on sites set up for black people or any other culture to meet each other and horn in on that. You will not change my mind. period. See as a white person you don’t understand how time consuming it can be to go on a mainstream dating site ( which all cater to white people) and search through hundreds of profiles to find people of your race to contact. Its nice to have a site there where everyone you look up for your area is the race you’re seeking. its nice to know that if I were to message a black man on black people meet hes looking for a black woman. When I used to go on Match after searching through hundreds of profiles to find black men, I still had to ascertain if they were even open to dating black women. Like I said as a white person this is something you will never understand, and you don’t want to. Good day!

          • Austin Mabry

            “You don’t understand how time consuming it can be to go on a mainstream dating site ( which all cater to white people) and search through hundreds of profiles to find people of your race to contact.”

            You just made the point completely. It’s time-consuming to sort through traditional dating sites to look for black people to date.

            So that’s why white people would use a site that caters to black people to try and find black people to date.

            This isn’t exactly rocket science. You think that your race entitles you to a level of convenience that others should not enjoy. You think BLACK people deserve a way to easily find black people to date. But white women shouldn’t be allowed to have that same easy way to find black people to date.

            That’s racism, hun.

          • Staci Watkins

            Your being blind on purpose. White women go on black people meet to argue and be disrespectful to black woman and to black men who want to date black women. Lets not be blind, if you go on a mainstream dating site, most black dues on there are looking to meet other races. So they would find alot of options there. Now going to blackpeoplemeet is saying I understand these black people are looking to meet each other but yeah I dont care Ill go on there anyways. We will not agree. so lets just end this now.

          • Austin Mabry

            Nope, I’m not the one who’s blind.

            You plainly spelled out the difficulty that people who want to date black people have. That difficulty transcends race. It’s just as hard for white women to find black men to date on “match.com” as it is for black women to find black men on match.com. This is not a difficult concept.

            Your racist views toward white people makes you automatically think that the only reason that white women are taking the exact same approach you are, to solving the exact same problem you have, is them being ‘disrespectful’.

            You are a racist, who is angry about competing with white women to date black men.

            Good luck on getting over your racism.

          • Staci Watkins

            Lets not speak again okay, Ive already explained that black people cannot be racist towards white people, as we lack the power to oppress. Also, I dont care what ww are doing as I said earlier I am married so Im not competing with anyone let alone a white woman :) And yes white women who date black men have been the more detrimental to my life then any other type of person . I was fired from a job in the past for not hooking my white manager up with black guys and for getting more attention from black men then her. so yes a a lot of white women ( not all) who date black men are extremely disrespectful towards black women. I have so many experiences with that and I will not ignore my lived experiences to make you feel comfortable.

          • Austin Mabry

            *Yawn*

            You don’t get to make up your own definitions to suit your own narrow worldview. You are, by definition, a racist. Whatever imaginary definitions you want to make up is fine. You can redefine yourself to be Queen of England too if you want. It won’t change what you actually are.

            Basing your opinions of an entire race based on a couple of anecdotes is what racism is. I once worked with a black guy who was a complete IDIOT, and cost the employer thousands of dollars with his incompetence, and cost me hundreds of hours of time fixing his mistakes.

            If I based my opinion of all black people on that jackass, I’d probably be just as racist as you are.

            But I’m intelligent enough to understand that this guy was just a freaking idiot, and his race didn’t really have anything to do with it.

            Of course, I don’t expect you to adjust your racist views to “make me more comfortable” but I’m not going to pretend that your racism is okay, just to make YOU comfortable.

          • Staci Watkins

            You just made the point completely. It’s time-consuming to sort
            through traditional dating sites to look for black people to date.

            So that’s why white people would use a site that caters to black people to try and find black people to date.

            This
            isn’t exactly rocket science. You think that your race entitles you to a
            level of convenience that others should not enjoy. You think BLACK
            people deserve a way to easily find black people to date. But white
            women shouldn’t be allowed to have that same easy way to find black
            people to date.

            That’s racism, hun.

            Black people cannot be racist to white people, you will never get my agreement on that. I dont not beleive in reverse racism thats bullshit. So like I said we will never agree. Racism is not insults going back in forth. Racism is not a black person not wanting to date a white person or vice versa. Racism has real material consequences for black people like employment or lack there of or death.

            I didnt create black people meet so I dont understand how I think Im entitled to anything because of my race. But obviously someone did who saw a niche in the online dating market that needed to be filled. Food for thought. Your defending white people horning in on black people trying to find each other but what about the fact that MORE dating sites are catered in black men dating white women then black people dating each other. So no your argument is bullshit to me because white women can always go to blackguywhitegirl or any of the MANY other site focued on interracial dating and walla! black men there solely to date white women…. But you are either willfully ignoring that fact or you just like arguing with a black woman about shit you know nothing about……

          • Austin Mabry

            The fact that you believe that only certain races are capable of racism is only further evidence of your deeply ingrained racism. The fact that you’ve already promised to NEVER agree that racism is anything but a ‘white’ construct shows just how far you’re willing to go to avoid facing the issue of your racism.

            You needn’t have “created” the site in order to demonstrate your entitlement to it. You’re saying, in no uncertain terms, that YOU (by virtue of your race) are entitled to use that site exclusively, and that white people (by virtue of THEIR race) are not entitled to use it as a tool to meet the same ends that you are using it for. That’s an attitude of entitlement. It’s also a racist attitude.

            But by all means, keep inventing your own alternate reality, where nothing racist that you do qualifies as “racist”

            You are racist trash. You and Jazzman sound perfect for each other. ;)

            noun
            1.
            a belief or doctrine that inherent differences among the various human racial groups determine cultural or individual achievement, usually involving the idea that one’s own race is superior and has the right to dominate others or that a particular racial group is inferior to the others.
            2.
            a policy, system of government, etc., based upon or fostering such a doctrine; discrimination.
            3.
            hatred or intolerance of another race or other races.

          • Staci Watkins

            I will not use the dictionary whites created to define racism. I will use my own lived experiences. You sir are the racist and I see you still wont address that more interracial sites exist than sites just focused on black people. Talk about that hon :) Also I dont know who Jazzman is, but like I said I am married to a wonderful black man so I dont need to seek out any other men, thanks though :)

          • Austin Mabry

            “I will not use the dictionary…”
            Surprising no one.

            “…whites created…”
            That’s because you’re a racist.

            “…to define racism.”
            That’s because you’re uncomfortable with the fact that you’re a racist by definition.

            Like I said, redefine “Queen of England” and make it apply to you if you want. You won’t change what you are.

            A racist by any other name is still a racist. You are a racist. How you choose to view yourself is immaterial. I don’t have any control over your denial.

          • Staci Watkins

            Im not uncomfortable at all :) Your re the one getting mad calling me trash and the like. I was actually keeping it quiet cool. Nothing you say will effect me. The story you told me about the black dude had nothing to do with anything he did to you, unlike mines. Call me racist all you like, I will never care. Ive noticed with whites being called racist is worse to them then actually experiencing racism. Its sad.

          • Austin Mabry

            You’re not uncomfortable with the fantasy world you’ve created where you redefine terms to mean whatever you want them to. Who could be uncomfortable living within their own fantasy? The moment you step back into reality, it makes you uncomfortable, and so you scurry back into your fantasy world to cower in a place where words and meanings only apply to other people.

            What the black dude did to me is immaterial, because it doesn’t define or inform my opinions of black people. Why? Because I’m not a racist, and I’m not so stupid as to use a couple of anecdotes as a foundation of understanding of an entire race.

            Being called a racist doesn’t bother me, because it’s not actually true. So again, your racist views of what “whites care about” are uninformed and incorrect. Surely there are SOME whites who would fit your description, but there are people of all races who would fit that bill.

            The fact that you have insulated yourself from the possibility that white people even COULD experience racism allows you to place white people in a ‘double bind’ where nothing they do can ever be ‘right’ in your mind.

            You believe that white people CAN’T experience racism. How then, ‘experiencing racism’ be any better or worse than something that can’t happen?

            Rational and abstract thinking clearly aren’t for you (among many other things)…

          • Staci Watkins

            If it were a case of a website called “Whitepeoplemeet” complaining
            about black people and saying they “There shouldn’t be blacks on whitepeoplemeet.com” we’d have Al Sharpton and Jessie Jackson organizing riots and boycots.

            I would have no problem with white people meet, none what so ever actually :) When I used to go on any mainstream dating site it looked like whitepeoplemeet anyways.

  • Toms ster

    this article is terrible. it missed the most important part about dating, falling in love and attraction. looks always play a part in attraction, there is no denying that. money helps too. height, ok sure. but it missed attitude. ive dated asians, was married to one for several years. its attitude. asians like the caucasian attitude. only going to repeat what was told to me so you dont think im being racist. they all told me their own cultures treat them like types of slaves. they like holding hands, kissing in public, even if shy of it at first. they like sitting together when going out dancing. before i married my asian woman, i was with a latino, her and most of her friends said the same thing about their own, attitude. they are not loving. my asian wife told me when she first came to canada she was surprised to see men proudly holding their babies when the family goes out for a walk. asian men dont do that, its women’s work only, shameful if the man does it. when we went out dancing to clubs that were mostly asian, the men hardly sat with their own women. they would sit with the men while barely talking to their woman the whole night. i never understood that and asked, she told me she is lucky that i prefer to sit with her. but all caucasian men that i know also do that. i danced with my wife while most of the other wives danced with other wives. only a few asian men on the dancefloor, they were either outside smoking and talking and drinking or playing pool or such, but not being with their women.
    that is the biggest difference i can say, attitude, how they are treated. all the other things this article spouts is superficial garbage.
    so then, the same goes for why i like asian women, its the attitudes. those with the most difficult attitude will end up alone. its not that they are to picky if there is no one asking them for them to pick from. who wants an self entitled, self serving nagging bitching woman? not all white and black woman are like this but to many to make it become the rule and not the exception anymore. sad but true folks. prove me wrong otherwise.

    • Baakus

      That is extreme ignorance on the part of your “Asian woman,” though it may depend on which specific country she is from.

      In places like Korea and Hong Kong, it’s extremely common for couples to be constantly holding hands and publicly display their coupledom. Ever hear of a “couple t-shirt?” In fact, the stereotype now seems to be that Asian guys are whipped wimps who can’t do anything without clinging to their girlfriends (e.g. holding their g/f’s bags). Either way, it seems that Asian guys just can’t win so long as White dudes are keen on Asian women.

      And what kind of club are you talking about? Was this some old man’s club in the boonies? Any club in a big Asian city will be more or less similar to clubs all the over the world: mixed groups of well-dressed guys and girls all dancing and talking, and awkwardly trying to get with each other.

      Maybe fatherhood was neglected in Asian culture (probably because a lot of the countries were really poor and the dad had to work to death to make ends meet). But nowadays, there is a concerted cultural push to stress the importance of fatherhood. In Korea, for example, one of the most popular TV programs is about celebrity dads taking their infant kids off on overnight trips.

      You also have to realize that Asians, especially if they’re immigrants, can be ignorant about their own country because things change rapidly in Asia. If an Asian person immigrated in the 1970s and have never really gone back, then they aren’t much of an authority on what Asia is like. All they will do is remember what their home country was like in the 1970s. Moreover, American society constantly tells Asians that their cultures are backwards and inferior compared to the West’s, so many immigrants internalize these mindsets in order to gain acceptance (e.g. Joy Luck Club Effect).

  • fuckthisshit

    Sarchet and Campell both sound like disgusting people. Horrible personalities, the both of them.

  • YourHusband

    this article talks too much about perception rather than reality. for one, anyone with eyes can see that most white men they see in real life are not particularly attractive, so i don’t see how they are on “top”, exactly. plus, while there are asian men who are nerdy and scrawny, there are also some who are attractive and masculine, and women of all races will find them desirable, especially asian women; after all, the most attractive asian women always end up with asian men. attraction is, after all, dependent on the individual, and stereotypes mean nothing at the individual level. not to mention much of what we find attractive is determined by human nature, and this article failed to address that

  • therain

    What a stupid article full of crap data.

    • Helen

      and it’s because of ignorant people like you who choose to be in denial and promote the stereotypes

  • moonchild

    “I don’t care about anybody’s approval. People will get accustomed. All my friends are into interracial relationships now,” he says. “White women tend to be too clean and overly emotional,” Sarchet says.

    What is this business about white women being too clean? Does anybody else find this statement to be problematic?

    • Kev Wu

      I agree. Nowadays, white women sleep around with anyone they find attractive. They’re extremely dirty and impure.

  • Billy Numerous

    The title of the article should be corrected to “Why… Asian men CAN’T marry white women.” The current title makes it sound like Asian men aren’t interested in white women when the reality is, white women (and others to an extent) simply don’t give Asian men a chance because of the stated stereotypes. It’s a sad truth that doesn’t seem will be rectified anytime soon because most are ignorant or in denial of this phenomenon.

    • OmarBelushi

      Most East Asian men AREN’T attracted to white European women.

  • MissChrisTin

    I am an Asian woman but I am not delicate and waiting to be saved. I speak my mind and keep things real.

  • Cristina Moska

    Why do asian american men and asian american women have different mating habits?

    It’s because asian-american women have high market value. As men like feminine women, asian women are desired by not only asian men but by white men, black men, Jewish men, Hispanic men, etc.

    In contrast, asian-american men have the lowest market value. As women prefer masculine men, they look down on asian men with wimpy voices, short stature, and small dicks.

    Now, why would asian-american women with high market value want to be associated with asian-american men with the lowest sexual market value? In Asia, as there are only asian men and asian women, asian men don’t have to worry about competing with men of other races. But in America, asian women can choose superior men of other races over asian geeks. So, lots of asian women marry outside the race because they feel ashamed to be associated with loser asian men.

    This is why lots of asian men go back to their countries to find mates. Back home, they don’t have to compete with non-asian men. Also, their US citizenship is a trump card. They can tell an asian girl that if she marries him, he can take her to america and buy her a big house.

    I think some asian girls feel some degree of repressed guilt for rejecting the men of their own race as lovers. Asian-american girls may choose to be friends or co-workers with asian-american men, but they sexually close themselves as lovers to asian-american men. So, they try to compensate for theit guilt by being extra-nice to their fathers. “Dad, I don’t wanna marry someone like you, but here’s a set of golf clubs.”

    In Korea, Hyundai is the standard car. But in the US, korean-americans can purchase superior cars. So, many don’t buy hyundai that is seen as an inferior product. Likewise, korean-american women see korean-american men as inferior products and rebuff them.

    This article explains the WHY.

    http://www.isteve.com/islovecolorblind.htm

    Sure, there are social constructs and racial stereotypes in the West. But all stereotypes reflect reality to some degree. China has 1.3 billion people but can hardly win anything in track and field.
    Jamaica has only 6 million people but dominates in track and field.
    There are general racial differences.

    So, even though American racial stereotypes can be crude and vulgar, there is a kernal of truth to the asian geek and the mandingo.

    Furthermore, there has been a concerted effort to reverse racial stereotypes and stress equality. But people cannot be fooled. Girls eventually find out from experience and observation that black men are most muscular and have biggest penises whereas asian men are shortest and have smallest penises. Even Japanese men get off on black-on-yellow porn.

    But how many asian male porn stars in America?

    • Nakes!

      Keni Styles!! I’ll tap that any day.

    • Baakus

      Using your logic, Black men should be far and away the most popular choice of mate. But despite Mandingo stereotypes and Black male celebrities aside, Black men are still heavily discriminated against by all non-Black races of women. See all the mountains of online dating surveys.

      The game is rigged in favor of White men. Any deviation from the White ideal is seen as too effeminate (Asian men) or too masculine (Black).

  • Guest

    Who cares?

  • Aaron Zed

    Great article, pretty straightforward why this happens:

    – White or Western hegemony for the last couple centuries, due to colonialism/imperialism (and as a corollary, white standards of beauty)

    – Effect of the media, creating positive archetypes of the superior, attractive, sexualized ‘heart-throb’ White male and negative archetypes of the ineffectual, asexual, effeminate Asian male (imagine being bombarded with these images all your life, of course your prince charming would be white)

    – Asian/Asian-American identity crisis, and aspirations to become as “Americanized/Westernized” as possible to distance themselves from all the negative, ‘lower-class’ Asian stereotypes (as can be seen in SE Asian countries where speaking with a American/British accent signals higher social stature)

    – Women being biologically wired to ‘date up’ to live an easier life (Feminists don’t kill me for this)

  • Sianna O’Connell

    As an adopted Korean-American, I found this article to be pretty easy to relate to. I was adopted by a white family and grew up in predominantly small, rural, white towns until I moved to Chicago after high school. Up until that point, I had no choice but to develop an attraction toward white males because they were logistically the only demographic I was presented with. I was always “the asian chick” in those places, got called “gook” and “chink” in the halls at school and when guys would hit on me it’d be full of micro aggressions like, “do you have a sideways vagina?”. Once I moved to Chicago, i was exposed to a large population of Asian-Americans and this was where I finally felt socially accepted for the first time. I was then able to date Asian men, black men, latin, and white men (don’t judge me, I was in my early twenties!). In a decade or so of dating, I can say that white men hit on me most under the pretense of having “yellow fever”. Black men have hit on me when they find out that the only genre of music I listen to is rap or if they (less frequently then white men) have “yellow fever” as well. Latin men have hit on me because they had mistaken me for being a latin woman. The thing with the Asian guys I dated was that they were all second generation immigrants with culturally traditional Asian parents; that being said, I felt like they judging me for not being “Asian enough”, i.e. showing micro aggressions toward me for not having Asian parents or knowing more about my biological culture. I have ended up dating predominantly white males because I am inherently familiar with them because of my adopted family and the places I spent the most time living, but I will say that white strangers (especially on the CTA) tend to be the most obnoxious with stereotypes.

    • Morgan O’Brien-Bledsoe

      “I was then able to date Asian men, black men, latin, and white men (don’t judge me, I was in my early twenties!).” Anyone who would judge you for having dated has led a sad life and is probably not a very happy person. I hope you find happiness :)

    • Baakus

      It’s not right that those 2nd generation Asian American guys judged you for not being “Asian enough,” especially since your life circumstances were completely out of your control.

      But if I may hypothesize about their motivations, I would suggest that the reason they did so is that because they were bitter about seeing way too many Asian Americans voluntarily disown their heritage in order to curry favor with White people. It’s very unfair and unfortunate that you ended up being the target of those sentiments, but those “judgments” may have been reflexive after a lifetime of seeing people trade up socially to gain acceptance.

    • JohnnyMangoes

      Always some excuse for why Asian women are all over white men. I wish you’d just come out and say Asian men are dominant and masculine for you.

      As the son of an Asian woman and a white man I feel repulsed just being in the same room as my parents – but luckily my Asian mother is dead so I don’t have to be reminded of how she served as the lap dog to White men.

      • OmarBelushi

        Shut up you creep. Nobody wants to hear your made up bs stories

  • Morgan O’Brien-Bledsoe

    The one thing i noticed that is missing is cultural stereotypes for Asian men. Men in Asia and the middle east have a stereotype of oppressing women. Having women walk steps behind them and the selling of daughters. That is the one reason i have never wanted to date Asian men even though i know its a stereotype, not true, and down right racist. And yes i am ashamed by my racism.

  • Chris Granzow XI

    “Difference in height can also partially explain the observed results, he said. Society imposes a “male-superior norm” that a man should be taller than his partner; and blacks are on average taller than whites..”

    That’s not even true. American white males are a half-inch taller on average, and white countries are some of the tallest in the world (i.e. the Netherlands, Serbia, Lithuania).

    • JohnnyMangoes

      You’re like a hound on these Asian articles. Get lost, Nazi boy.

      • Chris Granzow XI

        I can comment on whatever I want to. Get lost a-hole.

  • LB

    The writer of this article has clearly not watched “The Lover” (French 1992)

  • jay2010master

    Why not ask white men why they prefer Asians or really any race over white woman. I married a African America that wasn’t born here in the country. The reason is white woman are too demanding, have no respect, aren’t trustworthy, won’t go through hell and back to keep a marriage going, and expect everything to be handed to them. I won’t say all of them are like this but about 9 out of 10 are. A guy won’t waste his time for that crap. He has to go with the odds to a country or culture that 9 out of 10 times the lady is going to treat and respect you. American white woman did this to themselves.

  • Jerry Alan Carroll

    Blacks in America or more likely to have a problem with Asians than whites.
    and usually it is black men against Asian men and black women against Asian women. (the latter my Japanese wife can attest to)
    still can’t figure out why, but this has been obvious my whole life.

    • Asians tend to worship whites and hate blacks.

      • Jerry Alan Carroll

        Careful…your ignorance is showing

        • It’s true. I am a Black man and I have lived in Japan and China.

          • Jerry Alan Carroll

            you have just been the wrong place. there are many areas where you can go where if you’re not black you’re not getting any pussy

      • OmarBelushi

        Shut up moron. Nobody worships whites except many black people evidently.

    • Staci Watkins

      I can help you with that. Asians have a long history of opening businesses in black communities and not providing good service ( at best) being openly disrespectful ( normal) or worse. I generally have no problem with Asians however, I walk 5 blocks past the asian owned beauty supply to get to the black owned one.. why? because Im treated with respect there, Im allowed to shop in peace without being followed or harassed, because they are actually kind to me there. I stopped going to the asian nail shop because I was tired of them focusing more on talking and laughing at us with each other than doing a through job on my nails. I enjoy going to a black woman who although she charges more, she shows interest in me, takes her time with my nails and feet and once again shows she respects me.

      * I cant prove that they are talking about their customers but I can say that it appears that way, after all if your working on someone shouldn’t you be talking to them?

      • Jerry Alan Carroll

        Nice story. Bet you could not handle Hispanic opened stores either. I’ll take your stereotype and raise you another. Every black owned store i went to had loud obnoxious people who openly talked shit about whites in my own language. I literally would have a headache when I left

        • Staci Watkins

          nah I shop at plenty spanish owned stores, Ive been treated with respect there.

          • Jerry Alan Carroll

            I was referring to the fact that they, like Asians, will speak their own language in front of you. If you educate yourself you will realize that some languages sound coarse. the Korean language can sometimes sound like they are pissed off, but that is the more country dialect. the city dialect is still a tad coarse but not as much. they are NOT talking bad about you. that are talking in their own language and you need to understand that it isn’t all about you.

        • Staci Watkins

          Honestly I have never heard black shop owners talking shit about wp, after all they want white business! I will say that when I go with my husband or cousins to the barbershop they do talk about race,politics, women etc but that’s to be expected in a black barbershop. I have a wholesale food and liquor mart by my house run by an Asian father and son and they really do make it unpleasant to shop there. I mean I’m just trying to spend my money not be followed and watched and when I give you my money you act like I have something and they can’t touch my hand.. It’s rude and not a good feeling! I don’t need a round of applause just respect that’s all but last night I decided to walk down a block and I found a small discount store called Sonia’s mini mart. It kinda looked small and not well lit so I’d never gone in, in the past but I needed a few grocery items so I went in a there a small Hispanic woman grandma type and she smiled at me and I was having trouble finding what I needed and she ca,e over and helped me and when I paid she said thank you lady and made eye contact. That felt nice. I just want to be treated like I’m human not like you don’t want my business.

      • Jerry Alan Carroll

        you feel comfortable with people that look and act like you…that is human nature.

  • john san

    Skin color or more specifically skin shade has been a major thing since WAY before media even existed.
    Historically, in almost all cultures, from asia to europe, lighter skin has been seen as more desirable.. If you had lighter skin it was a sign of prestige and status. A sign of money and that you didn’t need to work. Which is why is some cultures even men would heavily powder their faces.
    If you had darker and rougher skin, it was a sure sign that you were working in the fields (for instance) and the sun had left its mark on you.
    This goes hand in had with the idea of a larger beautiful woman from 17th century France for instance. These women were able to not work, eat plenty of food, and stay “healthy”. Yes, very delicate. However look in any fine art museum and paintings will show much larger silhouettes.

    What I’m really getting at, is that there is not need to criticize or over think these things. Yes the informations is completely interesting, but at the end of the day we are humans and we are conditioned bother consciously and subconsciously from the moment we are born.
    So no matter who you find attractive or love, NEVER FEEL ANY TYPE OF WAY! Embrace what you like! And even more importantly, don’t give other people shit for their choices! Because maybe it really isn’t as much of a choice as you think.

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  • KH49

    Is there any additional research on how Indian males and females play into these relationships?

  • Shan

    I’m a white female who has always been more physically attracted to Asian men, but I’ve never dated an Asian man because I always thought that Asian men felt that white people were beneath them.. Gaijin”. I also don’t like it when people call it “yellow fever,” as that’s highly insulting to both parties. Some people prefer blondes, some people prefer thin builds, others prefer, tall people, so why not an attraction to someone of Asian appearance?

  • Ajnin Niart

    Nah is not that white women won’t date asian men and is that asian men knows we’re better off with our own women and have no interest in white women, plus why would asian men even want to date American white women ? White men themselves are running away from that type of people haha, white men are just starting to find out the benefits of dating asian women in great part thanks to the globalization of the world and advances of the Internet for easier communication. And this term “yellow fever” is clearly a jealousy term made up by white American women who knows they are losing loads of their men to asian ladies, another lie made up in the Internet by white losers women is that asian women are submissive haha no.
    So welcome to Asia my white friends feel like you’re home our women generally are nice, educated, loyal, and plainty!!!

  • Mix-A-Lot!

    That professor is wrong about white men being able to date any race without social disapproval. The assumption that the white man is trying to steal a woman/wife from another race instead of marrying for love is always prevalent, even in this article. Also, not to mention disapproval from fellow whites, who frown upon the “race traitor”. I think all miscegenation coupling faces some sort of hardship. Even if the white male faces less, obviously, but that does not mean none.

  • Deter Pinklage

    I blame white suburbia where a lot of Asians are growing up these days and getting white washed.

  • Vietnam

    Ain’t white women not interested in asian men.. it’s many asian men not interested in white women… get that..

  • Aba Abeba

    What a piece crap. Many people in Africa desire people with dark skin. The same can be said about the USA.

  • true left

    This article advocated interracial dating almost as much as it railed against it. White men dating Asian women doesn’t make them colonialists. Asian women dating White men doesn’t make them golddiggers. You have too much gender studies in your life and not enough love.

  • RacistVesko

    This is an article based on 10% fact and the authors own 90% racism. Cherrypicking movies to prove your racism doesn’t mean shit.

  • Asianintowhite

    IMO i think the opposite attracts as nowadays its all about interracial and being able to diverse into another culture and having to have a different culurtered family and mix kids are def somewhat that will bring you to be “seen” as a higher social status. Nonetheless, i personally feel that we are all opening up to the notion that we can date interracially. I love white girls and don’t like asian girls for the same reasons the white men loves asian girls. I see it that most asian men would also love to have a white girl but not a darker girl unfortunately if given the choice as the new age group of people who are evolving with social status, we too are evolving with our choices. I’m asian and my current gf is from canada :) so white girls, if you are looking for a totally whole new love story that will be exciting and very dynamic, go find yourself an asian boy:) I’m pro for white girls and asian boy relationships :)

    • OmarBelushi

      You’re an idiot. East Asian women are more attractive than mannish White women. And most East Asian men aren’t attracted to white women.

  • Amber

    Walking Dead. Asian Dude is with a white woman. but… This is the end days paradigm.

  • bruno

    Interesting, this is different in Brazil. Asian-Male are considered highly attractive to White-Women because they have a stereotype of power and success. But it is still very hard to see African-Asian couples.

    • OmarBelushi

      I don’t think that’s a thing.

  • PsyVet1

    Hey Sharma, prepare to be shocked. There are movies with Asian male and western female in sexual attraction. Here was the first one that came to mind “Harold and Kumar”. Chinese male and Hispanic female. I have seen many more Asian male/Light skinned western female and Asian male/Dark skinned western female than I have Asian male/Hispanic female but even those couples exist. People develop certain preferences while growing up. We seek out what we have learned to be attracted to.

  • OZM

    , Thank you..its really great to hear from other twenty first century thinkers.

  • Anthony

    This is so stupid. The writer is so aggressive in the point they’re trying to make. Who cares what race somebody identifies to, or what race somebody is attracted to? If you find somebody attractive, you find somebody attractive! Doesn’t the quality of the persons intent outweigh the symmetry of their face and body? So stupid :|

    • JohnnyMangoes

      This is bullshit that love is colorblind and you know it.

  • Fred

    Ridiculous, these WW2/Germany references.. as if the Nazis hated the blacks. *lol* Ppl should get a life learning proper history. Skin colour-related racism was an issue of USA, not of Nazi Germany. And it was Zionist Jew F.D. Roosevelt who snubbed Jesse Owens at the Olympic Games in Munich, not A. Hitler. Amongst members of other races, also Africans served the Wehrmacht and this on a volontary basis…

  • cletus

    Who wants a dinky little white man?

  • Bob

    Whoa, on the list of the “positive Asian Males on TV”, you forgot Glenn Rhee of The Walking Dead. He is a major one. I like how, unlike other Asian characters on TV, Glenn is allowed to develop as a complex main character instead of an unimportant sidekick. He also deviates from the Asian Male stereotypes. He is courageous (kills walker while strapped to a chair, badass right?) and moral (saves Rick), and is not portrayed as a martial arts master or nerd. He’s intelligent and strategic though, which is something different. He is not unlovable, as obviously illustrated by his relationship with Maggie. The relationship is interesting, because instead of a stereotypical interracial relationship, which is usually randomly fit into media and expected to not cause either challenging or fanfare, their relationship is very well-developed. Glenn also eventually steps up as a leader, showing Asian males can be leaders.

    One of the interesting things about Glenn’s character is the fact he doesn’t start off as such a landmark Asian Male character, but eventually makes his way there. He starts off as someone who isn’t too stereotyped, but hasn’t evolved to be an important groundbreaking character yet. The way he starts off is important, because it makes him a realistic character. Another interesting thing about his character is how much his ethnicity is actually mentioned. Instead of hiding his ethnicity and whitewashing him, his Korean background is stated clearly. This helps to correct the image of the Asian Male instead of just causing people to practice not seeing color. Although his ethnicity is clearly enforced, his belonging in America was also not challenged. He strengthened the existence of an image of Asian-Americans, instead of just Asians and Americans (assumed white), to the public. This is especially exemplified when Herschel asked Glenn about this background, and Glenn mentioned his childhood in Michigan as well as his Korean background, and Herschel responded by saying immigrants are important to America, which is true. This helps our society to see Asians as part of America, instead of perpetually foreign.

    The character of Glenn Rhee has reformed the image of Asian Males. He isn’t the Asian protagonist you would have to search for in an obscure show. He’s in The Walking Dead, one of the most popular TV shows, and he’s a main character. He’s dating a white girl (upcoming part may be a little shallow) who isn’t an obscure and nerdy girl, but Maggie, who’s extremely hot (short hair in season 2 is a little unattractive, but by season 3 she’s really hot already). This is just the best thing yet.

    Hopefully, Glenn will be a gateway for other Asian Male characters. Media can influence the way we perceive reality, which has great influence over our lives. If we start getting more Asian male characters like Glenn, we as Asian-American Males may have our identity crises solved better, be considered more assimilated, be more successful in doing jobs due to the breaking of the bamboo ceiling (Asian Males no longer looked down as being weak leaders), find pride in our heritage, view ourselves as more able, and, last but not least, get the girls.

  • KaliKross

    When early Chinese settlers came to build railroads, primarily, mostly men came, and there were few women for them to take as wives and mates. They were forbidden to marry white women. So whom do you think they married? A number of the so-called African American people, like Mae Jemison, have Chinese in their backgrounds. “Between 20 and 30 percent of the Chinese who lived in Mississippi married black women before 1940.” No one wants to talk about this… http://chineseamericanhistorian.blogspot.com/2013/08/interracial-marriages-of-chinese.html

  • Shala Meri Brewer

    I’m very happy in my relationship with my korean bf, my parents are both mixed and come from different backgrounds so they approve of anyone I choose to date as long as they treat me well

  • animefan

    I wish more women would be attracted to asian men, I don’t think that will ever happen as along as asian men are considered nerdy, small, can’t speak the language…in the wise words of William Hung, Forrow your dreams, Forrow your dreams everyone!

    • K-pop is changing that for you. You also have money and light skin. Black men, despite being promoted as masculine, are still the least-desired men in Asia, and low on the totem pole in America. we are also in a steady decline. Count your blessings, I guess.

  • andrea

    My Dad’s Chinese. My Mom’s Caucasian. They married in the late 50’s. Pretty progressive back then.

    • Baakus

      That was even illegal in some states, right? I think Fred Korematsu couldn’t marry his White fiancee in the state they were living in or something, so they had to move.

    • OmarBelushi

      No they’re not.

  • JohnnyMangoes

    The truth about white men and Asian women: longingfordeath.wordpress.com

    Just LOL, I am the son of a WM/AW, and I just beam with pride thinking about how my own mother hated Asian men – yet I’m an Asian man.

    Eurasians are the elephants in the room about these terrible, perverse relationships between white men and Asian women. Great job saying that Asian men are ugly, worthless, patriarchal, when YOUR OWN FUCKING SONS ARE ASIAN MEN.

    GOOD JOB ASIAN WOMEN!

    • OmarBelushi

      Are you that same loser pretending to be biracial going around the Internet and making up stories about your tragic childhood because of your so-called race? Because I think you are.

  • johar
  • johar

    the jealousy white guys who are becomin jealous and pathetic to view
    their white sisters are hooked up with the smarter AM, are the most sad
    puppet in this planet……the racist white girls who have a bad
    stereotype against AM without having any knowledge about any asian
    cultures, are also socalled the barbarian uneducated sluts….need I say
    more?

    • OmarBelushi

      lol somebody likes to make up stories because they have issues.

  • jo

    I’ve written a list of top 7 -9 destinations for single asian guys to meet hot girls

    1. Great Britain
    Hotness of girls: 5 stars
    Ease of communication: 4 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 4 stars
    Cost of living: 3 stars

    Girls in UK are simply hot. Blonde girls with bods are everywhere. In
    general they are more in shape then your average american girls. And
    they always put up a smile when they see a stranger trying to speak with
    them.

    2. Holland, Finland, Sweden, Poland
    Hotness of girls: 5 stars
    Ease of communication: 4 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 4 stars
    Cost of living. 3 stars

    Pretty similar to girls in UK. Girls in europe are generally more open
    to Asian guys. Most of them speaks english better then your fobby admin.

    3. USA
    Hotness of girls: 4 stars
    Ease of communication: 7 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 2 stars
    Cost of living: 3 stars

    Well if you live in US, you get the best of both world. A bit of asian
    culture, and a bit of western women, i.e. if you live in the east or
    west coast of this massive country. Not much experience for the midwest
    and the south, and not much asian influence in that part of the country
    either. All in all, american women are sexy, but their attitude towards
    asian guys can be marginally bitchy, unless you exude the vibe of a
    sexy, rich, educated guy within the first 3 seconds of meeting a hot
    women, which in itself is half the battle and a uphilled one, due to the
    sterotype general american hold towards asian male.

    4. Canada
    Hotness of girls: 4 stars
    Ease of communication: 7 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 3 stars
    Cost of living: 3 stars

    The northern neighbhour of your American counterpart, they are pretty
    similar to each other. Do you know East asian is the biggest visible
    minority in canada? To an american, canada is just a little lammer than
    us, a little colder than us, and a little less populated than us.

    5. Bosnia
    Hotness of girls: 2 stars
    Ease of communication: 2 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 2 stars
    Cost of living: 1 star

    Lots of burnett, fit and friendly. But if you don’t speak their
    language, you won’t get very far, unless you meet some who can speak
    english. Cost of living is very low there. Beware of the nationalist in
    the country, they hate everyone who’s not bosnian and especially when
    they see a bosnian girl with an asian guy. Bring a bullet proof vest if
    you want to feel safe in this country

    6. Germany
    Hotness of girls: 5 stars
    Ease of communication:5 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 5 stars
    Cost of living: 3 stars

    German girls are asianphiles. They want the exotic asian guys and they
    got bored of their german boyfriends. Just be ware of the nazis, and
    learn to speak german and you will do fine there. Very fine.

    7. France, Spain & Italy:
    Hotness of girls: 6 stars
    Ease of communication: 5 stars
    Attitude towards Asian guys: 5 stars
    Cost of living: 3 stars

    Similar to Germany, UK, Holland except if you prefer brunett more than blonde, then you would like France, Italy more.

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    • OmarBelushi

      Wow. What a load of untrue crap. White European women are ugly and look like men. Most of them get plastic surgery and are super racist.

  • jo

    AM are undateable??
    ,…..Hollywood did a brainwashing media (the racist white jews bosses
    emasculate AM in the media) and people are dumb because they believed
    all what Holylwood said to them …..if you believed in them,….it is
    your own fault

  • joe

    99% of the white asian couple is the white girl asian guy.

    Go to this link in this picture to see millions of white girls kissing up to asian guy, s-uckling their d-icks, licking their as-sholes, swallowing their c-um. 99% of white asian couple is the white baby gurl and her asian guy. [Link in comment]. sadly, asian women won’t ever do this to white males. they only stay with asian males and bred with them to make 61% of the world population.

    http://whitechickslovesasiandicks.tumblr.com/

    • OmarBelushi

      You got those statistics skewered loser. And quit promoting your gross porn pervert.

  • HQ

    This article made me understand A LOT of things. That was my theory when I kept asking why people are prefered than others whether in social life, or in the show business…….etc, but I just couldn’t find the answer…..Until now.

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  • tanaka

    i’m Asian guy so i can give you data (for non asian people who claim asian guy want their dirty sister) 99,05% asian guy marry asian women in southeast & far east country. so you all non asian person (men & women) have no reason and evidence over. And 85% asian women still marry asian guy. us asian guy dont like everyone.. just look at asian country, you rarely find asian men actually excited or going to talk to barbarian unculturalized non asian person Whatever they are tourist/exchange/expat/move and live in asian country.. most only asian women who take care and friendly to them,, just look in reality how your expat women being ignored in asia even all my friend(Asian men also) regard non asian women as “dirty poison”. its so funny how your women bullied in eastern sphere national still we not considered racist in our society lol(or maybe our society just passive and exclusive i dont know) my dad is example who clearly and openly insult english student and police just laugh around. just see how we can date or marry non asian women if our parent, friend and relative dehumanize them, and Then just ugly uneducated retard Asian men go for prostitution. until i’ve see few asian guy with barbarian animalistic subhuman white women (at bar yesterday) and i can imagine it.

  • bernard

    People have no idea and deny, how much the media shaped their believe systems. Advertisements and Movies speak directly to your sub-conscious mind.

  • Etown Brown

    Feminists say “Asian fetish” is a thing. Strange…

    I’ve never heard a feminist say a blonde woman who exclusively dates black men has a “black fetish”.
    I’ve never heard a feminist say an ethnic man who pines for only white women has a “white fetish”.

    Only white men can have evil bad prejudices! RIGHT? (sigh – they need some new material…)

    PS – If black men like blondes and blondes like black men, then I say MORE POWER TO ALL OF YOU. Do what makes you happy. Forget what other people think. Besides, I am grateful for every blonde/black pair-up and here is why: the fewer athletic, toned and handsome black men there are in the mating arena, the better the odds are for a white boy like me!

  • Brown Cowgirl

    Thank you for this article. As a black woman I am well aware of the stereotypes attributed to us and their history and I’m familiar with the stereotypes of Asian women, but I was unaware of the history and intention of Asian male stereotypes. Thank you also for moving past that notion that facial symmetry and blah blah blah are why some races are considered as more attractive. I’ve long been fascinated by the number of black men who have NEVER and would NEVER date a black woman. When these men say “I’m just not attracted to black women,” there’s something deeper going on. First, it is biologically natural for a man to be attracted to someone who resembles his mother, sisters, etc. Second, black women are so varied in every respect (skin color, body shape, weight, height, education, financial acumen, behavior, background, family structure, hair texture, submissiveness, attitude, talents, and abilities that it is impossible to rule out a whole race of women unless you have internalized the message of their lack of desireability. I believe these black men are so traumatized by their poor perception in society and powerlessness that their desire to escape from that manifests as a repulsion to women who look like them and an attraction to white women who serve as both a balm to their psyche and a boon to their sense of power.

  • Daniel

    Once you go Black you’re a single Mother

  • alex

    Why is it that in non-white cultures, the movie stars, the singers, the wealthy, and the models are more often than not, far whiter than their countrymen? Watching TV in Mexico, you’d think the country was filled with people that look Italian or Greek. From Asian fashion magazines and cultural products, you’d think the norm was 6′ tall with round eyes. Black men get a pass in this respect, it seems, but the majority of famous black actresses, pop stars, etc., are light skinned. I think breaking down barriers between races is a great idea – but an impossibly tall order when people are racist against themselves.

  • Ching Chong

    I bet if this was written by a “white American” or “white English” dude it would be overwhelmingly accept as a fact and praised as such. Even “white Asian” dudes (Russians) don’t have the same “status” as “white American and European” men and women do.

  • observer

    I had seen research that said white men with pediphile tendencies are attracted to Asian women. Having traveled in Singapore and the Philippines seeing these very old white guys with very young looking Asian women I think there is something to be said for the study.

  • It’s tedious to point out that Asian cultures promote the submissive woman ideal as much as western orientalism, but it’s also tedious to have to.

  • lu-diane

    I’ve got an Asian boyfriend and its definitely not about money! I just find him incredibly attractive inside and out :)

  • Soldier

    This happens when you have black thugs in Chicago going around shooting at kids and black thugs all across the USA poorly representing blacks. There’s a divide between blacks because of some of them having serious behavior issues that some fear to talk about because they fear of being labeled a racist. The majority of blacks are killed by other blacks and most of those are in gang-related crimes.

    I wonder if any of these kids in this video lost a father, mother, or someone in there family to a gang-related culture and maybe thats a reason they prefer the white baby over the black. Democrats think we if we ignore this gang-culture that it will magically go away kind of like they think if we ignore Isis that maybe Isis will magically go away.

  • Lindsey

    Walking Dead has asian male and caucasian female

  • T

    I didn’t realize all white women were anorexic… thanks for the update…guess I should stop eating…way to go sarchet, now who’s racist

  • SimplyPut

    I am a young white female and I happen to find Asian males more attractive than any other race. I believe it is my preference. Do I think some men are attractive of other races, yes. it’s just like when you prefer blonde hair and blue eyes to red hair and no green eyes. I’ve just always been more attracted to Asian men.

  • Lori Alayne Weber Miller

    Holy cow that video just tears at my heart you have these cute little black children identify the white doll as the doll they want to play with and the pretty doll and the nice doll and then you ask them which doll looks like them and they reluctantly point out the black doll. God that is just sad.

  • Zippy14u

    Asian men don’t marry white women? Really? I better tell my brothers (3) and my son (asian-mix) that they’s got it all wrong. “Not” Actually we’re not into to the ” stay with your own kind” thing. Love and relationships find there own path, regardless of who it is. All my relationships have been interracial and no one has ever had a problem with it.

  • lulu

    In the movie Sixteen Candles, Long Duck Dong is with a tall buxom girl when the main character cannot get anyone to notice her, he does just fine. Prepare to be shocked, the movies The Last Emperor and Anna and the King showed Asian men as sexy, at least to me :-) . Also YouTube has many sexy guys, Ryan Higa anyone?

  • Chrissy Loo

    You like who you like. Why must it be analyzed? Why do some guys like big butts and others big boobs? Why do some women go ga-ga for buff men and some like thick men? Same thing when it comes to race and dating. For most people race is never factor period, they just clicked! Me personally race, size, wealth doesn’t matter, I’m attracted to intelligence.

  • spriken

    “If you can come up with an example [in movies] where an Asian man is shown in a sexual role with a white woman, I’d be shocked. Shocked!”

    I may be wrong but I think “Harold and Kumar” had an Asian guy and a White woman.
    It’s been a few years but I know she wasn’t Asian.

  • Kittymewmew

    Being an Asian girl this has come up a lot actually as basically all my white guy friends are into asian girls and im in a relationship with a white man. when it comes down to it, I am attracted to both Asian men and White men about the same but it depends. I think one reason I lean a little more to the white side is a few bad experiences with asian men, although I did have an amazing relationship with one asian. aside from that, a lot of Asian guys I knew, especially because i went to a heavily asian populated highschool, left somewhat of a bad impression for being assholes. And yes there was a big difference between treatment from asian guys and guys of other races.

  • Jenn

    The walking dead, Glenn (Asian) and Maggie (White) . They are a HOT couple and fans love them.

  • Leslie

    I’m Asian girl living in Europe, and in the 10 years I’m here I’ve never dated a white guy, although they sometimes are attractive. It’s because I know the how marriage is valued in the very modern white society, not so much. Asians guys who had grown up in Asian families can accept a financially weaker wife without disrespect to her.

    Women tend to be in a weaker place than men because of pregnancy and protection is needed from their partners, people who are always only chasing their own dreams won’t provide this.

    Though I never think that women should be housewives and I myself is studying and working to pay it to be in the future very independent, I still value the family caring aspect of a man very very much. White men who are full of ego just can’t make me feel secure. There are also Asian guys who are too full of their male dominance and that’s also terrible.

  • Lucy

    I’m marrying my Asian fiancé this summer. I’m British, he’s Vietnamese.

    I know black guys with Asian wives, white guys with black girlfriends and other Asian males with white girlfriends too.

    The stereotyping in this article is largely bullshit.

    • Baakus

      Congrats on your upcoming wedding!

      But this article isn’t “bullshit.” Pew Research data, U.S. Census data, and multiple online dating databases clearly indicate the significant role that race plays when it comes to which groups are valued as romantic partners and which ones aren’t. This is largely the result of persistent racist stereotypes and it has to be fought back against.

  • jl112

    Bruce Lee.

  • JH80

    There are still Asian women who prefer to be with an Asian man. I’ve known a lot of Asian women who prefer to date their own Asian men than Caucasian men. And I know Asian women who are not attracted to Caucasian men. It’s really based on preference and I believe that love sees no color, but I do have a problem with interracial couples who are with each other just for the love of not wanting to associate with their own kind; therefore, they date outside of their race to avoid their people. That kind of love isn’t love but pure selfishness.

  • liz

    Glenn and Maggie from Walking Dead… Harry Kim getting it on with tons of white girls in Star Trek: Voyager. Actual movies are a bit more difficult to think of, but those two immediately popped into my head and are both very popular shows. Glenn is even shown in an extremely masculine, non-stereotypical role. He isn’t remarkably geeky, or book smart, but is generally characterized by his street smarts and compassion… so yeah. Not cold. Not feminine.

  • Enheduanna13

    “In the days of slavery when white men started having black mistresses…” is a horrific way to put it. Please call sex slavery what it is–sex slavery, or repeated rape of an enslaved person. “Mistress” implies the victim had a choice in the matter.

  • Virgoman3

    I happen to belong to the Baby Boomer generation and grew up in the 60s in Philly. I’m african-american and at an early age I was exposed to many races through school. I can honestly say that having been exposed to asians, latinos, whites….and of course african-americans at an early age, once I began to notice girls they all looked good to me….lol. I’ve dated just about every race and religion throughout my lifetime and have enjoyed every minute of it. In my opinion, anyone who restricts themselves to dating or marrying within one race is missing out on other opportunities which can offer you the opportunity to fall in love…..or have a relationship. For me, it’s a persons personality that I fall in love with. Not culture, not skin color, not race. It’s all about the personality. Too many times people want to emphasize race or culture rather than personality. Is that person intelligent, does that person have a sense of humor, is that a caring person, is that an honest person, will that person accept me for who I am???? These have been the most important questions that needs to be answered for me. I refused to let society dictate who I should choose as a partner. As a man…..I see beautiful women of all races everywhere, every day. And I want to enjoy them as much as I can…….lol…………..Just my opinion.

  • Laura Wilson

    There are a lot of stereotypes of stereotypes that the author misunderstands in this article, but at the very least the author did not do very thorough research just on the movie “16 Candles”. Not only does Long Duk Dong get a chick, he gets a big breasted sex maniac WHITE chick.

    His (her? not sure what gender Vesko denotes), worst misconception is that whites somehow purposely set out to exclude partners of other races because of their race, rather than that geee, 71% of the other people from whom to choose mates are also white.

    As if we walk down the street and go “oh NOPE, he’s Asian, no way”. That is the gist of this article and that’s just not the case for vast majority of the population.

    Further the author insists that it’s society that decrees what we find attractive rather than mere chemistry and biological imperative. There’s more to what makes us tick than society, bottom line, we’re animals and we’re going to have a natural attraction to the mate who will make the healthiest offspring. That doesn’t mean that we can’t then bring the brain into it and redirect those inclinations, but natural attraction isn’t something we do on purpose to exclude others.

    This is a just a semi-subtle version of that whole Self Proclaimed Nice Guy whine that tends to be somewhat prevalent out there in dating land. That whole “but that’s not fair, I’M a nice guy I “deserve” the girl I want (as if we’re prizes to be handed out, rather than humans with our own thoughts, desires, and needs)”.

    This attitude is old no matter what race plays this card.

  • BeFairOnAllSides

    ““White women tend to be too clean and overly emotional,” Sarchet says. “They [white girls] don’t have the curves. Most of them are really skinny. I’m not really into anorexic girls.”” —- Campaigning for acceptance and ending of stereotypes/generalizations then they proceed to do the same thing to white people. I’m a white woman and I’m curvy, and emotional, and non-emotional at times. Whatever, stop generalizing.

  • Laura

    I am a white woman in love with an asian man. Full disclose here before the internet trolls tell me the reasons for my own life decisions. I pay for him and love every second of it. What matters more to me is spending the rest of my life with someone who stands by my side and challenges me to become better. What’s important to me is knowing he and I are becoming better people every single day together. I am attracted to how thoughtful, intelligent, respectful, honest, and confident he is. Do you find more value in a person’s skin color or bank account digits? The world is a lot less overtly judgmental than you think, once you stop giving so many shits.

  • duh

    The Replacement Killers. There, I named a movie with an Asian lead and write female romantic interest. And the Asian man isn’t a martial arts master. Now be shocked, and do a little more research next time.

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  • JustSayin

    It’s funny how Hispanics are never part of the discussion. Not sarcasm. It’s seriously funny.

  • Dorothy

    I am a white woman who dated some ethnically Asian men in graduate school. Some of these men were wonderful fits for me, and I thought we were fantastic together, but they did not see a white woman as someone with whom they could pursue a lasting relationship. There is a lot of cultural pressure on Asian men to marry Asian women. It wasn’t that I didn’t see them as “masculine,” as I certainly did and got my heart broken in the process, it was that strong family and cultural influences regarded white women as dating but not marrying material.

  • [email protected]

    Yikes. I hope this article is some kind of satire and I just missed the punch line…. Mainly because it’s incredibly hypocritcal. You criticize John Lennon and Yoko Ono’s relationship and speculate Lennon was just with Yoko because she was an “exotic spirit.” Yet in the same breath, you endorse Campbell (who I am guessing is black) for dating Asian men because they are “something rare.” So it’s alright to fetishize a human being so long you are promoting a less common pairing?

  • Shantelle Lorraine Nicole Russ

    honestly I don’t see how it’s anyone’s business who is attracted to who. If you are or just not attracted to a certain race then that’s your business and your business alone. More and more people are dating outside their own race so leave the subject alone and let everyone date who they want. No one can tell me who I should and should not date. To be completely honest I’m white and I dated outside my race more often then within.

  • Lisa

    An example of a movie with an Asian man involved with a caucasian woman: ‘The Lover’. Mmmmm…a very erotic movie.

  • Lana Kuffler

    WHOA. DID THIS ARTICLE JUST SAY COOKING IN A RESTAURANT IS “GIRLY” WORK? DUDE. PRACTICALLY 97% OF PROFESSIONAL COOKS AND CHEFS ARE MEN. WTF, BRO

  • amberliin

    I am Hispanic and I love my asian boyfriend. The future will hold his loyalty, family values and some super beautiful children. Interracial dating was the best decision I ever made. Every asian man I’ve ever dated treated me like a princess. No one deserves less then that!

  • amberliin

    I am Hispanic and I love my asian boyfriend. The future will hold his loyalty, family values and some super beautiful children. Interracial dating was the best decision I ever made. Every asian man I’ve ever dated treated me like a princess. No one deserves less then that!

  • T

    This is going on in the African community as dark skinned women are starting to sell a bad image of light skinned women as skin bleachers who hate themselves. There are women who have bleached their skin and most of them can be identified by skin discolorations, but for those that are naturally light-skinned it is now imagined that there are magical bleaching processes that have transformed them into perfect light skinned women that are even more horrible and deceptive than their discolored counterparts and now the reverse is happening and light-skinned black is now seen as fake until you can prove otherwise and even when you bring your childhood picture you are told that you were bleached as a child by your mother, as if any right minded mother would do such a thing. This campaign is very similar to that of the white men against Asians and the white women against black women in this article. Now unless you are mixed race as a light skinned African woman, the authenticity of your “light-skinnedness” is being questioned because of a group’s insecurities. Why can we not just get along and sell ourselves (if self promotion is so important) without bringing others down. It really puzzles me and the fragility of the human mind that is so easily manipulated is very alarming.

    The men that now find white women unappealing and curves more appealing are still not thinking for their own-selves, they have the new popular culture craze to thank for that. Thanks to the promotion of the Kim Kardashians, j.los, beyonces, shakiras, Amber Roses and Rihannas over the years. Why cant we find our own personal ideals and stand firm in them without being influenced by trends, pop-culture and the success of racial/skin color PR campaigns. Such a sad world filled with fickle minds.

  • cee

    Sharma states that “I don’t think you can find a society in which dark skin is praised over white skin”.

    She must not know many cultures. I can personally attest – as a Turk- to the fact that in Turkish culture, darker skin is seen as more attractive than whiter skin. Maybe because a very small minority of Turks have dark skin so it’s seen as something rare.

  • Daniel

    Remember the best way to stop this racist bullshit is to expose racist people in public, keep watch in colleges, check racist comments on tumblir, and find them and expose them in public, make sure everyone know what that person has been saying on racist internet forums, protect the next generation from evil bigots. Use the internet to expose these racist people, make it so they cannot hide from their computers.

  • BLKPOWER

    most asian women are not attractive but every once in a while you”ll see a exception to the rule but mostly they are ugly little hunch back trolls trying to act like white girls

    • Jason Picton

      U fool

  • SECRET WHITE BOY YEA

    I LIVE PHYLLIS LAI

  • Leon S Kennedy

    “The 2000 blockbuster Romeo Must Die…”….

    I stopped reading after you mentioned a FIFTEEN year old film as some type of reference for this article (I use the word “article” extremely loosely). I mean, 15 years ago lots of American attitudes towards LOTS of things were different. The majority of Americans were against gay marriage and interracial marriages and relationships in general. 15 years is almost 20 years. Why would you use something that old as a reference?

    Also, you said you used 20 “males and females” to look at photos of black/Asian people, ect. So, what race were these “males & females”. You said they chose the Asian women and Black men as most attractive but what kinds of photos were used? Were the photos of black men and Asian women of beautiful people while the other photos of other people were of ugly people, for the sole purpose of getting the results needed to support this article?

    And the article is supposed to be about why white men marry Asian women but Asian men don’t marry white women. Yet the article gets so caught up in talking about whether or not black women or black men are deemed attractive. If the article is supposed to be about White men/women & Asian men/women, what do BLACK men and women have to do with this? Nothing. Stick to your subjects, which are White men and women & Asian men & women. That’s all you should be talking about & supporting with evidence and references. Also, you didn’t use enough people to experiment with. I’m not going to take the opinions of 20-60 people as any type of evidence. That’s nothing but bunk. For all we know, they were 20 of your friends. Silly.

  • Tom

    So you managed to highlight white male obsession with Asian women, implying that it is bad. Then highlight Asians and Blacks fetishizing each other and held that up as a beacon of hope. Well done!

  • Stop Intervening

    Heck! With the way Hollywood has been portraying Asian men in movies since the 1980s, I’m glad I only stay at the Beverly Hills hotel when I’m in LA. Anyway, I’ve already given up my green card (and you white folks can cheer as much as you want) and gone back to Singapore where taxes are

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  • tuk

    western men are always with trash women from asian toilets, divorced asian women, not virign. John Lennon married a japanese woman who was not at all virgin. a western man has recently married a divorced dark skinned thai woman, an alreay used woman.

  • Lonely western woman

    Actually I think you will notice that this is actually linked to average racial size. Black men and women are on average bigger than white men and women who in turn are on average bigger than asian men and woman. Now more than ever before men prize smaller and slimmer females. This may be due to the media but that’s the way it is. Interestingly, there has been research that shows that men prefer larger ladies in times of famine and war.

  • B Butt

    I’m sourh Asian male. I see people here blaming the White girls and calling them names. You are foolish to assume that someone is racist just because of their sexual preferences. At least let them have sex with who they like.

    Finally, don’t blame whites for being globally desired. Stop desiring them, problem solved

  • Dimples 76

    The devil is a lye. Lots of non black men would date a black women. White people talk all that crop they don’t like dark skin but they all get tans. Got fuller lips and now big butts. They want to down us blacks but want to be like us.

  • Dimples 76

    Black women keep yo head up. Keep praying. Do good things. God will send you the right man. I know because i got one. Black women are beautiful.

  • Heather Ferreira

    I was in Arcadia (a very Chinese-American, affluent region of Los Angeles) a few months ago, shopping at a thrift store. While looking at a dress, I Felt Eyeballs On Me then heard a man’s voice behind me make oozy, drooling male come-on comments saying, “So pretty, soooo sexy.” I turned around and there was a Chinese-American dude, about age 55, nodding right at me with a grin saying “Yeahhhh baby, I meant YOU”. There’s also the Korean-American guy in the cardigan who stopped me on a sidewalk in Queens and asked for a hug – then grabbed the booty in both hands and said, “Marvelous.” And the Japanese-American photographer friend who wants me to marry him. I’m half-black, half-Asian. I’ve got a big butt.

    Race can put up a modest barrier, but when Man See What Man Like, all bets are off, baby! Lol!

  • ldavis

    Most black male/white female relationships seem to be based on lust and not substance. White women who marry black men are usually less educated and have a lower socio-economic level, according to the US Census data. This may explain why this group has the highest divorce rate. Interestingly, although white men and black women don’t marry nearly as often, this group has the lowest divorce rate of interracial couples in the US, according to the National Council of Family Relations. They also tend to be on the same socio-economical level.

  • redking

    A huge part of this article is incorrect and disproven by science and history.

    In Asia, white skin was a desired trait long before western or white influence. In short, despite what this article says, Asian skin preference is nothing to do with the political or media dominance of the white or formerly white countries.

  • JohnnyMangoes

    My mother was a self-hating Asian woman and my father was a racist white man.

    My brother is mentally ill and I came close to killing myself.

    These relationships are among the most evil, sadistic relationships on the planet and they will continue to produce serial killers. Three days ago a Eurasian man got arrested for planning to join ISIS. A year ago two Eurasians, Matthew De Grood and Elliot Rodger went on killing sprees. Eurasians have twice the levels of mental illness than monoracials.

    http://www.longingfordeath.wordpress.com
    http://www.reddit.com/r/hapas

    • Jason Picton

      Give yourself an uppercut.

  • MrTibbs2

    what is it when an Asian girl consistently makes an effort to come close to you? does she like me? she is always smiling at me.

  • HeidiHoNeighbor

    Not alot about this article addresses the core reason as to why, all things being equal- as in both born in the same Country, same State, same town- do they still marry. It’s not the media. It’s not a fetish. It’s not a social climb. It’s like F’ing magnets.

    The anecdotal ramblings above should be from people that are actually in that relationship. Not from spectators or people with axe’s to grind.

  • I don’t think we should treat genuine but inartful attempts to bridge the racial gaps so harshly. And to the naive young man expressing fear or disgust over homosexuality, you are not making the point you think you are. Kindness is a virtue.

  • Paul Hodgson

    I’ve been married to my Chinese wife for thirty years. What first attracted me to her was her independence and “take no crap from anyone attitude”. That she was both beautiful and Asian followed shortly. Early in our relationship we were discussing infidelity and, while chopping carrots with a cleaver very quickly she said “You’ve got to go to sleep sometime.”. Never had a white woman express that so effectively. Then I just have to have her in my life.

    • Jason Picton

      Because she hinted at sexual violence? Sounds like a reason to avoid her.

      • Paul Hodgson

        Because she wasn’t afraid to express her position on the matter. She is, in fact, one of the least physically violent people I know.

        • Jason Picton

          She threatened you, perhaps you are too dumb to see that or blinded by love/lust, her point was you will be vulnerable (when you are asleep) and she will get you back (revenge) for valid or invalid reasons and inferred she would cut your genitalia off. Thats what was said.

          • Paul Hodgson

            You have no sense of humor, do you? We were joking together. You could read War and Peace in a greeting card. Now go away.

          • Jason Picton

            Go fuck yourself and you Flipapino slut hahahaaaa

  • brucebeer

    Interesting, but some of the article and supposed research findings are inaccurate to satisfy present day notions of PC. Light skin was valued in China thousands years ago, just read some ancient Chinese poetry, etc. This is way before any contact with Whites. No way in East Asia the females think of Black males as attractive, there are always a few outliers, that is total PC BS. The article just assumes, with no apparent prof that appearance preferences are purely social coditioning, while the are numerous studies, such as with infants demonstrating hard wired appearance preferences. The article totally ignores IQ differences among the races, again asuing none, while numerous studies suggest there are sign IQ diffs, example with average Cinesr at at least # 105, and Blacks ranging from 85 to below 70 depending on the country, ect. Keep fooling yourself with this PC slanTed info.

  • BruceBeer

    This article is very PC, tending to be hostile to White males, and giving 101 sociology explanations without presenting any evidence their assumptions are true. I am a tall, good looking White guy with a Law degree, PhD in clinical psy. 4 masters degrees, speak fluent Spanish, and Mandarin Chinese. I have a high paying job and I am married to a Chinese lady who has her MD. I was looking for someone very smart, loyal, conservative, and not a critical complainer. I also wanted someone thin who was not crude, and had not had sex with numerous men. As I dated American women I found it difficult to encounter the traits I wanted. I met her at a conference and we hit it off immediately. We have been married 6 yrs and things are going very well.

  • TheKnownTruth

    Much more faithful than american women, that is for sure.

  • Lucinda Titchmarsh

    men like women, I actually don’t think they contemplate the race of a lady they’re attracted to much. I do know the feminist movement is against white men approaching asian females, this hasn’t been pushed by white females, but via the black rights section of feminism, they see a ‘white’ male approaching an asian female as ‘racist’ and ‘oppressive’ the feminist movement insists that asian women can’t and have never been attracted to ‘white’ males.

    • Jason Picton

      Bitter at their own rejection, begin the Asian lady invasion :)

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  • Jason Picton

    http://www.fighting4fair.com/uncategorized/hello-world/

    Explains alot of why white women and asian men are so butthurt.

  • Jason Picton

    Kiwi complains about asian women’s rejection yet insults asian women LOL

    “They make all Asians look bad. You can keep your wife. Nobody wants your garbage.”

  • randoms

    Your statistics kind of contradict your whole article no?

    You said 529,000 black men marry white women, 219,000 asian men marry white women. And given that blacks are 13% of US population and asians are 5%. The rate of black men marrying white women and asians marrying white women are almost identical. In other words if you pick a random black man in the USA and a random asian man in the USA, they have the same odds of being married to a white woman.

    so black men have the same chances as asian men…. so what’ the point of this article?

  • johar

    these asslicking trolls are all the way around and wanna make ASIAN MEN inferior in the media,…..the asian american women yes,…..but the native asian women rarely do it you can visit the Islam countries with a strict radical sharia law….and be happy if you will find the women who date the blonde men !

  • Rae

    Another media example was the short-lived tv show ‘Selfie’ that featured leads John Cho and Karen Gillan. I was sad it got cancelled, as I am a white woman that prefers asian guys. I really enjoyed seeing that racial pairing, and he wasn’t a martial arts stereotype either.

    • Jason Picton

      Gee do they call your preference yellow fever like they do to white guys who like asian women?

      • Harry_Hogfart

        No her preference is called Pedophilia as it is the desire for a toddler sized penis

  • Fraga123

    We must prevent race-mixing as the author suggests.

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  • gyx2k

    Black men are not necessarily more masculine than White Man, modern Europeans became gracilized as a result of industrialization, archaeological evidence indicates proto Indo-Europeans living in Bronze/copper Age were 8-9′ tall and extremely robust

    • maa89

      No it doesn’t. People that tall would have trouble balancing and would put enormous stress on their lower legs.

  • Daniel

    Edomites
    Men of Lawlessness
    Teacher of Lies
    Bearer of the Dark Flame

  • tukgada

    in true Asia, if a western man is shown in a sexual love with an asian girl, that will shock the public and makes the women in Asia feel a disgusting thing. a western man generally walks with a substandard girl in asia.

    • Harry_Hogfart

      By substandard girl you of course mean a woman with the education and self respect to not let her self be molested with a Vienna Sausage

    • Jason Picton

      Butthurt asian man alert LOL

  • Gargamel

    I have never seen a “black” person in my life. The darkest person I have ever seen has been really dark brown. That person probably accounted for .00000001% of the Afro-American population.

    So, why are people who’s skin is brown, or tan or in many cases, white….referred to as “black”. It does not make logical sense.
    The label black is negative of itself, with detracting undertones (in language, the arts, science, mathematics, etc.) that reach far beyond the descriptively inaccurate skin color mantra.

  • r

    This is just sad.

  • WHITE GUY

    ALL the asian girls I know have white fever.

  • L’Extrême-Orient

    It’s not more a peculiar trend than
    – white men with black women
    – white women with black men
    – etc…

  • Brutus

    “blacks are on average taller than whites” Actually it’s the other way round.

  • L’Extrême-Orient

    Asian women & White men are some couples who are not more bizarre/more numerous than :
    – asian guys + white women
    – white men + black women
    – black men + white women
    – etc…
    See my family below :

  • Harry_Hogfart

    Because asian women like all normal women want and deserve a mate with an adult sized penis

  • You Know

    Tons of Russian and Eastern European prostitutes in China and Taiwan, servicing Chinese men..,.,.,.;’,

    http://www.henrymakow. com/personal_story-_the_russian_gi.html

    http://www.theworldofchinese. com/2013/10/russian-performers-in-china-put-themselves-at-risk/

    http://www.thechinawatch. com/2012/02/blue-eyed-sex-for-sale/

  • Danny

    According to the PEW Research Center, American-born Asian males (41%) vs females (50%) are the highest of any minority in terms of marrying out. The big delta is between the foreign-born Asian men and foreign born Asian females.

  • White Devil

    If you ask people what is the most common interracial relation ship is I would be willing to bet that they would say black men white women. however if you look at the statistical data however, relatively speaking white woman are not paring up with black men and the frequency is quit low comparatively. pairing up with Latino men is also quit low. income inequality is to blame and more needs to be done in order to fix this disparity. men of color are left out because they are being kept from making money in America. we need to do more to bring people together for relationships.

  • White Devil

    “Why white men marry Asian women and Asian men don’t marry white women” because you spend to much time writing longwinded articles about conspiracy theories and complaining on the internet instead of going out and finding a white girl to date/marry. White guys on the other hand will do just about anything to be with their Asian girlfriends/wives and they love that. a lot! You have to be prepared to go the extra mile to get what you really want. Some times it doesn’t work out, but that’s life. Don’t stop trying. There is this perception that Asian girls are easy, and all you have to do is show up and be white. NO. The opposite is actually true, but that’s how they know you are serous, and not just messing around and that goes with good white girls too. carpe diem. I’m out. (poof!)

    • Harry_Hogfart

      Go ahead and be honest with him and tell the truth

      It’s the Tiny asian penis Syndrome (TapS),no woman wants to be molested with a Vienna Sausage

      http://oi67.tinypic.com/33c7j0x.jpg

      • Luong the Viet

        There you go again, talking about Asian penis which your mom, sisters, female cousins, aunts, grandmothers, etc…love to suck. I’m so sorry for you honky white trash LOL!!!

        PS Do you know that by 2050, the majority of Americans will be ASIAN?!?!? That’s right, honky losers. You white trash stole this land from the Natives, built it up and then lose it all for us Asians!! LOL!!!

        THANK YOU!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!

        • Jason Picton

          Obvious Luong has a small cock LOL

          • Luong the Viet

            That’s not what your white sisters said, angry white trash. Hey honky white trash, you still mad we Viet men are stealing your pretty White girls? LOL

    • Mika

      Too bad the guy who wrote this article is white.

      • White Devil

        My comment still stands.

  • Natalie N.

    I’m an Asian-American female in her mid twenties and I’ll say this…yes, I am very attracted to white guys but not for any of the reasons listed above nor for any of the reasons most of the commenters here have said. Yes, I do find many of them (if they take care of themselves, exercise, etc…) very physically attractive but physical attraction for me isn’t enough. There’s more to it and it’s pretty difficult to explain so prepare for a long-winded essay, lol.

    Simply put, I’m attracted to their hearts, minds, and spirit. What I mean by their hearts is that I notice they tend to be the most emphatic and compassionate. A lot of them don’t seem to mind adopting children that are not theirs and a lot of them don’t seem to mind marrying women who already have kids that belong to other men. And to top it off, a lot of them have no problem financially supporting these women and the kids that don’t even belong to them. To me, that’s very selfless. Also, when you look at the world as a whole, you can see that the countries that accept the most immigrants/refugees tend to be western countries (Canada, USA, Australia, and Europe). There are plenty of wealthy non-white countries in the world but none of them accept near the amount of immigrants as white countries do (case in point; the Syrian refugees), which to me, goes to show that whites, in general, have the most compassion in their hearts for other people. Of all groups, they tend to be the most common race of people I’ve seen at charity organizations…even the ones that are not rich will contribute to charity.

    I’m impressed by their minds for how they seem to want to know (and do know) as much as possible about the world around them. Whenever I’m engaged in an interesting political discussion/debate, it’s typically with a white guy. Or if I’m discussing things happening in society currently or if I want to talk about history and different cultures of the world, it’s always my white male friends or white male coworkers who are interested, making them intellectually stimulating to talk to. They seem to care a lot about worldly happenings even if it doesn’t have anything to do with them personally. There are a lot of non-white men (particularly a certain group whom I’m not going to name) who just don’t give two cents about anything that doesn’t involve them, which makes them a tad dull to talk to. I would ask, “What’s your opinion of the U.S. accepting more refugees?” or “What do you think about the censoring of the word ‘Islamic terrorist’ with ‘Jihadist’ instead in the name of political correctness?” and they would simply answer either A.” I don’t care, it doesn’t affect me” or B. “Huh? What’s going on?” White people, particularly the men, are very opinionated on A LOT of different topics but that’s what makes them fun and interesting to engage in a conversation with. I may or may not agree with their views on various discussions, nonetheless, they know how to carry on a conversation.

    I love their spirits for how passionate they are and how that passion translates to their determination in reaching their dreams. Throughout history, the west has contributed the most to the advancement of humankind by inventing computers, phones, cars, planes, satellites, rockets, microwaves, TVs, etc…and I believe it’s all because of their passionate spirits. Take the invention of the plane, for example. The inventors (all white males) were visionaries who dreamed that one day, humans can fly. Thus they poured all of their hearts and soul into this project, working tirelessly, injuring themselves badly (breaking their own arms and legs when they crashed to the ground instead of flying), spending all of their money just to make their dreams, this thing that they’re so passionate about, come true. Simply put, they’re extraordinarily adventurous about the things they love, regardless of how dangerous it may be or how financially draining it is, and they’re amazingly enthusiastic about it as well. And because of this enthusiasm, they manage to advance their civilization well beyond anyone else.

    Even average white men who are not famous inventors or innovators have a wide range of interests that they’re passionate about–a characteristic I find very unique among them. Taking my white male coworker for example; his main job is a scientist. That’s his main income. However, during his spare time, he enjoys backpacking through foreign countries, learning to read/write/speak in different languages, cooking (and his cooking is amazing, I must say), and computer programming. Yes, computer programming. He does it just for fun, no money involved. Another one of my white guy friends who is now an engineer at NASA (he was my college classmate) enjoys dirt biking (despite getting hurt several times), snowboarding (despite getting hurt several times), rocking out on his drum set and surfing (despite near encounters with sharks a few times). And speaking of college, I remembered even older white men like my chemistry professor who was in his fifties at least had a wide range of interests that wasn’t related to his job. He enjoyed living in and exploring rainforests and studying exotic animals and the way the native people lived for months on end, kayaking, mountain climbing, and to stay in shape, he liked hiking and biking. I could go on since I know several more white male friends who are similar but you get the idea.

    In any case, this doesn’t just apply to white men in my experience but white women as well. My boss is a white woman who’s also a scientist and during her spare time, she loves horseback riding, mountain climbing, traveling to different countries, and studying lions in Africa. White men AND women, in general, have so many different interests and so much knowledge about a wide range of topics, and are extremely passionate about so many things that it’s exciting and fun to be around them because they can tell me a lot and teach me so much that I wouldn’t have known otherwise.

    Of course, i’m not saying every single white man on the face of the earth are like this but many, many, many are. And because of their traits, I’m not at all surprised that they managed to built such great and advanced civilizations and powerful countries.

    Tl;dr Many whites generally have very rich and colorful personalities that make for a beautiful soul.

    • Meadows-Choi

      This is a perfect example of what we call white worship. Let’s be honest here in that long post of generalizations and it is pretty obvious you idolize white people. Not one character trait you listed can be found in people from all over this planet. You distinctively draw these positive traits towards white men as some angelic savior of mankind. Its funny how you articulated so eloquently how superficial and shallow you are. Giving the events of what’s going on in America and how fascist the GOP has become in american politics its hard to believe your not a troll.
      But here’s what I see you as to be honest

  • thai people

    but John Lennon dated a Japanese widow, not a virgin girl from Japan. in fact just with a female trash from Japan’s toilet. Why John Lennon could not get any virgin japanese girl from true Japan? Was he attractive enough in the eyes of japanese girls in general from true Japan? I am writing from Thailand.

    Western men are viewed by us Thai people as a male race type who has the poorest taste women or the most low IQ male race. Why? western men do not know how to choose but even agree to marry bar girls already used by million thai men as their official wives.Women from thailand married to western men tend to be widows with their children born out of their first thai husbands. Thailand’s interracial data revealed that the ratio of widows married to western men is up to 75%. most of them live in the poorest part of thailand, Esan State and are uneducated. This is despite unmarried thai women over married ones as thailand is a land of surplus women. thailand has variuos races and different languages.

    virginity is the most important factor that makes thai men or other asian men agree to marry a woman. it is almost impossible for sth female widow to find a new love with a new asian man. a thai woman dated a taiwanese man but as soon as this taiwanese man found that she was a widow and had a child born out of her first thai husband, he rejected her.

    I am a thai woman and work as a translator of three languages (thai, english and french). I never went to USA, and I received education in linguistic field from my local thai unversity. but sorry, I am never interested in any western men although my job involves daily use of western languages. Frankly speaking, I think western men are all alien looking people, sth ugly. That’s why your John Lennon could not date a virgin japanese girl from Japan.

    I think you should stop thinking that what is happening in USA will be the same as what is happening in true Asia. Asian american females and males are not true asian people and cannot speak their asian languges. Whatever asian americans think or do or are thought of in USA should not considered to be representative of the true Asia. And the best looking and most intelligent asian people live in Asia, not in USA.

  • Jayden Fong

    Happy to see Sarchet breaking norms, though I wish he wouldn’t generalize about other women.

  • Mika

    Asian men don’t marry white women because Asian men, unlike a lot of white men and other non-Asian men, don’t care to marry obese and unattractive women. You rarely see an Asian man (if ever at all) with a fat and ugly woman who had already been divorced once or twice with a bunch of kids. Whereas with white men–that seems to be pretty common. To say that non-Asian women aren’t attracted to Asian men really isn’t true at all. I’m an Asian female who have a lot of non-Asian female friends and quite a few of them are very much attracted to Asian guys (especially Japanese and Korean guys). In fact, I once had a white girl friend who would only date Asian guys. The only problem was that the Asian guys she was into just wasn’t into her. Another girl friend of mine (who is half white, half Latina) once told me that she specifically sought out Japanese guys but she wouldn’t mind other Asian guys either, so long as they were Asian. In the end, she married a half Filipino, half Mexican guy (and told me his “half :” was good enough for her).

    Likewise, I have several Asian guy friends who would much rather stay single than date any girl they’re not attracted to. One of my close friends who is Vietnamese-American stayed single for nearly 20 years just because he couldn’t find a woman he was truly interested in, despite the fact that he was tall, good looking, confident, and chivalrous and had girls of ALL races (even those much younger than him) throw themselves at him. I remembered one of my friends who was tall, slender, blonde, and beautiful had a crush on him and when I asked him why he just wouldn’t get with her, he stated that he admits that she’s attractive, but he rather find a woman closer to him in age and can relate to his family’s culture. There were a couple of other Vietnamese girls I knew that liked him very much but he also rejected them due to their age. So in the end, he waited it out for years before he finally got with a pretty Chinese-American woman much closer to him in age.

    He’s just one example. Most of my Asian guy friends who have wives/gfs all tend to have at least decent looking significant others who are in good shape. And likewise, most girls (regardless whether white or Asian) I know who are with Asian guys are generally decent looking and not horrific to look at. White guys (and other non-Asian guys) on the other hand…are a completely different story. It’s SO common for the white guys I know around here to get with obese/unattractive women that it’s not even funny. I get that most white-Americans are obese so maybe these guys have no choice but that’s where the difference between an Asian-American guy and a white American guy lies. The Asian guys would much rather stay single than settle for less whereas the white guys just shrug their shoulders and go with it. Even if the lady in question had divorced several times and popped out several kids and is relying on welfare.

    Asian and white men have VERY different standards. It’s not hard to meet a white guy’s standards but it’s like climbing mountains to meet an Asian guy’s. Both my husband and my father (they’re both Asian and they’re both military) often said they find women in the military to be far too masculine and generally unattractive. One of my husband’s close friends, who is also Asian and also in the military, said the same thing (he used the word “fugly” to describe them). Yet, his white buddies, who are also military, very much disagree and would go so far as to say that they’re “hot”. So one side calls this group of women “fugly” and the other side calls them “hot”. This is just another case of how glaringly obvious the differences between the standards of white and Asian men are.

    In short, Asian men simply have much higher standards when choosing potential partners, which would partly explain the huge difference in numbers between WM/AF and AM/WF relationships. It’s super common to see a white guy (or any non-Asian guy) with a below average looking Asian girl but super rare to see an Asian guy with a below average looking girl of any race. Another huge reason for the differences in numbers too is that there are TONS of old white geezers going to poorer Asian countries (Southeast Asia) and marrying those girls who throw themselves at them for green cards.

    Anyhow, read the answer to this question here: https://www.quora.com/Do-white-women-find-Asian-men-attractive/answers/15695684?srid=gvIl&share=84e2377a

    The white woman who wrote that answer is evidence as to how picky most Asian men are.

  • exsdf

    wrg

  • Marina Doshkevich

    This is bullshit. I ended up marrying an Asian man. I have dated a couple, and in general I think they are attractive. I think white men are very attractive too. I wouldn’t call myself progressive, or even liberal, and neither is my spouse, and although I hope I am not racist, there has never been a chance I would have dated a black man. I don’t particularly find them attractive. Its not that they are unattractive, I am just not personally attracted to them. And I completely agree about the tall thing. I would be unable to be into a man shorter then me, and in fact, any man shorter then 5’11” is out of the question. Fortunately, my guy is 6’2″.

  • I don’t think asian women & white men are weirder than the other mixed couples, nor more numerous than the other couples.

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  • bodhi jallil

    WHITE GALS HATE ASIAN MEN WITH PASSION !!
    Anti chinese sentiment in the USA since 1870 – 1939: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Denis_Kearney
    en.wikipedia.org/wik…e_Exclusion_Act
    it just brainwashed the brain of the most anglo white girls until today
    for not dating the Asian Men ?? this gaves a false information about
    Asian Men as well
    the negativity of asian portrait in northamerican Hollywood media for
    almost 100 years:
    en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fu_Manchu
    unfortunately, the most white anglo american gals do believe in this false image of asian people.

  • John

    Don’t let the Western media deceive you folks. They only prop up White males while squeezing the rest of us into stereotypes. If you allow these stereotypes to dictate your dating life, you will be in for a rude awakening.

  • Alicia Summers

    I am only attracted to Caucasian men.

  • Alpaca_Male

    because asian men like latinas more.

  • Jack.Foobar

    I’d like to dispel the stereotype that stereotypes are wrong. They aren’t. That’s how they become stereotypes. Babies know ugly and pretty from birth. That isn’t a stereotype. That’s a fact. The golden ratio is inherent in natural beauty. White men are attracted to Asian women from birth, and vice versa. It has nothing to do with learned behavior.

    History bears out a different reality of the first White men in Asian lands. There was no “stereotype” then, because there were no “White Men” then, yet the results were the same as you see in mixed marriages today. Attraction is at the genetic/instinctual level. Calling everyone racist and culturally mind wiped isn’t going to change that.

  • Sharonn

    By far, one of the most fascinating and intellectual pieces of information that I have consumed this year. Please write more.

  • International Observer

    The Asian guy who’s dating a Black girl…does he look like an East Asian with light skin or is he one of those Southeast Asians with dark complexion who could pass for Hispanic? Of all the AM/BF I’ve seen in my life so far basically every single one of the Asiam guys has been the latter type who could pass for Hispanic.

  • Andrew munger

    Asian men are not in high demand with anyone except gays

    • RIF

      I think Asian men are more worried about economic domination of you Americans these days

  • Larry G

    It is just best to stick to your own race. Opposites attack!!

  • karma

    They want papers, there I saved your time reading this useless article.

  • Steve Lee

    I want to know what photos of the research assistant picked for the Cardiff University study. Did they pick photos black male model or celebrity vs average Joe nerdy white and asian men? I love social science study because you can control the result based on the data you pick.

  • Epoche

    Not all stereotypes are invalid black women have demanded unequal standards in order to be seen as equals.

  • fds

    This is totally omitting the fact that Hollywood is Jewish and Caucasian male characters are exclusively seen as fat, weak, bumbling fools. Ditto the entertainment industry. Rock is dead but Rap just happens to be the mono-music America loves…?

  • aradio

    Out west or pacificc northwest, you’ll be fine with spin-slot.com . I lived in parts of Washington and Portland, OR. You shouldn’t have a problem. If anything, people will be more interested in your accent than your relationship in the west and pacific northwest. However, the same is true as it is in southern cities, stay in larger cities. If you venture out to smaller towns, go in a group (like a tour or with friends). You guys make a cute couple. Happy traveling.

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  • Colin Campbell

    I’m married to an Asian woman. And you need to consider how the opposite sex is treated in different cultures. In Asian cultures men do not treat women very well, and women are expected to treat men very well.

    White culture expects men to treat women very well and does not expect women to treat men very well.

    So when a white man and an Asian female get together – both wind up getting treated better than their lifetime experiences have led them to expect. This is the dynamic that skews the statistics.

    • Soberano Lizahope

      divorce rate between white man and asian female are HIGH compared to white and white…. just goes to show that this interracial marriage is incompatible…. the reason why there is white male asian female marriage is because of the asian fetish culture of white men… They specifically target asian women….. while asian men specifically target asian women… they rarely target white women…. it can even be seen when it comes to dating statistics in okcupid… white men rate asian women higher than their own white women…. while asian men rate their own asian women very high….

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  • Annon

    “One can only speculate how much Ono’s exotic spirit helped enthrall Lennon.” Stealing a married man from his wife and being a whore does not warrant a trophy label. The marriage was a tragedy and ending as so. Many Asian woman are throwing themselves at white men because they are desperate many times family poor or have low self esteem. White men who are undesirable or looking for money opportunities or under the false impression they’ll have family stability make it known that they like Asian woman as a mating call. Plain and simple.

  • Stephanie

    “If you can come up with an example [in movies] where an Asian man is shown in a sexual role with a white woman, I’d be shocked.”

    For starters, one of the most popular couples on TV — Glenn and Maggie (Walking Dead)

  • Frogger

    Harold and kumar go to white castle. Stoner movie as well as comentary on perceived stereotypes and cultural social norms

  • hneftafl

    Perhaps women prefer men of high testosterone levels, but not too high. Blacks have the highest, followed by whites, and then Asians. Do the math.

  • Harry_Hogfart

    Obviously the answer is simple

    Because all women no mater what race want a life mate to fill them with love (and adult sized penis)

  • luke

    I’m a Korean guy, didn’t grow up in the US. After moving the the US however, there’s this trend that I’ve noticed. Many Asian Americans do it to themselves. What do I mean by do it to themselves? Well, watch any American movie where Asians are included and tell me what you see. Asian Americans in Hollywood don’t seem to give a damn as long as they can get work. No matter how racist the script is, they seem to think it’s genuinely funny and just kind of go along with it. And as for the reason why you always see average to below average looking white guys with Asian women is simple: White guys at least have the self respect to not make jokes and mockeries of themselves. You see Asian American men basically calling themselves out on tv all the time. So why the fuck would you want to date a group who has no self respect or status in society. Now this all may sound very pessimistic or self loathing, which it may in part be, however I as an Asian guy find it extremely hard to be proud of my group when my group doesn’t really seem to care about how people treat them or how we’re seen in society. See, it’d be one thing if every non-Asian group on the planet made fun of us and we stood up for ourselves and did something about it. But instead it seems as if Asian Americans welcome racist remarks as if our culture is something to be joked about and spat on, you know the old saying ”oh they’re not racist, it’s just a joke”…. I hope that one day Asian Americans finally grow a pair and wake up to the truth that we did this to ourselves, you can try to blame a phenomena that happened forever ago but the fact of the matter is that we ultimately control how people treat us.

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